Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Please pray that my sweet older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship with this young man and his family. Let her see clearly today onward that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this toxic relationship. I declaring that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. Let her see how peaceful she will get from a beautiful courtship rather than living with this young man outside of marriage. Let her see her younger sister and her boyfriend beautiful courtship and know that God wants that for her as well. Lord let her hear You say, "You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belongs to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes to see, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother look at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today and tonight. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you together in prayer for your older daughter and for your whole family, and we hear the deep burden and love you carry for her. We stand with you in declaring freedom and restoration over her life, and we agree that the Lord sees her, loves her, and desires to lead her into wholeness and peace.

We affirm what you have discerned so clearly, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage and is not God's design. Scripture teaches us let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4. We are also told to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18. What you are describing, exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and control, are not the fruits of godly love. Love is patient and is kind, love doesn't envy, love doesn't brag, is not proud. 1 Corinthians 13:4. Greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, and financial exploitation is not provision or protection. A godly courtship that looks toward marriage between a man and a woman who are believers in Christ honors God, protects purity, respects family, and brings peace rather than chaos. We agree with you that God wants that kind of beautiful, peaceful courtship for your daughter as well, one that leads to a lifelong marriage covenant, not a counterfeit arrangement outside of marriage.

We also see the spiritual battle you have named. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12. When a relationship pulls a daughter away from her faith, her family, her purpose and her fellowship, and when she is encouraged to idolize and obey a young man and his mother above God and above the family God gave her, that is misplaced worship. You shall have no other gods before me. Exodus 20:3. We must have no other idols before the Lord, and no relationship should take the place that belongs to Him. We also remember do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14. A relationship that is unequally yoked and built on fornication cannot bring the blessing and unity God intends.

We pray together now for her.

Father, in the mighty name of Jesus we come before Your throne of grace for this precious daughter. We thank You that she is Yours, that You call her Your daughter and that You promise to protect her with all of Your power. We ask You to pour out supernatural clarity upon her mind, heart and spirit today. Remove every veil, every deception, and let her see this relationship and this living arrangement as You see it. Show her that she is not being loved but being used, that this is not a home and this man is not a shepherd or provider. Give her courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic and ungodly lifestyle. We pray do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. Romans 12:2. Renew her mind by Your Holy Spirit and Your Word and restore the biblical values she was raised on.

Lord, break every chain of control, financial exploitation, isolation and spiritual attack. If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36. We declare freedom over her in Jesus' name. Whisper to her heart, walk away, trust your family, trust Me, I will provide, protect and restore. Strengthen her to obey Your voice and not the voice of manipulation. We ask that You cut the ungodly soul tie with this young man and the unhealthy attachment to his mother, and that she will no longer go to that house for counsel to remain in sin, but will turn to You and to wise, godly counsel. Lead her to move back home swiftly with no regret and with full assurance of Your forgiveness and restoration.

Father, heal what has been stolen, her independence, self-worth, peace, purpose and fellowship with those who truly love her. Restore unity in this family. Don't you be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. Isaiah 41:10. Fill this family tonight with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of their lives, saturate them with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Guard them from further division and exhaustion and let Your peace rule in their home.

We thank You, Lord Jesus, that it is only through Your name that we have access to the Father and that there is no other name by which we can be saved. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6. We cling to that promise for this daughter and for this family, that as she turns to You, You will forgive, cleanse, and make all things new.

We encourage you to continue to speak truth in love, to keep the door open with prayer and without condemnation, to model the peaceful courtship of her younger sister as a testimony of God's better way, and to keep interceding until the breakthrough comes. The Lord is near to you in this pain and He hears your cry. The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Psalm 34:17. We stand with you believing for her swift release, her repentance and healing, and for the complete restoration of her faith, freedom and fellowship with her family for the glory of Jesus. Amen.
 
We hear how heavy this has been to carry for your older daughter, and how faithfully you have kept praying for her freedom and peace. Watching someone you love become exhausted, stretched financially, and pulled away from family and fellowship is deeply painful, and your love for her is clear in every word.

One thing that helps many families in a situation like this is remembering that love still needs clear lines around what is ours to steward. Our values, time, finances, energy and peace are part of what we are responsible to guard. When those lines get blurred and it feels hard to say yes or no freely, or to feel responsible for another person's choices and moods, it can slowly drain independence and joy. A healthy, caring relationship does not require giving those things away. Gently reminding your daughter that she is free to make her own choices and to step back from what is harming her can sometimes open more room than trying to convince her.

As you keep praying, it may help to keep one steady, open door at home. In calm moments letting her know she is welcome back without shame or lecture, and that you trust God to provide and restore, keeps connection alive while she seeks clarity. It also helps to have one trusted pastor or mature friend walking closely with you so you are not carrying this alone.

Father, we lift this daughter to You and ask for protection over her mind and heart, for clear sight and courage for the next step. Restore what has been worn thin and guard her peace, purpose and fellowship with family. Fill this home tonight with Your calm and healing presence, and give her mother wisdom, rest and steady hope as she trusts You. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
We have heard your earnest intercession for your older daughter and we join you before the throne of grace with one heart and one voice, asking the Lord for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing.

We agree with you that living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and we do not ask God to bless what His Word calls outside His good design. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and the fellowship of that union belongs within it. What you have discerned as exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual oppression we bring to the Lord who alone can deliver. As it has been well said, deliverance from sin is solely by the power of God, it is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He must bring them forth, and He will.

We pray that the Lord will grant your daughter supernatural clarity in her mind, heart and spirit. That He will open her eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, that she is not being loved as Christ loves the Church but being used, that control and manipulation and greed and dishonesty are not love, and that no man and no family has right to exploit her, to take authority over her that belongs to God, or to draw her away from faith, family and the purpose God has given her in her work. We pray that the veil will be lifted and she will see the spiritual attacks and the chaos and disrespect that have followed this ungodly arrangement, an arrangement you have rightly said was guided away from biblical wisdom.

We ask the Lord to whisper to her as only He can, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and to sever her from this entanglement as that look of Christ severed Peter from the crowd. Peter was down but he was soon up again, and his story is more truly his restoration than his fall. So we pray for her restoration, that she will remember the biblical values in which she was raised, that she will no longer idolize or obey voices that lead her away from Christ, and that she will have courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely and to walk away without regret. We pray she will see the peace of a beautiful and pure courtship that honors God, such as you have seen in her younger sister, and know that the Lord desires that holy and peaceful path for her also.

We pray for her return, that the Lord will gently guide her to move back home, to trust her family and to trust Him who will provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has sought to take. We ask for the higher restoration than mere outward change, even the deliverance from the pit through the ransom God Himself has found and given in Christ Jesus. For God has found a ransom, and therefore we do not doubt her deliverance.

For you and your household we pray as you have asked, that the Lord will fill your family with His Holy Spirit in every part of your lives. It is a glorious thing to have such a well in the family where in prayer you can bring all the necessities of the household before God and mention each child by name. We ask Him to saturate you with His peace, love, favor, protection and healing, to keep you in unity and to guard you from all discord and division. May He enrich you even in this deliverance, as He brought Israel forth with silver and gold, and may you live to declare the works of the Lord after this affliction.

We will continue to speak to the Lord on her behalf and yours, trusting the clock of mercy to strike in Heaven the hour of her deliverance, for the time is in His hands. In Jesus name, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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