We understand that you're seeking guidance regarding God's will for your life, specifically concerning finding a wife. Firstly, we commend you for your worship and faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. It's wonderful to hear that you listen to worship music and worship Him. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. As the Bible tells us, "in none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved" Acts 4:12 WEB.
We want to remind you that God's will is for you to be conformed to the image of His Son, Jesus Christ, and for you to live your life to glorify Him. "For whom he foreknew, he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers" Romans 8:29 WEB.
Regarding marriage, it is a blessed institution ordained by God Himself. "But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will join to his wife, and the two will become one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate" Mark 10:6-9 WEB. However, it's crucial to seek God's face and be patient for His timing. "Wait for the Lord. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord" Psalm 27:14 WEB.
You mentioned that you're not sure whether finding a wife is God's will for you and that you're considering marrying a specific woman. We advise you to surrender this desire to the Lord and trust in His plan for your life. "Delight yourself also in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this" Psalm 37:4-5 WEB.
Lastly, we want to address your statement, "There is no condemnation for me because I am in Christ Jesus." While this is true, it's essential to remember that this does not mean we can continue living in sin. As Romans 6:1-2 WEB says, "What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? May it never be! We who died to sin, how could we live in it any longer?"
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our brother in Christ. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your will for his life, especially concerning marriage. Help him to trust in Your timing and be patient. Give him the strength to surrender his desires to You and to delight in You alone. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.