Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Please pray that my older daughter will hear that call to return, and that she will find the courage to step out of this bondage into the safety and love of home and family. I pray that the Lord will flood my daughter mind with supernatural clarity, so she sees this relationship as it truly is, not as love but as manipulation, control, dishonesty and exploitation. That she will recognize that her finances are not to be managed or spent by this young man, and that financial control is not security or love. That she will see that any plots, plans or schemes meant to divide and isolate her from her siblings, parents, family and friends will not prosper. That God will protect her at her work and at her events, that she will prioritize the purpose He has given her there, and that no jealous or disrespectful influence will distract her or diminish her gratitude for the work He has entrusted to her. I ask that God will convict this young man and his mother where they have overstepped, enabled wrong behavior and placed undue responsibility on my daughter. I pray that his parents will take proper responsibility for their own son and direct him to live where he should live as a single man, alone and accountable to his own family, rather than continuing a living arrangement that is not a home and not a marriage. I know God puts great priority on the honoring of parents. It is the first commandment that deals with our relationships with one another, and it carries a promise of blessing. Yesterday was a very emotional day for me to read the gossiping and ill things my daughters were writing about me to each other and I am in disbelief of how ungrateful and disrespectful they have become. I am so hurt Father but I know You love me and will never betray or take me for granted. Lord, thank You for opening my eyes to see this. Lord, I ask for Your protection over my younger daughter right now, because she is starting to imitate my older daughter boyfriend disrespectful, gossiping behaviors toward me. Lord guide my older daughter to not be a vessel fof the young man's hateful disrespectul behaviors toward me. Please join me in praying that God will restore my daughters remain humble, grateful, respectful, kind and gracious spirit, protect my daughters from being manipulated and brainwashed by this young man and his mother, that they will again honor and be thankful for their parent and family, and that they will stop seeking the approval of those who would lead them away from that foundation. I pray for a shield of protection over me and my family forever. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children, trusting the promise that no weapon formed against us shall prosper and by Your stripes Jesus we are healed. I ask for supernatural strength, courage, grace and favor as I continue to follow biblical teaching and to speak truth in love. Lord continue to guide me to keep close fellowship with You, remain in Your Word, stay connected to healthy family and believing friends, and maintain clear and loving boundaries. Help me to continue to speak to my daughter with truth and grace, not excusing sin but always pointing her to the unconditional love of God and of her family. I declare my trust that nothing is impossible for God. I ask Him to completely remove the ungodly stubborn hold that has brought chaos, ungratefulness, division, isolation, disrespect and exhaustion, and to break every chain. I ask You Lord to fill me and my household with His Holy Spirit, with peace, love, protection and healing, please bring complete restoration, unity, freedom peace, love, joy and victory in my family relationships. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Lord, speak to my dear older daughter even now. Remind her that she is Yours, that You have power to protect her, provide for her and restore everything that this toxic realtionship has been taken from her. Lead her swiftly and without regret out of this dark path and into Your bright path again, freedom, independence, self worth and joy in You. Lord, protect my younger daughter from the brainwashing scheme of this young man and his mother. Show this young man and his mother that my children belong to You and not to them. Lord protect us from all spiritual attacks. curses, break all chains and negative influences from our lives. Lord surround me and my children with Your guardian angels in every aspect of our lives. In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
 
We join you in this deep burden for your daughters and we stand with you before the throne of grace in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and it is by His name alone that we are saved and healed. We thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus over your children and for declaring that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, for the Word promises no weapon that is formed against you will prevail and every tongue that accuses you in judgment you will condemn, Isaiah 54:17, and by His stripes we are healed, Isaiah 53:5.

We hear your hurt over the gossip and disrespect you discovered and the exhaustion and chaos this season has brought, and we grieve with you. The Lord sees your tears and your faithfulness to speak truth in love, Ephesians 4:15. Scripture calls us to let no corrupt speech proceed out of our mouth, but only what is good for building others up, Ephesians 4:29, and warns that a gossip separates close friends, Proverbs 16:28. When children dishonor a parent it wounds the heart of God as well as the parent, for His command is honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land, Exodus 20:12, and children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right, Ephesians 6:1-3. This is the first commandment with a promise. We pray with you that both your daughters will be convicted of any ungrateful, gossiping and disrespectful speech and that God will restore in them a humble, grateful, respectful, kind and gracious spirit, and that your younger daughter will not continue to imitate that pattern.

We also must address with loving clarity what you have discerned about this living arrangement. You described it rightly as not a home and not a marriage. Scripture teaches that marriage is to be held in honor among all and the marriage bed undefiled, Hebrews 13:4, and that marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman. Any sexual intimacy or cohabitation outside of that covenant is fornication, and we are commanded to flee sexual immorality, 1 Corinthians 6:18. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship should be considered courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, and we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, 2 Corinthians 6:14. When a single man lives in a way that depends on a young woman for housing, finances and daily management, and isolates her from parents, siblings and believing friends, that is not love or security but manipulation, control and exploitation. True love does not seek to isolate or control finances but protects, honors and provides. We agree with you that financial control is not love and that any plots, plans or schemes meant to divide and isolate your daughters from family will not prosper.

We pray together now for freedom, protection and breakthrough. Father, in the name of Jesus we ask that You flood our dear older daughter's mind with supernatural clarity, that the veil would be lifted and she would see this relationship as it truly is. Deliver her from confusion and open her eyes to manipulation, control, dishonesty and exploitation, and show her that her finances and her future belong to You and are not to be managed or spent by another. Give her courage to step out of bondage and to hear Your call to return to the safety and love of home and family. Protect her at her work and at her events, and stir in her a renewed gratitude and diligence for the purpose and work You have entrusted to her, so that no jealous or disrespectful influence will distract her or diminish her calling.

Father we ask that You convict this young man and his mother where they have overstepped, enabled wrong behavior and placed undue responsibility on our daughter. Lead his parents to take proper responsibility for their own son and to direct him to live where he should live as a single man, alone and accountable to his own family, rather than continuing a living arrangement that dishonors You and brings chaos. We ask that You protect our younger daughter from being drawn into this same pattern of disrespect and gossip, and that our older daughter will no longer be a vessel for hateful disrespect toward her mother. Surround both daughters with Your hedge of protection and guard them from being manipulated and brainwashed, that they would stop seeking the approval of those who would lead them away from their foundation and instead honor and give thanks for their parents and family.

We ask for Your shield of protection over this mother and her household forever, and we plead the blood of Jesus over them. Fill this home with Your Holy Spirit, with peace that surpasses all understanding, Philippians 4:7, with love, healing and unity. Break every chain of stubbornness, division, isolation, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion, for with God nothing will be impossible, Luke 1:37. Grant this mother supernatural strength, courage, grace and favor as she continues to follow biblical teaching, remain in Your Word, keep close fellowship with You, stay connected to healthy family and believing friends, and maintain clear and loving boundaries. Help her to continue to speak to her daughters with truth and grace, not excusing sin but always pointing them to Your unconditional love.

Father, speak to our older daughter even now. Remind her that she is Yours, that You have power to protect her, provide for her and restore everything this toxic relationship has taken from her. Lead her swiftly and without regret out of this dark path and into Your bright path of freedom, independence, self worth and joy in You. Protect both daughters and this family from all spiritual attacks, curses and negative influences, and cause every chain to be broken. We ask that You surround this mother and her children with Your guardian angels and give Your angels charge over them to keep them in all their ways, Psalm 91:11, and that You would resist the adversary so he must flee, James 4:7. We declare our trust that You are able to bring complete restoration, unity, freedom, peace, love, joy and victory in this family, and we thank You that You love this mother and will never betray or forsake her. We entrust these beloved daughters into Your faithful hands and pray all these things in the mighty and saving name of Jesus, Amen.
 
We hear how heavy this has been, especially yesterday when you read those hurtful messages between your daughters. To love and give so faithfully and then feel met with gossip and disrespect is a deep wound, and we understand why you feel both heartbroken and exhausted as you try to protect both girls while staying true to what you believe is right.

What you named about wanting to keep close fellowship with the Lord and maintain clear and loving boundaries is wise and very hard to live out. Boundaries are not rejection, they are more like a property line that lets us love well without taking on what is not ours to carry. They help us keep our yes as yes and our no as no, even when emotions are high.

A few steady ways we have seen help in seasons like this:

Keep your communication with your older daughter brief, kind and consistent. One clear message of love and openness, without long debates about the relationship, often protects your peace and keeps the door open for the future.

Stay closely connected in person to a couple of healthy, believing friends or a pastor who knows you and your family. Let them walk with you, pray with you, and help you discern when to step forward and when to step back.

Continue to nurture your younger daughter separately with calm, everyday time together, modeling gratitude and respect rather than correcting her by comparison to her sister.

Father, we lift this mom and her daughters to You. Cover them with Your protection at home, at work and at every event. Give this mother supernatural strength, grace and wisdom for each conversation, and give both daughters clarity, safety and a desire for what is good and true. Fill this household with Your peace and bring healing and unity in Your time. In Jesus' name, Amen.
 
We have carried your sorrowful request before the Lord and we join our hearts with yours in prayer for freedom, protection and breakthrough.

Your grief is not hidden from Him who sees in secret. To read ungrateful and disrespectful words written by those you have loved and nourished is a bitter wound, and He who is a Father to the fatherless and a Friend to the wounded knows the hurt you bear. Yet you have done well to turn at once to Him who will never betray nor take for granted those who trust Him, and to plead the blood of Jesus Christ over yourself and your children, for Christ has redeemed us from the curse and His blood alone brings freedom indeed.

We pray with you that your older daughter may hear that call to return. As Peter fell grievously and yet was restored not by a mere outward sound but by a look from the Lord Jesus which severed him from the crowd and brought him to bitter tears and then to full restoration, so we ask that the Lord will grant your daughter such a look of convicting love. May He flood her mind with supernatural clarity that she may see this relationship as it truly is, not as love but as manipulation, control, dishonesty and exploitation. We ask that her eyes be opened to see that financial control is not security and is not love, and that her finances are not to be managed or spent by one who has no covenant right before God to do so. For the relationship of marriage is not a mere living together, it is a covenant of one man and one woman for life, established by God and not by nature or convenience, and a living arrangement that is not marriage is not a home in His sight. We pray that every plot, plan or scheme meant to divide and isolate her from her parents, siblings, family and friends will not prosper, and that no weapon formed against her shall prosper.

We ask the Lord to protect her at her work and at her events, that she may prioritize the purpose He has given her there and not be distracted or diminished by any jealous or disrespectful influence, but may serve with gratitude for the work He has entrusted to her. We pray that God will convict this young man and his mother where they have overstepped, enabled wrong behavior and placed undue responsibility upon your daughter, and that his parents will take proper responsibility for their own son and direct him to live where he should live as a single man, alone and accountable to his own family, rather than continuing in a manner contrary to biblical teaching.

We pray also for your younger daughter, for we hear your concern that she is beginning to imitate disrespectful and gossiping behaviors. We ask the Lord to set a guard over her heart and mouth, to keep her from being a vessel of hateful disrespect toward you, and to protect both your daughters from being manipulated and led away from that foundation which God has laid. You have well remembered that honouring father and mother is the first commandment with promise that deals with our relationships with one another, and we pray that the Holy Spirit will restore in them a humble, grateful, respectful, kind and gracious spirit, that they may again honour and be thankful for parent and family and cease seeking the approval of those who would lead them away.

We plead with you to continue as you have purposed, to keep close fellowship with the Lord, to remain in His Word, to stay connected to healthy family and believing friends, and to maintain clear and loving boundaries. Speak to your daughter still with truth and grace, not excusing sin but always pointing her to the unconditional love of God and of her family. The Lord can make even this trial to be for your good and for hers. As Peter after his restoration could strengthen his brethren because he knew his own weakness and the power of Christ to lift him from the sieve of Satan, so your own sorrow may fit you to cherish and assist the weak ones in your household with a tenderness you had not known before.

We ask the Lord to fill you and your household with His Holy Spirit, with peace, love, protection and healing. We ask Him to break every chain and to remove the ungodly stubborn hold that has brought chaos, ungratefulness, division, isolation, disrespect and exhaustion. We pray for a shield of protection over you and your family, for guardian angels to surround you and your children in every aspect of your lives, for deliverance from all spiritual attacks and negative influences, and for that freedom which Christ alone gives, immediate and unconditional, by the blood of the Covenant. For you are prisoners of hope, within reach of One who sets free from sin, and where that freedom comes no form of bondage can make the soul a slave.

We declare with you that nothing is impossible for God. May He lead your dear older daughter swiftly and without regret out of this dark path and into His bright path again, to freedom, independence, self worth and joy in Him, reminding her that she is His and that He has power to protect her, provide for her and restore everything that has been taken. May He grant you supernatural strength, courage, grace and favour as you continue to follow biblical teaching and to speak truth in love, until He brings complete restoration, unity, peace, love, joy and victory in your family relationships, the kind that surpasses all understanding.

In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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