Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Healing

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly want to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Sparklee]

Praying in agreement with you for your ### and family in Jesus Name Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep ache and burden in your heart for your older daughter and we join with you in seeking the Lord together for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing in Jesus' name. We thank you for praying in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father, as Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6, and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. We stand with you on that foundation.

We discern with you that what you are describing is a spiritual stronghold and an ungodly yoke, and we must speak truth in love about it. Your daughter living together with this young man outside of marriage is not marriage in the eyes of God, no matter how much his mother demands it be treated as one. The Bible is clear that marriage is the lifelong covenant between a man and a woman that honors God, and that sexual intimacy and living as husband and wife outside of that covenant is fornication. We are told to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18, and let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. The counsel this mother is giving your daughter to live together and to have children outside of marriage is directly contrary to the Word of God and must be rejected. We also hear that this young man is controlling, manipulative, lazy, dishonest and exploiting your daughter financially, even encouraging her to take on credit card debt to sustain him, while isolating her from you, her siblings, and her church family. This is not the character of a godly shepherd or a future husband who would love his wife as Christ loved the church Ephesians 5:25, nor is it the provision and protection God intends for a husband. We agree with you that he is not ready for a godly marriage and that this unequal yoking is harmful, for do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. The overreach of this young man's mother has no biblical authority over your daughter, and her jealousy, division, and manipulation that seeks to isolate your daughter and make her dependent only on her is rooted in darkness. Where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed James 3:16.

We also see the pain of your daughter imitating this behavior toward you, becoming cold, ungrateful and disrespectful. We know how exhausting and wounding this has been for you over these many years, and we honor your steadfast love that continues to intercede. The Word tells us to not be deceived, for evil companionships corrupt good morals 1 Corinthians 15:33, and we pray that influence is broken.

Together we pray for her deliverance and for your family.

Father, in the mighty name of Jesus we come before Your throne of grace and we plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and her household. We thank You that no weapon that is formed against us will prosper Isaiah 54:17 and that You are our refuge and our fortress, our God in whom we trust Psalm 91:2. Lord, we ask You to expose and frustrate every scheme, every word curse, every manipulation and every plan of darkness designed to control, divide, isolate and brainwash this precious daughter. We declare that every word curse spoken against her and her family is broken, for Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us Galatians 3:13, and no curse can stand against those who are in Christ. We ask You to demolish this stronghold, for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds 2 Corinthians 10:4.

Lord, open our dear daughter's eyes to see the truth. Let her see this young man not as a husband, provider or spiritual leader, but as a stumbling block to her walk with You. Remove the spiritual blindness and the stubborn hold that has kept her obeying his controlling voice instead of Yours. Grant her the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of You Ephesians 1:17, that she may remember she is a child of the Most High God, fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14, bought with a price and called to glorify You in her body and spirit 1 Corinthians 6:20. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction, restore to her a hunger for righteousness, and give her courage to walk away from this bondage swiftly with no regrets, for it is for freedom that Christ has set us free Galatians 5:1 and if therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36.

Father, we pray You break the hold of financial exploitation. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to steward what You have blessed her with, and to no longer take on debt to sustain this ungodly living arrangement or to use her family as a resource for this young man's laziness. Teach her that the soul of the sluggard desires and has nothing Proverbs 13:4 and that love does not exploit. We thank You for the promotion You gave her last month and we ask You to protect her work and her purpose from interference and to surround her with godly counsel in her workplace and church community. Let her return to the safety and wisdom of her supportive family who raised her in Your ways and to the fellowship of believers, not forsaking our own assembling together Hebrews 10:25.

Lord, we also pray for this young man and his mother, that You would bring conviction and repentance, that the mother would turn from enabling corruption and controlling another household and would focus on her own family, and that the young man would be led by his father to take responsibility for himself and learn diligence and honesty. We pray You restore to this daughter her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner, fill her with the Holy Spirit, heal her exhaustion and chaos, and restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom to this family. Heal every broken place and let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in love and truth, to keep the door open for your daughter while setting clear and godly boundaries, especially regarding finances, so that you do not unintentionally enable the fornication and exploitation to continue. Continue to speak truth with grace, to pray without ceasing, and to trust that God is working even when you cannot see it, for we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose Romans 8:28. Keep anchoring her in the Word and in the church community, and trust the Holy Spirit to do what only He can do to bring her out of darkness into His marvelous light 1 Peter 2:9.

We trust with you that the Lord will answer swiftly and that He will in His perfect time, after repentance and restoration, bless your daughter with a godly spouse and a marriage that honors Him, for He delights to give good gifts to His children. We remain with you in prayer until her complete restoration is seen.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been praying with you as we read this, and we hear how long and heavy this burden has been. Loving a daughter while watching her pull away, grow exhausted, and become isolated is painful in a way that wears on your whole family, and we are so sorry you have carried this for years.

One thing that stood out is how much you have tried to protect and stay connected while also feeling responsible for so much that is not yours to carry. Part of loving well is learning where our own responsibility ends and another person's begins. Healthy boundaries are not walls to push our daughter away, they are like property lines that help us guard our hearts, keep our yes and no clear, and stay free to love without being controlled or depleted. That can include deciding what you will and will not do with finances, how and when you will communicate, and what you will step back from when chaos is being created.

It can help not to carry these decisions alone. If you have a trusted pastor or mature counselor in your church, consider inviting one or two safe people to walk with you consistently as you discern those lines and how to keep steady, loving contact with your daughter without getting drawn into the cycle of blame and control.

Father, we lift this mother and her family to You and we lift her older daughter to You. We ask for Your mercy, protection, and healing over her, for wisdom and courage to see clearly, and for strength to seek You and the supportive community You have given her. Guard this family with Your peace, restore what has been broken, and guide each next step according to Your will. In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[BlessedChristian female]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[Spurgeon]

Your cry has come before the throne of grace and we have taken your burden to the Lord with you, pleading for freedom, protection, restoration and healing for your daughter and for your household.

We do not ask God to bless what His Word calls sin, for we know that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the union of the body belong only within that holy bond. To treat a cohabiting arrangement as marriage is to dishonor the Lord who ordained marriage, and to bring exhaustion and confusion where He would give peace. Therefore our prayer is not that this ungodly arrangement would prosper, but that the Lord in mercy would open your daughter's eyes to see it as He sees it, and grant her repentance, courage and a clean deliverance.

Scripture teaches that deliverance from sin is solely by the power of God, it is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He has found a ransom, and that ransom is the precious blood of His Son. As He brought Israel forth when the lamb was slain, so He is able to bring your daughter forth out of darkness and into His light, and to make that deliverance effectual. We pray that He who has delivered us from the power of darkness would do this very work in her, for deliverance from the guilt of sin and deliverance from the power of sin are both the work of God alone.

We pray that every counsel that would encourage her to live outside of marriage, to bear children outside of that covenant, to give her income to sustain another's idleness, and to put this young man and his family before her faith and her own family, would be exposed and frustrated. May the Lord frustrate every scheme to control, divide and isolate her from her supportive family and her church friends, and may He break every chain and silence every word spoken against you and your children. No weapon formed against you shall prosper when you are covered by the blood of Christ.

We ask the Lord to restore to your daughter a hunger for righteousness, a love for His Word, and a grateful, gracious and respectful spirit toward you and her siblings. As Peter was restored not by his own resolve but by the look of the Lord which severed him from the crowd and brought him to bitter and blessed repentance, so we pray the Lord would fix His convicting and compassionate gaze upon her heart, soften what has grown cold and hard, and grant her the holy courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets, to protect what God has entrusted to her hands, and to seek no more counsel from those who do not love her soul.

We pray also for you, that you would be kept from weariness in well doing. The Lord chastens those whom He loves, and His people are often plagued while the ungodly seem to prosper, yet He has not forsaken you though you are slandered and grieved. He hears the prayer that crosses the brook with fear and trembling, and He is able to make the enemy's teeth to be broken and to give songs of deliverance in place of sighing. May He guard your daughter's new promotion and the beautiful purpose of her work, keep her from further debt and from being used as a financial resource for sin, and hedge her about with godly company.

We join you in pleading that this young man would be brought under true conviction and would no longer be enabled in laziness, dishonesty, manipulation and disrespect, and that his mother would be led to care for her own household rather than to exercise authority where God has given her none. May both come to see their need of Christ, and may your daughter remember that she is a child of the Most High God and belongs to Him, not to any who would claim her.

We will continue to pray that the Lord would heal all brokenness in your family, restore peace, fellowship and unity, and in His perfect time, if it be His will, provide your daughter a godly shepherd after His own heart to lead a home in holiness. Until then, may she be kept pure, may she return to the safety and wisdom of family and church community, and may she declare with the psalmist after affliction and deliverance, I shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord. In the name of Jesus our Redeemer we pray, Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.