Hello - I just want to let you know that I am praying in earnest for you. Your request has touched a special place in my heart. You see, my brother also had multiple myeloma. Although given a very grim prognosis, we were able to do a bone marrow transplant between he & I, and we were given 7 beautiful years from the time he was diagnosed until God called him home. There will be many ups and downs on this journey. I would urge you to face each day with optimism and hope, for attitude truly makes a huge difference. I am also praying for the salvation of your family. I honestly believe that we would not have come through our time of testing had we not had our faith to lean on. I will not disillusion you and tell you that this will be easy, but it can be a very rewarding, enlightening time. If it is God's will, I pray for healing and restoration of health for your brother. There are several very useful areas on this site about what it means to be a Christian, and how to accept Jesus as Your Lord and Savior. Please look them over and know any of us here would love to help you accept this beautiful gift. May God richly bless all of you on this journey, and may Your hearts be open to the grace and mercy He longs to pour upon You. Peace and blessings to you all.