Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Breakthrough

Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Lord, I pray that my older daughter will see her jobs and the family You've blessed her with as a blessing and not in the eyes of this controlling young man and his mother. Lord, remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life and now trying to speak in my younger daughter life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together with her son, advicing her to have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon and disrespectful to our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, putting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation, separation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat my daughter. She does not care about my daughter she just selfishly using her and want to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. My daughter is constantly doing things to please this woman. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join with you in prayer for your older daughter and for your family, and we hear the deep burden you carry for her freedom and restoration in Jesus' name.

We must speak clearly about what you have discerned rightly, this living arrangement outside of marriage is not pleasing to God and is not a marriage in His eyes. Scripture teaches that marriage is to be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral, Hebrews 13:4, and we are commanded to flee sexual immorality, 1 Corinthians 6:18. To live together as if married without covenant, to be advised to have children outside of marriage, and to treat this cohabitation as marriage while exploiting finances and demanding loyalty over family and faith, is fornication and is contrary to God's design for a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We also hear that this young man is controlling, manipulative, dishonest and isolating, and that his mother is giving ungodly counsel to encourage this sin and division. We rebuke that counsel, for blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, Psalm 1:1, and we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, 2 Corinthians 6:14. A relationship that leads to fornication, financial exploitation, disrespect toward parents, and separation from the family and church community is not courtship leading to a godly marriage to a fellow believer, and it should not be defended or sustained. We also rebuke the spirit of control, jealousy, pride and division at work through this young man and his mother, for our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against the spiritual forces of wickedness, Ephesians 6:12, and we know that God frustrates the plans of the crafty so their hands cannot accomplish their schemes, Job 5:12.

We also praise God that you have pleaded the blood of Jesus and declared that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail, Isaiah 54:17, and that you have prayed in the name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved and by which we have access to the Father, Acts 4:12 and John 14:6. We affirm that your daughter, raised in the ways of the Lord as you have taught her, Proverbs 22:6, is still a child of the Most High God and can be restored, for if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, 2 Corinthians 5:17. The exhaustion, forgetfulness, chaos and financial hardship she is experiencing are fruit of an unequal and ungodly yoke, and Jesus invites all who are weary and burdened to come to Him for rest, Matthew 11:28.

We pray together now for freedom, protection, restoration and breakthrough.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace for this beloved daughter and for her mother and family. Lord, we ask You to open her eyes to see the truth of this relationship, that this young man is not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block to her walk with You. Remove the spiritual blindness and break the stronghold of manipulation, control and isolation that has held her for so long. Where she has been made to feel worthless and familialess, remind her that her worth is in You, for we are Your workmanship created in Christ Jesus, Ephesians 2:10, and You have called her by name and she is Yours, Isaiah 43:1. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction and grant her godly sorrow that leads to repentance, 2 Corinthians 7:10, and give her wisdom, knowledge and courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets, for if You will grant wisdom to those who ask, You give generously, James 1:5.

Lord, we ask You to frustrate and block every word curse, every scheme, every plot and every chain from this young man and his mother. Let no ungodly influence prosper over her life, her jobs, or her younger sister. Expose motives rooted in darkness and bring them to light, Ephesians 5:11, and command the enemy to flee as she submits herself to You, James 4:7. We pray You would protect the promotion You blessed her with, that she would see her work as a beautiful purpose You have given her and not despise it through the lens of this controlling relationship. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt to sustain this man, and to no longer allow her family to be used as a financial resource for sin. Teach her to steward what You have provided with self-control and diligence, Proverbs 21:5.

Father, we pray You would cut off the overreach of this mother who has no biblical authority to speak into Your daughter's life. Let her influence be removed swiftly, let her interference in jobs and family cease, and let her own household be turned toward caring for her own children rather than controlling another's. We pray for this young man also, that You would convict him of laziness, dishonesty, rebellion and disrespect, and bring him to repentance, or else remove him from Your daughter's life and send him back to his own home under his father's authority. He is not ready for a relationship and not a shepherd, and we pray Your daughter will stop imitating his stubbornness, gossip and mocking toward her family and be filled again with a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate spirit by the power of the Holy Spirit, Galatians 5:22-23.

Lord, we plead Your protection over the younger daughter that no transfer of this controlling influence would touch her. Cover this whole family with Your wings, Psalm 91:1, and let Your perfect love cast out fear, 1 John 4:18. Restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in this home, for where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom, 2 Corinthians 3:17, and You came to proclaim liberty to the captives, Luke 4:18. We pray that when the older daughter visits, she would not be influenced by hatred and manipulation, but would hunger again for righteousness, Matthew 5:6, and return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community.

We thank You that You are able to work all things together for good for those who love You, Romans 8:28, and that nothing is impossible for You, Luke 1:37. We ask that in Your timing You would bring a godly spouse for her if it is Your will for her to marry, a man who loves You, who will lead faithfully and cherish her as Christ loves the church, Ephesians 5:25. Until then, keep her pure, keep her free, and keep her close to You.

We also lift up this praying mother, grant her strength not to grow weary in doing good, Galatians 6:9, give her boundaries rooted in love, and let her continue to speak truth without enabling sin. Let her not support financially what God calls her to call out, but let her love remain steadfast and her home remain a place of light.

We declare together that this daughter is not homeless, not dependent on ungodly approval, not belonging to this man's family, but belonging to You. Let her be set free indeed, for if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed, John 8:36. We trust You for complete restoration and supernatural intervention, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. In the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ we pray, Amen.
 
We are holding you and your family in prayer, and we want to say first with care, if anyone is in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from trained helpers you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You are not alone.

Thank you for sharing so openly about your older daughter. We hear how heavy this has been for you, watching someone you love and raised in the faith become exhausted, isolated, and pulled away from her family, church community, and even the good work she has been given. Loving a daughter through a controlling relationship where finances are being used and supportive connections are cut off is heartbreaking, and it makes sense you feel worn down and worried, especially as this young man's mother presses into areas that are not hers to carry.

One thing that may help in the days ahead is holding steady, loving boundaries. Boundaries are simply like property lines that help each person own what is theirs to steward, choices, time, money, and relationships, and they preserve freedom even while staying connected. Continuing to keep the door open with your daughter without pressuring or shaming, staying connected to your pastor or a trusted counselor separately for wisdom and a safety plan, and protecting family finances with clear limits can be steadier than trying to confront the control directly.

We also encourage you to lean on your own supportive community and pastoral care as you carry this, so you are not carrying it alone.

Father, we bring this mother and her daughters before You. Guard them, give this mom wisdom and rest, and surround her older daughter with clarity, courage, and safe people who can help her see her worth in You. Restore peace and fellowship in this family and lead each step ahead. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your prayer has been laid before the Lord with many tears, and He who hears the cries of His people knows the weight you have carried for so long. To see a beloved child entangled, exhausted, and drawn away from the home and the faith in which she was raised is a sore chastening, yet we may say with the Psalmist, The Lord has chastened me sorely, but He has not given me over unto death. There is a higher restoration than mere relief from outward trouble, and that is deliverance of the soul from the Pit.

We join you in asking the Lord for that very deliverance. For it is written, He has delivered us from the power of darkness, and that power is not broken by our own strength, but by His outstretched arm alone. When a soul is brought into peril and trouble, when sin and folly and the counsel of the ungodly would bind it, there is a voice that the child of God shall always hear, that God has given commandment to save, and you shall be saved, saved from yourself and from all the attacks of your old sins, saved from the enemy. We pray that your older daughter may hear that voice now, to look unto Christ and be saved, for there is none else. Salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and apart from Him there is no light, no freedom, no true worth.

We do not ask God to bless what He has not ordained, for marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and to live together outside of that covenant is not marriage in His sight, however it may be demanded or treated as such. To bear children outside of marriage and to use the resources of another for selfish gain are not the ways of holiness. Therefore we pray not for the continuance of this living arrangement, but for its breaking, that the Lord would open your daughter's eyes to see this man not as a husband, not as a provider, not as a spiritual shepherd, but as a stumbling block in her walk with God. We pray that she may no longer defend or admire what contradicts His Word, nor take upon herself responsibilities that are not hers to bear, and that she may be given wisdom to protect what God has entrusted to her, to take on no more debt to sustain what is dishonorable and draining.

We pray also concerning the controlling and divisive influence you have described. The counsel that would isolate a young woman from her family, her church, and her supportive community, that would teach her to despise the way she was taught to worship and to confide only in those who flatter while they exploit, is counsel rooted in darkness. We ask that the Lord would expose every hidden motive, frustrate every scheme to control, divide and isolate, and block every word spoken as a curse against you and your household. May every chain be broken, every plot brought to nothing, and may the one who instigates chaos and then appears as a helper be no longer heeded. We pray that the young man and his mother may themselves be brought to repentance, that they may see their need of Christ, cease from manipulation and dishonesty, and learn to walk in truth. He is not ready to lead a home, and we pray his eyes and hers would be opened to that, and that he would return to his own place and take responsibility for his own life rather than burdening your daughter.

For your daughter, we pray for mercy and courage. That she would remember she is a child of the Most High God, that she belongs to Christ and not to any family that would use her and make her feel worthless and without a home. She has a loving family who raised her in the ways of the Lord, she has been blessed with work that serves a beautiful purpose and with a recent promotion that is a gift from His hand, and we pray she may see these as blessings from God and not through the eyes of those who would exploit them. May the Holy Spirit soften her heart to receive conviction, restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful manner, and fill her anew, so that she no longer imitates stubbornness, gossip and mocking toward you and her siblings, but hungers again for righteousness and returns to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church. As Peter fell and yet was restored when he went out and wept, so we pray she may come out from among what defiles and be separate, and find restoration at the feet of her Lord.

For you, we pray for protection and sustaining grace. You have felt coldness and rudeness where you once knew affection, and you have grown weary. Wait thou only upon God, for your expectation is from Him. He keeps back the soul from the Pit and the life from perishing. We plead the precious blood of Christ over you and your children, trusting not in a charm but in the atonement itself, that no weapon formed against you shall finally prosper, and that He will keep you in peace as you continue to pray without ceasing. May the Lord heal the brokenness in your home, restore fellowship, respect, unity and freedom, and let His supernatural love and favor overflow upon you.

We ask the Lord to remove every obstacle and every voice that contradicts His Word, to grant your daughter wisdom, self worth rooted in Christ, and courage to walk away from this bondage swiftly and with no regret, and in His own time and way, should it be His will, to bless her with a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church. Until then, may she be kept, may she declare with joyous faith, I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord, and may your household again sing, My soul does magnify the Lord, and my spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior.

We commit you all to Him who is able to deliver, to restore, and to keep, in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
 

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