Forgive. Need help please

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Heavenly Father, I come before you in Jesus name to ask for help with forgiving everyone who has hurt me. I understand your command to forgive but it has been very difficult. Some of the perpetrators expect the relationship to continue even though they showed no remorse or repentance. I had to cut ties with all of them because they persisted with disrespectful controlling behavior (###, ###, ###, ###). They were VERY hostile/violent. I also ask for help in finding a new job, that road has been “bumpy” and I came out of an abusive workplace after ### years and feel like a fish out of water. The healing process is slow.
 
We hear your cry for help, and we stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting your burdens to the Lord. Forgiveness is indeed a command from our Heavenly Father, but it is also a process that requires His strength and grace. You are not alone in this struggle, and we join you in seeking His healing and restoration.

The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness does not mean excusing the hurtful actions of others or reconciling with those who persist in unrepentant sin. It means releasing the bitterness and anger to God, trusting Him to be the righteous judge. You were wise to cut ties with those who showed no remorse and continued in their harmful behavior. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, "Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."

We also lift up your need for a new job. It is understandable that you feel like a fish out of water after leaving an abusive workplace. The Lord sees your struggles and knows your heart. Psalm 34:18-19 reminds us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." Trust in His provision and timing. Seek His guidance in your job search, and remember that He has a plan for your life, as Jeremiah 29:11 assures us, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is struggling with forgiveness and seeking a new job. Lord, we ask that You fill her heart with Your peace and help her to release all bitterness and anger to You. Grant her the strength to forgive those who have hurt her, just as You have forgiven her. We pray for Your healing touch to mend her broken heart and restore her spirit.

Father, we also ask that You open doors of opportunity for her in the workplace. Guide her to a job where she will be valued, respected, and able to use her gifts and talents for Your glory. Provide for her needs and give her the courage to step out in faith, trusting in Your perfect plan for her life.

Lord, we rebuke any spirits of fear, anxiety, and doubt that may be trying to take hold of her heart. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ Jesus and that no weapon formed against her shall prosper. Surround her with Your love and protection, and let her feel Your presence in every step she takes.

We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers and for Your faithfulness to answer. We trust in Your goodness and mercy, and we give You all the praise and glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Continue to seek the Lord in prayer and in His Word. Spend time in His presence, allowing Him to speak to your heart and bring healing to your soul. Surround yourself with godly friends who can support and encourage you on this journey. Remember, the Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Keep pressing forward, knowing that He who began a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ (Philippians 1:6).
 
We're here with you, sister, standing in the gap as you navigate this journey of forgiveness and job search. We understand the struggle is real, but remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way.

Forgiveness, it's like a muscle, it needs to be exercised. It's not about excusing the past, but letting go of the bitterness and anger that's weighing you down. It's okay to set boundaries, like you did, with those who show no remorse. Trust that God sees your heart and will make all things right in His time.

As for your job search, it's like being in a stormy sea, but remember, God is the calm in the storm. He sees your struggles, your heart's desire, and He's working behind the scenes. Keep trusting in Him, keep seeking His guidance, and remember, He has a plan for you.

Let's pray together:

Lord, we come before You, lifting up our ###. Fill her heart with Your peace. Help her to release all bitterness and anger to You. Give her the strength to forgive, just as You have forgiven her. Heal her broken heart and restore her spirit.

Father, we also ask that You open doors of opportunity for her. Guide her to a job where she can use her gifts and talents for Your glory. Provide for her needs and give her the courage to step out in faith.

Lord, rebuke any spirits of fear, anxiety, and doubt. Surround her with Your love and protection. Let her feel Your presence in every step she takes.

We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers and for Your faithfulness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep seeking the Lord, sister. Spend time in His presence, allowing Him to heal and strengthen you. You're not alone, we're here with you, and so is God. Keep pressing forward, trusting in His goodness and mercy.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for trusting us with your heart and allowing us to stand with you in prayer during this challenging season. It takes great courage to seek forgiveness, especially when those who have hurt you have shown no remorse or change. We have been lifting you up, asking the Lord to soften your heart and fill you with His peace as you release these burdens to Him. Forgiveness is not about excusing their actions but about freeing yourself from the weight of bitterness so that Christ’s healing can flow more deeply into your life.

We have also been praying for your job search, asking God to open doors that no one can shut and to lead you to a workplace where you are valued, respected, and able to thrive. The transition from such a difficult environment can leave anyone feeling disoriented, but we believe God is guiding your steps, even when the path feels uncertain. He sees your faithfulness, and He will not leave you without provision or purpose.

If the Lord has already answered any part of your prayer—whether it’s a breakthrough in forgiveness, a job opportunity, or simply a sense of His presence carrying you—we would love to celebrate with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together in His faithfulness. If you’re still waiting, know that we are not finished praying. We will continue to lift you up, asking God to strengthen you, renew your hope, and move mightily on your behalf.

May the Holy Spirit comfort you, remind you of your worth in Christ, and give you the endurance to walk this journey with faith. We stand with you, believing that God is working even now to restore what has been broken and to lead you into a season of peace and purpose. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
 

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