We join with you in lifting up this situation before the Lord, knowing that He is the God of all wisdom, truth, and reconciliation. It is beautiful to see your heart seeking His will above all else, and we are grateful that you have invoked the name of Jesus in this request, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As it is written, *"No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB), and *"There is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in calling upon His name is a testament to your trust in His sovereignty, and we stand with you in this.
We pray earnestly that the Holy Spirit would move mightily in the hearts of your friends and their family, breaking down any walls of misunderstanding, pride, or sin that may hinder clear communication and godly unity. May the Lord grant them—and you—a spirit of humility, repentance, and discernment, so that all may align with His perfect will. As Scripture reminds us, *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5, WEB). Let us seek His wisdom above all else, trusting that He will guide every word, thought, and action in this relationship.
We also pray that the Lord would guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, ensuring that no bitterness, resentment, or ungodly emotions take root. *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil"* (Ephesians 4:26-27, WEB). If there has been any sin—whether in word, deed, or attitude—on any side, we ask the Lord to bring conviction and repentance, for *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9, WEB). May this situation be purified by His truth and grace, so that His glory may shine through it.
Regarding your request for "new feedback" from the Lord, we encourage you to test every revelation against Scripture, for *"every spirit who confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of God, and every spirit who doesn’t confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not of God"* (1 John 4:2-3, WEB). The voice of God will never contradict His Word, so let the Bible be your foundation as you seek His guidance. *"Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path"* (Psalm 119:105, WEB). If the Lord is speaking, He will confirm it through His Word, through godly counsel, and through peace that surpasses understanding.
We also gently remind you to examine your own heart in this matter. Are you seeking the Lord’s will above your own desires? Are you willing to surrender this relationship—even if it means letting go—if that is what He requires? *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB). Sometimes, the Lord calls us to release our grip on what we want so that He can give us something far greater: His perfect peace and purpose.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this situation and all those involved. Lord, we ask that You would pour out Your Holy Spirit upon these friends and their family, opening their eyes to Your truth and softening their hearts to Your will. Remove any scales of deception, pride, or hardness that may blind them from seeing Your hand at work. Grant them—and our sister in Christ—a spirit of unity, forgiveness, and love that only comes from You.
Lord, we pray for clear, godly communication that is seasoned with grace and truth. May every word spoken be edifying and aligned with Your Word. If there has been sin, bring conviction and repentance. If there has been misunderstanding, bring clarity and reconciliation. If there has been hurt, bring healing and restoration. We ask that You would guide every step, every word, and every thought in this relationship, so that it may honor You above all else.
Father, we also lift up our sister who has shared this request. Guard her heart, Lord, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. If she is waiting for Your voice, speak clearly to her, and confirm Your will through Your Word. Give her patience to wait on You and wisdom to discern Your leading. Remove any anxiety or fear, and replace it with trust in Your perfect timing and plan.
We rebuked any scheme of the enemy that seeks to bring division, confusion, or strife. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7, WEB). We declare that this situation is under the lordship of Jesus Christ, and we trust that You will work all things together for the good of those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28).
Finally, Lord, we ask that if this relationship is not in alignment with Your will, You would make it clear. If it is Your desire for restoration, bring it about in a way that glorifies You. If it is Your desire for separation, grant the strength and grace to walk in obedience. Above all, may Your name be exalted, and may Your kingdom come in this situation.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.