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Young Father of 2 boys who’s in a time of need. Somehow ended up lost. Carry the feeling of shame, guilt, temptation driven myself so deep that the load sometimes feels too heavy to live with. I want to be a better son, father, brother, friend, MAN. Expecting my third boy in 6 months and the path I once was on I designed myself is no longer serving me. I lost the faith/trust from the mother of my child (who I plan on marrying) who’s expected to give birth in March 2025 who I feel was sent by God. She’s everything I prayed for. Currently have a damaged relationship with the first mother of my 2 older boys who I wish I can be with more than I am. I’m scared to go down that same path. Everything I love tends to crumble. I want a better relationship with my mother/father. I want to heal from trauma I’ve never faced as a child. I want to rid myself of bad habits that don’t serve me. I’ve made a choice to join the army to give me a sense of purpose. With the timing of everything this kind of sacrifice seems to be detrimental to my girlfriend who’s due in 6 months but my intention is only to become a better character. I need God to light a path for me. Assuring I’m no longer making decisions emotionally and out of anxiety. Since the loss of my brother last month I seen myself spiraling in the wrong direction. I have too much to live for but at the same time feel like it’s too much at times. I just want to be better. Be a role model for my kids. Someone they can be proud to call Dad. I want to regain that confidence I once possessed. Strong enough to fight off temptation, wise enough to hold my position where God leads me. I want to develop a better relationship with God. I know I’ve stirred the wrong way at times but I know if I’m here writing this I must be headed the right way. Please pray for my family.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart's cry and stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life. Let us first align your desires with the Word of God, as He promises, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)

We commend your desire to be a better man, father, and son. Remember, God can restore and redeem any situation. He can heal your relationship with the mothers of your children and your parents. As it is written, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land." (2 Chronicles 7:14 WEB)

However, we must address a few concerns. First, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to understand that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you haven't already, as "whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved." (Romans 10:13 WEB)

Next, we want to address the issue of sexual immorality. Having children with more than one woman outside of marriage is not in line with God's will. God designed sex to be enjoyed within the context of marriage between a man and a woman. "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." (Hebrews 13:4 WEB) We encourage you to repent of this sin and pursue purity.

Lastly, we want to address your decision to join the army. While we understand your desire to find purpose, we encourage you to seek God's will in this matter. Proverbs 19:21 WEB tells us, "Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails." Consider the timing and the impact on your family, and pray for God to direct your steps.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this young man. Lord, he is burdened with shame, guilt, and temptation. We ask that You break these chains and set him free. Give him the strength to resist temptation and the wisdom to walk in Your ways.

Lord, we pray for his relationships. Heal the brokenness between him and the mothers of his children. Restore his relationship with his parents. Help him to be the father, son, and brother You have called him to be.

Lord, we ask for Your guidance in his decision to join the army. If this is Your will, we pray that You would make it clear and provide for his family in his absence. If it is not, we ask that You would close the door and redirect his steps.

Finally, Lord, we pray for his salvation. If he has not already, we pray that he would put his faith in Jesus Christ, confessing Him as Lord and Savior.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. We understand that life can feel overwhelming at times, but remember, God is always with you, even in the darkest valleys. We're praying for you and your family, that God would give you the strength to overcome your struggles and the wisdom to make decisions that align with His will.

We're glad to hear that you want to be a better man, father, and son. God is a God of second chances, and He's more than capable of restoring and redeeming any situation. We believe that He can heal your relationships with the mothers of your children and your parents, but it's important to take action and seek forgiveness where needed.

We want to encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ. He is the way, the truth, and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him. We also want to encourage you to pursue purity in all areas of your life, especially in your relationships. God designed sex to be enjoyed within the context of marriage between a man and a woman, and anything outside of that is sin.

Regarding your decision to join the army, we encourage you to seek God's will in this matter. While we understand your desire to find purpose, it's important to consider the timing and the impact on your family. Proverbs 19:21 tells us that "Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails." Trust that God will direct your steps if you seek Him.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our brother. Lord, we ask that You would give him the strength to overcome his struggles with shame, guilt, and temptation. Help him to resist temptation and walk in Your ways. We also ask that You would heal his relationships with the mothers of his children and his parents. Help him to be the father, son, and brother You have called him to be. Lord, we ask for Your guidance in his decision to join the army. If this is Your will, we pray that You would make it clear and provide for his family in his absence. If it is not, we ask that You would close the door and redirect his steps. Finally, Lord, we ask that You would save him, that he would put his faith in Jesus Christ and confess Him as Lord and Savior. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

 

[Arike]

Young Father of 2 boys who’s in a time of need. Somehow ended up lost. Carry the feeling of shame, guilt, temptation driven myself so deep that the load sometimes feels too heavy to live with. I want to be a better son, father, brother, friend, MAN. Expecting my third boy in 6 months and the path I once was on I designed myself is no longer serving me. I lost the faith/trust from the mother of my child (who I plan on marrying) who’s expected to give birth in March 2025 who I feel was sent by God. She’s everything I prayed for. Currently have a damaged relationship with the first mother of my 2 older boys who I wish I can be with more than I am. I’m scared to go down that same path. Everything I love tends to crumble. I want a better relationship with my mother/father. I want to heal from trauma I’ve never faced as a child. I want to rid myself of bad habits that doesn’t serve me. I’ve made a choice to join the army to give me a sense of purpose. With the timing of everything this kind of sacrifice seems to be detrimental to my girlfriend who’s due in 6 months but my intentions is only to become a better character. I need God to light a path for me. Assuring I’m no longer making decisions emotionally and out of anxiety. Since the loss of my brother last month I seen myself spiraling in the wrong direction. I have too much to live for but at the same time feel like it’s too much at times. I just want to be better. Be a role model for my kids. Someone they can be proud to call Dad. I want to regain that confidence I once possessed. Strong enough to fight off temptation, wise enough to hold my position where God leads me. I want to develop a better relationship with God. I know I’ve stirred the wrong way at times but I know if I’m here writing this I must be headed the right way. Please pray for my family.

We pray for your son, teach him yourself o Lord, take control and lead him the path of wisdom and the knowledge of you. We pray against every stronghold that may be holding him back from being all you have called him to be Lord. Let your perfect will be done in His life Lord Jesus. We pray for salvation for your son and the start of a deep walk in truth with you. By this we know everything else shall be added in Jesus name we pray, amen.