I just posted this: "There is a young man at my church (I'm a young woman) who my mother started randomly noticing recently and saying that she wished I could date him because she says he looks very serious about his faith. He's also very friendly and around the same time that she began saying this, I began noticing that he goes out of his way to say hello to my mother and I - probably to make us feel welcome. Well last Sunday, I also started noticing that it seemed like he was constantly in the same area as I was during a church event and he even ended up sitting with my mother and I during this event until his friends found him space at their table. I really don't want to think too much of it because I've had similar situations where I started to become convinced that maybe a person was a potential partner sent by God (I wasn't spiritually mature then and even involved in false teachings) and then God allowed things to happen to show me that it wasn't that person (and sometimes I had to inevitably get my feelings hurt in the process). I really don't feel ready for a relationship and I'm not really that interested in one to be honest. But I have always felt convicted to wait on God for my spouse from a young age and if He thinks it's time for me to meet my spouse, I have to accept because He knows best. Please pray for me about all this. I forgot to add that I keep having thoughts about this person (possibly intrusive ones) and that's why I want prayer about this situation. Thank you."
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We hear your heart, dear sister, and we stand with you in prayer as you navigate these thoughts and feelings. First, we want to affirm the wisdom in your conviction to wait on the Lord for your spouse. Proverbs 19:14 tells us, "House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh." This truth reminds us that marriage is a sacred gift from God, and He alone knows the perfect timing and the perfect person for you.
It is understandable that you feel cautious after past experiences where your hopes were not aligned with God’s will. We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s guidance above all else, trusting that He will make His path clear in His perfect timing. Psalm 32:8 assures us, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you." Lean on this promise as you surrender your desires and any intrusive thoughts to Him.
We also want to gently address the importance of guarding your heart in this season. Proverbs 4:23 warns, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." While it is natural to notice the kindness and attentiveness of this young man, we urge you to remain prayerful and discerning, asking the Lord to reveal His will rather than allowing your thoughts to dwell on possibilities that may not be from Him. If these thoughts feel intrusive, we encourage you to take them captive to the obedience of Christ, as 2 Corinthians 10:5 instructs us: "We destroy arguments and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting up her heart and mind to You. Lord, we ask that You would grant her clarity and peace as she seeks Your will in this situation. Help her to trust in Your timing and to rest in the knowledge that You alone know what is best for her life. Father, we pray that You would quiet any intrusive thoughts and fill her with Your peace, reminding her that she is fully known and deeply loved by You. Guard her heart, Lord, and guide her steps according to Your perfect plan. If this young man is part of Your design for her life, we ask that You would make it unmistakably clear. If not, we pray that You would remove any distractions or uncertainties so that she may walk confidently in the path You have set before her. We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
We also want to gently remind you of the importance of centering your prayers and trust in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to reflect on the foundational truth of salvation through faith in Jesus Christ. Romans 10:9 tells us, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." This is the cornerstone of our faith, and it is through Him that we find true peace, guidance, and fulfillment.
In this season, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word and in fellowship with other believers who can support and pray for you. Surround yourself with godly counsel, and remain open to the leading of the Holy Spirit. If this young man is indeed the one God has for you, He will confirm it in ways that leave no doubt. Until then, continue to seek Him with all your heart, knowing that He delights in revealing His will to those who trust in Him.
It is understandable that you feel cautious after past experiences where your hopes were not aligned with God’s will. We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s guidance above all else, trusting that He will make His path clear in His perfect timing. Psalm 32:8 assures us, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you." Lean on this promise as you surrender your desires and any intrusive thoughts to Him.
We also want to gently address the importance of guarding your heart in this season. Proverbs 4:23 warns, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." While it is natural to notice the kindness and attentiveness of this young man, we urge you to remain prayerful and discerning, asking the Lord to reveal His will rather than allowing your thoughts to dwell on possibilities that may not be from Him. If these thoughts feel intrusive, we encourage you to take them captive to the obedience of Christ, as 2 Corinthians 10:5 instructs us: "We destroy arguments and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting up her heart and mind to You. Lord, we ask that You would grant her clarity and peace as she seeks Your will in this situation. Help her to trust in Your timing and to rest in the knowledge that You alone know what is best for her life. Father, we pray that You would quiet any intrusive thoughts and fill her with Your peace, reminding her that she is fully known and deeply loved by You. Guard her heart, Lord, and guide her steps according to Your perfect plan. If this young man is part of Your design for her life, we ask that You would make it unmistakably clear. If not, we pray that You would remove any distractions or uncertainties so that she may walk confidently in the path You have set before her. We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
We also want to gently remind you of the importance of centering your prayers and trust in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to reflect on the foundational truth of salvation through faith in Jesus Christ. Romans 10:9 tells us, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." This is the cornerstone of our faith, and it is through Him that we find true peace, guidance, and fulfillment.
In this season, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word and in fellowship with other believers who can support and pray for you. Surround yourself with godly counsel, and remain open to the leading of the Holy Spirit. If this young man is indeed the one God has for you, He will confirm it in ways that leave no doubt. Until then, continue to seek Him with all your heart, knowing that He delights in revealing His will to those who trust in Him.
Savannah20
Beloved of All
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
His Daughter
Humble Servant of All
I prayed for this in Jesus Name.
We are so grateful that you entrusted us with your heart and allowed us to stand with you in prayer during this time. It’s clear how deeply you desire to honor God in your relationships, and we have lifted up your request, asking Him to give you wisdom, peace, and clarity as you navigate these feelings and observations.
We’ve been praying that the Lord would guard your heart from unnecessary distraction or confusion, especially as thoughts about this young man continue to surface. May He help you to fix your eyes on Him first and foremost, trusting that His timing and His plans for you are perfect. We’ve also asked the Holy Spirit to reveal whether this is simply a season of friendship or something more, and to give you the discernment to recognize His leading without fear or overthinking.
If God has already begun to answer your prayers—whether by bringing you peace, redirecting your thoughts, or confirming His will for this situation—we would love to celebrate that with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together in His faithfulness. If, however, you’re still seeking His guidance and feel the need for continued prayer, we encourage you to post this request again so we can keep interceding on your behalf.
Above all, we pray that you would draw even closer to the Lord as you wait on Him, resting in the truth that He knows the desires of your heart and will fulfill them according to His perfect will. May He bless you with His presence, His peace, and His unshakable assurance that He is working all things together for your good.
We continue to pray for you in Jesus’ Name.
We’ve been praying that the Lord would guard your heart from unnecessary distraction or confusion, especially as thoughts about this young man continue to surface. May He help you to fix your eyes on Him first and foremost, trusting that His timing and His plans for you are perfect. We’ve also asked the Holy Spirit to reveal whether this is simply a season of friendship or something more, and to give you the discernment to recognize His leading without fear or overthinking.
If God has already begun to answer your prayers—whether by bringing you peace, redirecting your thoughts, or confirming His will for this situation—we would love to celebrate that with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together in His faithfulness. If, however, you’re still seeking His guidance and feel the need for continued prayer, we encourage you to post this request again so we can keep interceding on your behalf.
Above all, we pray that you would draw even closer to the Lord as you wait on Him, resting in the truth that He knows the desires of your heart and will fulfill them according to His perfect will. May He bless you with His presence, His peace, and His unshakable assurance that He is working all things together for your good.
We continue to pray for you in Jesus’ Name.
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