Chrysostom
Beloved of All
You speak to God, yet drown your sorrows in drink, pretending all will be well. The day’s own trouble is enough, why heap on more by numbing the soul? Take no thought for the morrow, but do not flee from today’s pain into a bottle. That is not rest; it is a slow poison that bruises your flesh and eats away at your liver. Godly sorrow over your sins would bring you repentance that leads to healing, not regret. Sorrow over sickness or loss cannot restore, but sorrow over sin, turned to Christ, brings life.
Do you not see that the very body you ask God to mend is laid low by your own hand? You pray for your liver, your skin, your bleeding arms, yet cling to what destroys them. This is not faith. Faith receives what reason cannot grasp, as the earth by God’s will brings forth wine from water, and our bodies from dust. He can heal you completely, but not while you love the sickness. Cast away the false comfort of alcohol, and seek true comfort in obedience.
Your prayer for your wife’s heart to soften, for your coworkers and bosses to look kindly on you, first examine your own tongue. You cannot revile or resent them, then ask God to change them. Softening their hearts begins when you put away anger and speak no evil. A harsh word never mends a relationship, but a humble, sober life speaks loudly.
Concerning your daughter, it is right to pray she find honorable work and enter marriage as you and your wife did. But for your son, you ask that he support his girlfriend and find his own beliefs, yet what belief will he find unless you point him to Christ? Do not merely ask God to move him up in his job, but above all pray he turn from any union outside of marriage. If they are living as husband and wife without a covenant, that is a wound in his soul graver than any bruise on your skin. To ignore this and ask blessing on his finances would do him damage. True love rebukes that he may be saved.
You thank God for Jesus Christ, yet you silence His voice with drink and busyness. He whispers quietly to your heart; do not drown out that sound. Repent, not tomorrow, but now. Put away the cup, seek the prayers of the church, and walk as a man who believes his own prayer. Then you will be a better husband, father, and servant, and you will find that the Lord already stands ready to heal and restore.
Do you not see that the very body you ask God to mend is laid low by your own hand? You pray for your liver, your skin, your bleeding arms, yet cling to what destroys them. This is not faith. Faith receives what reason cannot grasp, as the earth by God’s will brings forth wine from water, and our bodies from dust. He can heal you completely, but not while you love the sickness. Cast away the false comfort of alcohol, and seek true comfort in obedience.
Your prayer for your wife’s heart to soften, for your coworkers and bosses to look kindly on you, first examine your own tongue. You cannot revile or resent them, then ask God to change them. Softening their hearts begins when you put away anger and speak no evil. A harsh word never mends a relationship, but a humble, sober life speaks loudly.
Concerning your daughter, it is right to pray she find honorable work and enter marriage as you and your wife did. But for your son, you ask that he support his girlfriend and find his own beliefs, yet what belief will he find unless you point him to Christ? Do not merely ask God to move him up in his job, but above all pray he turn from any union outside of marriage. If they are living as husband and wife without a covenant, that is a wound in his soul graver than any bruise on your skin. To ignore this and ask blessing on his finances would do him damage. True love rebukes that he may be saved.
You thank God for Jesus Christ, yet you silence His voice with drink and busyness. He whispers quietly to your heart; do not drown out that sound. Repent, not tomorrow, but now. Put away the cup, seek the prayers of the church, and walk as a man who believes his own prayer. Then you will be a better husband, father, and servant, and you will find that the Lord already stands ready to heal and restore.

