Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Lord I pray that my older daughter will have a blessed day at work today. I pray that she will be grateful and thankfuly for har jobs and her supportive family. Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly want to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in prayer for your older daughter and we stand with you for her freedom, protection, restoration and breakthrough. We hear the burden you carry as a mother who has raised your daughter in the ways of the Lord and now watches her entangled in a relationship that does not honor God. We thank God with you for her job and for the promotion He blessed her with last month, and we agree that her work serves a beautiful purpose. We pray her day at work today is blessed, that she is guarded, clear minded, and grateful for the provision and the supportive family God has given her.

We must speak plainly about what you have described, because Scripture calls us to walk in truth. Living together outside of marriage as if married, and any sexual intimacy outside of marriage, is fornication, and God calls His children to flee from it. Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. This living arrangement you describe is not marriage and must not be treated as marriage. Genesis 2:24 shows God's design that a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife and they become one flesh, a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman. A boyfriend is not a husband, not a shepherd, not a spiritual leader, and a godly relationship must be courtship with the goal of marriage to another believer in Christ, not cohabitation. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. When a young man is controlling, manipulative, lazy, dishonest, rebellious and exploits a woman's income, he is not showing the love and provision and sacrificial leadership Scripture requires, Ephesians 5:25, Ephesians 5:28, 2 Thessalonians 3:10. Love does not behave dishonorably, does not seek its own, is not provoked, 1 Corinthians 13:4-5. What you describe is not love.

We also discern the danger of ungodly counsel and isolation. Psalm 1:1 says blessed is the man who doesn't walk in the counsel of the wicked. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says don't be deceived, evil companionships corrupt good morals. When a young man's mother who has no biblical authority over your daughter speaks word curses, encourages living together and having children outside of marriage, encourages your daughter to put that household before her own family and faith, and seeks to isolate her from her supportive family and church community, that counsel must be rejected. Hebrews 10:25 calls us not to forsake assembling together. Your daughter was raised to honor her father and mother, Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:1-3, and to find wisdom in the multitude of godly counselors, not in one controlling voice. The financial exploitation, the pressure to take on credit card debt to sustain this man, the exhaustion and chaos, the cold and ungrateful behavior toward you, all bear witness that this yoke is not from God. God does not want her to imitate stubbornness, gossip and mocking, but to be transformed by the renewing of her mind, Romans 12:2.

We see the spiritual battle behind this. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us our wrestling is not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers. This is a stronghold that must be torn down with spiritual weapons, 2 Corinthians 10:4-5. We pray the Lord exposes every selfish, jealous, prideful and manipulative motive rooted in darkness, frustrates every plan to control, divide and isolate, Psalm 33:10, and breaks every chain. We declare with you that no weapon that is formed against you and your children will prosper, Isaiah 54:17, and that whom the Son sets free is free indeed, Galatians 5:1, John 8:36. We plead the precious blood of Jesus over you and your children and ask for a hedge of protection, Psalm 91:11, Psalm 121:7-8.

We pray together now. Father in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before Your throne of grace and we lift this precious daughter to You. You know her by name, You formed her, Psalm 139:14, and she is Your workmanship, Ephesians 2:10. We ask You to open her eyes to see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a shepherd, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction, grant her courage to walk away from this bondage swiftly with no regrets, and restore her hunger for righteousness, Matthew 5:6. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, renew her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner, and help her to stop imitating the cold and degrading behaviors she has learned in this house. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt for this man, and to steward what You have provided. Remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she belongs to You, she is not homeless, she does not need this woman's approval or guidance. Surround her at work today with favor and protection, block every interference and word curse from this young man's mother, and frustrate every scheme to undermine her promotion. Keep her from confiding in ungodly counsel and draw her back to her family, her siblings, and her church community where she is loved and admired. We ask You to convict this young man and his mother, that they would see their enabling, disrespect and corruption, and that his father would take godly responsibility for his son and have him return home alone to deal with his own life. We ask You to heal the brokenness in this family, restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom, Joel 2:25, and let Your supernatural love and favor overflow. We ask for a godly spouse for this daughter in Your perfect timing, a man who will love her as Christ loved the church, lead her spiritually, provide and cherish her within the holy covenant of marriage. We speak freedom over her, that she will put her faith and trust in You again, know her worth in You, and no longer allow anyone to make her feel worthless or without family. We submit ourselves to You, Father, and resist the devil that he may flee, James 4:7. Nothing is impossible for You, Luke 1:37, Romans 8:28. We thank You that You are able to deliver and restore.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in prayer and in the Word, to keep the door of your home and your heart open in love while not enabling the sin, to speak truth with grace, and to keep your daughter covered in prayer and connected to the church. We encourage your daughter, if she reads this, to flee this living arrangement, to return to the safety of her family and church, to seek godly counsel, and to pursue purity and holiness as she waits for the godly marriage God desires for her. We thank Jesus that it is only by His name we have access to the Father, John 14:6, Acts 4:12, and we are grateful you prayed in Jesus' name. We will continue to contend for your daughter's complete restoration and breakthrough, trusting God to bring her out of darkness into His marvelous light, 1 Peter 2:9.

 

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We have been praying with you as you poured out your heart for your older daughter. Loving her through these years while watching her grow exhausted and distant has been so heavy, and we thank you for continuing to love her faithfully and for celebrating the good we see in her work and the promotion you mentioned.

What you describe, the pressure to put another family first, the financial strain, the isolation from those who have loved her longest, makes it especially hard for her to hear clearly. In times like this healthy boundaries matter for both of you. A boundary is simply knowing what is yours to carry and what is not, and being free to say yes and no in love. That kind of clarity protects relationship rather than harming it, and it helps keep your own heart steady while you continue to reach out to her.

One steady next step that often helps parents in your place is to choose one or two trusted people, perhaps a pastor or a mature friend from church, to walk with you regularly. Not to fix your daughter for you, but to help you stay grounded, keep communication open with her without taking on responsibilities that are not yours, and think through wise ways to protect your own peace and resources while you continue to love her.

Jesus, we lift this mother and her daughter to you. Cover them with your protection, quiet the chaos, and give this daughter clarity, courage and a renewed sense of her worth in you. Give her mother wisdom, rest and comfort as she waits, and restore gentle fellowship in this family in your timing. In Jesus name, amen.

 

[Jeirsor]

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