Gods Family Ordered

[Shinebright]

Goodevening dear brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ.

I thank the Lord for His Grace and Mercy and forgiveness.

I come with heavy heart enduring in my Christian walk as a woman of God, wife and mother.

It saddens me that my husband is not aware of Gods family order, where it’s God first, then me as his wife and then our son and others.

I love my husband with the love of God and praying that not only knows but believe by Faith in Jesus Christ surrendering his life to Christ and being aware he is not to cleave to his mother and father but in fake leave mother and father and cleave to me.

He has put his mother first before God and myself for years and I forgive Him and I pray that he would repent and walk in alignment with God ordaining of Family Order.

Thank You Father in Jesus name for You first loved me. Thank you for my relationship with Jesus Christ. Thank You for my husband on this earth. I pray my husband is blessed with Your Spirit knowing how to walk with the nature of Christ in the Holy Spirit. While it deeply hurt that He put his mother before You and our family and family I deeply forgive and pray he be reminded about God ordaining of Family order.

Lord help me to continue to stay aligned with praying for him and not giving up on him because he hasn’t been transformed yet.

(praise report while praying) thank You Father that he has slowed down on drinking alcohol and I pray by Faith that it has come to a complete recovery in the name of Jesus.

Help me Lord that my spirit emotions and feelings are balance while going through this process.

God whatever You have to do to get His attention about Your divine order for a spiritual godly covenant and our family household so he will no longer put his mother before You God and me and our son.

In Jesus name Amen

(note) I don’t want to give up on my marriage please help Lord, please send help (godly Christian men/mentor in his life)

 

[Articles]

We thank the Lord with you for His grace and mercy and forgiveness, and we join you in lifting up your marriage and your household before Him. We hear the heaviness of your heart as a woman of God, a wife and a mother who desires to walk faithfully while longing for your husband to walk in God's divine order for the family.

We stand with you in affirming what Scripture teaches about that order. We are to seek first God's Kingdom and His righteousness, Matthew 6:33, and within marriage God calls a husband to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it, Ephesians 5:25, and to cleave to his wife above all other human relationships. For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh, Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31. This does not dishonor parents, for we are still commanded to honor our father and mother, Exodus 20:12, but it does mean that after marriage a man's primary earthly covenant and responsibility after God is to his wife and then to his children. We gently rebuke in love the pattern where your husband has put his mother before God and before you and your son, because it is out of alignment with God's ordained family order and it wounds the covenant of marriage which God calls holy and lifelong between a man and a woman. We also must lovingly address the drinking of alcohol. Scripture warns that wine is a mocker and strong drink is raging, Proverbs 20:1, and we are told not to be drunken with wine, but to be filled with the Spirit, Ephesians 5:18. We rejoice with you in the praise report that he has slowed down, and we pray with you by faith for complete deliverance and sobriety, that his body which is a temple of the Holy Spirit would be fully yielded to the Lord.

We commend you for your love and your forgiveness. You are reflecting the heart of Christ who calls us to be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave us, Ephesians 4:32. Your desire not to give up on your marriage honors God who hates the breaking of covenant and who delights in reconciliation and restoration. We encourage you not to grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap if we do not give up, Galatians 6:9. The Lord sees your faithful prayers and your endurance.

We also encourage you as a godly wife to continue to win your husband not by striving or contention but by your gentle and quiet spirit and your chaste and respectful conduct, as wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, that even if any do not obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word, 1 Peter 3:1. This is not passivity but powerful intercession combined with respect and love, trusting God to be the one who transforms the heart. Only God can bring true surrender and new birth through faith in Jesus Christ, and we join you in praying that your husband would not only know about Christ but would fully surrender his life to Him and walk in the power of the Holy Spirit.

We lift you up together now. Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, thanking You that You first loved us, 1 John 4:19, and thanking You for this sister's relationship with Jesus and for her faithful heart for her husband and son. We ask that You would draw her husband into a living faith, that he would repent where he has put his mother and other things before You and before his covenant wife, and that he would be transformed by the renewing of his mind and filled with Your Spirit. Teach him to leave his father and mother and to cleave to his wife as You have ordained, to lead his household in love and godliness. We ask for complete freedom from alcohol, that every chain would be broken in Jesus' name and that he would walk in sobriety and self-control as fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5:22. Lord, send godly Christian men and mentors into his life who will speak truth to him, for as iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend, Proverbs 27:17, and who will model what it means to be a godly husband and father. For our sister, we pray for balance of spirit, emotions and feelings, that You would keep her in perfect peace as her mind is stayed on You, Isaiah 26:3, and that she would be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving let her requests be made known to You, and Your peace which passes all understanding would guard her heart and thoughts in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:6. Strengthen her to continue praying and not give up, to hope in You and to trust Your timing to get her husband's attention and to establish Your divine order in their home. Bless their son and let this household become a testimony of Your redeeming grace and covenant love. We pray all these things together in the mighty and merciful name of Jesus, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for opening your heart with such honesty and grace. We hear the ache of loving your husband deeply while longing for him to put God first and to cleave to you as his wife, and the added weight when his mother seems to come first. Your willingness to forgive and keep praying even while hurting is a strength the Lord sees.

We rejoice with you that drinking has lessened. That is encouragement and we join you in praying for complete freedom as he continues to walk this out.

One thing that may help you stay steady is to see growth as long training rather than a quick fix. Small faithful steps over time shape a heart, and your prayers are part of that faithful work even when change feels slow.

It also helps to hold healthy boundaries while you love him well. That can mean being clear and kind about what is yours to carry and what is his to own before God, and not trying to manage his relationship with his mother for him. Loving him does not mean carrying the weight of changing him.

A practical next step could be to ask one trusted pastor or elder your husband already respects if he would build a friendship with him, perhaps over coffee or a shared interest, with no pressure to fix anything. For you, having one mature sister to pray with regularly can help keep your spirit and emotions steadier as you persevere.

Father, we lift this wife and mother to You. Guard her heart and give her peace as she waits on You. Draw her husband gently to Yourself, teach him to walk in Your Spirit, and bring godly men alongside him to encourage him. Strengthen this marriage for Your glory. In Jesus name, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Zedekiah]

We certainly pray with ypu for strength in marriage. To grow in Christ. To believe in him. And trust in him. And pray always. May God be the glory. We pray and worship and submit to God and cleave to him. For help. Even for help with avstaining from sin and resusting the sins of the flesh. For a miracle. God is good. Lord Yeshuas name amen.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has come before the Lord and before His people with a heaviness that is felt, and with a grace that is evident. We thank God with you for His mercy and forgiveness, and for the love you bear to your husband and to your son, and above all for your love to Jesus Christ who first loved you.

We hear your sorrow that the divine order of the household is not yet honored in your home. The Scripture teaches plainly that a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife, and that in a Christian home Christ is Head, and husband and wife are one flesh under Him, and children are entrusted to their care. When this order is set aside, there is confusion and hurt, and we do not wonder that your heart is burdened. To put any person before God, and to put father or mother before the covenant of marriage, is to forsake the way of the Lord. We join you in praying that your husband may not only know this truth but believe it by faith, surrendering his whole life to Jesus Christ, for salvation is through Him alone, and there is no other name by which we must be saved.

You have shown a Christlike spirit in forgiving your husband even while the wound is still tender. Forgiveness is of God, and repentance is also His gracious work. We pray that the goodness of God may lead your husband to repentance, that he may turn from every rival to Christ, and walk in the new nature of the Holy Spirit. We pray that he may seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, believing that all needful things shall be added, and that his affections and duties may be set in right order, God first, then the covenant of marriage, then your son and household, all to the glory of Christ.

We rejoice with you in the praise report that the drinking of alcohol has slowed. We take this as an encouragement to pray without ceasing, to knock and to knock again until a real answer of mercy comes. We pray by faith that the Lord will bring complete deliverance and sobriety, that your husband may be clear minded and self controlled, fitted to lead his family as a godly man ought.

We pray also for you, that your spirit and your emotions and your feelings may be kept in balance through this process. Learn to lean upon your Beloved. If you can bring your daily cares, your domestic troubles, your family sicknesses and sorrows, if you can bring all things to Jesus, you shall find it happy living. Cast your burden upon Him, for He cares for you. He who spread the heavens and bore the cross invites you to come and trust Him and find rest. When fear rises, remember the child who ran to the foot of the stairs to call, Mother, are you there, and was comforted by the answer. So run to your heavenly Father in prayer and hear His promise that He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Do not give up on your marriage. The marriage covenant is ordained of God as a lifelong union of one man and one woman, and it is honourable in His sight. Persevere in prayer, not through presumption but through faith, knowing that you always need to pray. Continue at the family altar, continue in secret supplication, continue to plead the finished sacrifice of Christ for your household.

We join your request that the Lord would send help, even godly Christian men who may come alongside your husband as mentors and brothers, to speak the truth in love and to model what it is to walk with Christ in the home.

Our prayer together is this. Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, we thank You for this wife and mother who loves You and who loves her family. We thank You for Your grace that has kept her and for the work You have already begun in her husband. We ask that You would save him fully and transform him by Your Spirit, that he would repent and believe and cleave to You and to his wife according to Your word. Set Your divine order in this home, let Christ be first and let the marriage be strengthened in holy love. Deliver this man from strong drink altogether, and make him a sober, faithful husband and father. Keep this dear sister leaning upon Christ, guard her heart with peace, and let her not grow weary in well doing. Raise up faithful men to befriend and disciple her husband. Do whatever You must do to get his attention, and let it be done in mercy. We ask this not for our merit but for the sake of Jesus, who with open arms bids sinners come. Amen.