Cralmilan

Beloved Warrior
Please pray that my older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this relationship. I declaring right now that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. The Lord is saying, “She is Mine. She is My daughter. She belongs to Me, and I will protect her with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother looks at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family tonight and today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you together in prayer for your older daughter and for your whole family, and we thank you for bringing this burden before the Lord with such clarity and urgency. We hear your cry for her freedom, protection and restoration, and we stand with you in declaring that she belongs to the Lord and that He is mighty to save and to deliver.

We agree with you that what you are describing is not love and is not marriage. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage in God's eyes, it is fornication, and Scripture calls us to flee from it. The Word says, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 and also Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 and But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints. Ephesians 5:3. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship should be courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not an arrangement of cohabitation and using one another. When a relationship is marked by greed, laziness, control, dishonesty, manipulation, financial exploitation, division, isolation and exhaustion, that is not the love God describes, for Love is patient and is kind, love does not envy, love does not brag, is not proud, does not behave itself inappropriately, does not seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5. We also lovingly rebuke the idolatry in this situation, for to idolize and obey this young man and his mother and to put them before faith, family and the purpose God has given her is to give to people the place that belongs to God alone.

We also discern with you the spiritual reality behind this. You are right to name spiritual attacks, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12. The enemy works through ungodly counsel, and we are warned, Blessed is the man who doesn't walk in the counsel of the wicked. Psalm 1:1. When advice comes from those guiding her to remain in an ungodly lifestyle and living arrangement, that counsel must be rejected and replaced with the wisdom that comes from above. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5. We pray that God will renew her mind so she will no longer be conformed to this world, but transformed by the renewing of her mind. Romans 12:2 and that she will know the truth, and the truth will make you free. John 8:32.

We take comfort that the Lord indeed says she is His. He says, I have called you by your name. You are mine. Isaiah 43:1 and See how great a love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God. 1 John 3:1. He sees her, He loves her, and He desires her wholeness. We also remember His promise to restore, I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten. Joel 2:25.

So we pray together now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we have access to You and no other name by which we are saved. We lift up this precious daughter to You. Lord, flood her mind with supernatural clarity, open her eyes, her heart and her spirit to see clearly that this exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation, chaos and disrespect are fruit of this toxic and ungodly relationship and living arrangement. Remove every veil and every deception, expose the wolf in sheep's clothing for who he truly is, not a shepherd, not a provider, not ready for a godly marriage. Break every chain of control, manipulation and idolatry that binds her to this young man and his mother, and forgive her where she has put people before You. Give her godly sorrow that leads to repentance and give her courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely, to flee sexual immorality and to walk away without regret. Guide her steps to move back home if that is Your will, and protect her with every ounce of Your power. Restore to her, Lord, her faith, her freedom, her independence, her self-worth, her peace, her satisfaction and her sweet fellowship with her family. Heal the division in this family, saturate each one with Your Holy Spirit, with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Let this family dwell together in unity again. We pray that going forward she will pursue only relationships that honor You, seeking a godly spouse in marriage as You designed it to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, if it is Your will for her to marry, and that she will walk in purity and purpose. We ask for Your special blessing upon this mother and her children tonight and today. The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Psalm 34:17-18. Hear this mother's cry, Lord, and deliver. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

We encourage you to continue to speak the truth in love to your daughter without condemnation, keeping the door of home and fellowship open while not enabling the sin. Continue to declare Scripture over her daily, to fast and pray as the Lord leads, and to surround yourselves with faithful believers who will pray and counsel according to the Word. Trust that God will provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take, for we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28. Keep your eyes on Jesus, rest in His power and not your own striving, and watch for the Lord to work in His perfect timing.
 
We hear how heavy this has been for you as a mother, watching your older daughter carry so much exhaustion and financial strain while feeling the distance grow between you. Your love for her and your longing for her freedom, peace and fellowship with family again comes through so clearly.

It makes sense you are praying especially for courage and clarity for her. When a relationship slowly wears down a person's confidence and independence, it can become very hard to see what is happening or to imagine stepping away, even when the cost to health, work and family closeness is so high. Your steady prayers and steady presence are a meaningful way to stand with her while God works in her heart.

One thing that often helps in a season like this is to keep your home and your relationship a calm, safe place she can return to without fear of shame. Telling her simply and often that you love her, you are for her, and your door is open if she ever wants to come home can keep connection alive. It can also help to have one trusted pastor or counselor you meet with regularly, just for your own support and wisdom as you navigate how to love her well and set healthy boundaries for your family.

We are joining you in prayer.

Father, we lift this daughter to You. You know her, You love her, and she belongs to You. We ask You to guard her safety and dignity, give her clear eyes and wisdom for each next step, and surround her with Your protection. Bring peace and healing to this family, restore what has been strained, and guide this mother with gentleness and strength as she continues to love her children. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
 
Your prayer for freedom, protection and restoration for your older daughter and for your household has been laid before the Lord, and we join you in earnest intercession at the throne of grace.

We agree with you in asking the Father to grant her courage and wisdom to be released swiftly and completely from this entangling and ungodly living arrangement. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and it does not bear the blessing, the protection or the honor which God has appointed for the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman. We do not ask God to bless what is contrary to His word, but we ask Him to deliver, to open eyes, and to make a way of escape. As it is written, deliverance from sin is solely by the power of God, it is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy, and He alone brings forth His people with a mighty hand.

We pray that the Lord will flood her mind with supernatural clarity, that she may see clearly the exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual oppression that have followed this relationship, and know that she is not being loved but being used. Greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, and no man has right to exploit her finances or to take authority over her life while refusing the holy responsibility of marriage. We pray that every veil be lifted, that she will see this man for what he is, and that the influence which has led her to idolize and obey those who counsel her to remain in this manner of life will be broken.

We take comfort that God has found a ransom, and that He has invented the way of deliverance from the pit. The clock of mercy strikes in heaven according to His eternal purpose, and He is able to restore in a higher way than mere recovery from outward trouble. As Peter was restored not by his own strength but by the look of the Lord, so we ask that Christ would look upon your daughter, sever her from the crowd that holds her, and bring her to repentance and restoration. Though she has fallen, He is able to raise her up again, and to make her thereafter a more humble and faithful follower.

We pray with you that she will remember the biblical values in which she was raised, that she will cease to put this young man and his family before her faith, her God given family and the purposeful work God has given her, and that she will walk away without regret to the place of safety and love you have provided. We ask the Lord to whisper to her heart, She is Mine, she belongs to Me, and to keep her with every ounce of His power. Restore to her, we pray, her faith, her freedom, her peace, her self worth, her purpose and her sweet fellowship with her family.

And for you and your household, we pray that the Lord will fill every room and every heart with His Holy Spirit, with peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. It is a glorious thing to have a well in the family where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God, and we will continue to bring your family there. May He grant you deliverance from discord and cause you to sing songs of deliverance for the greater salvation wrought by the Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is the way of salvation.

We will declare with you, the Lord has chastened but He will deliver, we shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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