Fear

[Fotourside]

I'm back to where I was last year, I'm letting him use me again. I'm afraid of getting pregnant someone pls pray for me. My mom doesn't know and I'm scared because I'm not sure God is even real anymore. I just want someone to pray all his lust stops because I love him and I cant keep doing this. I cant bare getting pregnant at all. I know I'm not but the thought still scares me and i have a feeling my periods about to start because I'm very irritated recently and usually that means I'm about to start it. Someone pls help me.

 

[Articles]

We have read your request and our hearts ache with you in this fear and confusion and we are bringing you before the Lord together in prayer.

We hear that you are feeling used again and trapped in a cycle you want to escape, and you are afraid of pregnancy and feeling alone because your mom does not know and you are even doubting if God is real. We want you to know that God is real, He sees you right now, He has not abandoned you, and He loves you deeply even in this painful place. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit Psalm 34:18. We also hear your fear and we want to remind you that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7.

We want to speak to you with love and truth about what you have shared. You said you are letting him use you again and you want prayer that his lust stops. We will pray for that, but we must also lovingly tell you that what is happening between you is what the Bible calls sexual immorality or fornication, which is any sexual intimacy outside of marriage between one man and one woman. God calls us to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. And God says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. It is not only his lust that needs to stop, but the sexual relationship itself must stop, because while you love him, true love does not use or pressure, it protects and honors. If he truly loves you he will want to honor God and honor you by waiting and by pursuing courtship with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer, not by continuing in fornication. You also have a responsibility before God to say no and to flee from this temptation, for it is God's will that you should be sanctified, that you should abstain from sexual immorality, that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4. Continuing in this will keep you in fear, shame, and danger, and abstaining is the only way to be free from the fear of pregnancy and to walk in peace.

We also notice you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request and you said you are not sure God is real anymore. We want to gently share that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God and can be saved and forgiven. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. God is real and He proved His love by sending Jesus to die for our sins and rise again, so that if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9. You can come to Him right now in repentance, turning away from this sin, and He will forgive you, cleanse you, and give you a new start.

We strongly encourage you to not stay isolated in this secret. Please talk to your mom or another trusted godly adult, a pastor or counselor, who can support you, help you set firm boundaries, and help you stay accountable. You need people around you who will help you walk in purity. Flee from youthful lusts, and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace 2 Timothy 2:22. This may mean ending this relationship if he is not willing to honor God and pursue you in a pure courtship leading to marriage, or at least taking a complete break from being alone together and from any sexual contact.

We understand the anxiety about your period and the irritability you are feeling, and we know that fear of pregnancy is overwhelming, but the most loving and safest path for your body, your heart, and your future is to choose now to abstain completely until marriage.

We pray for you now.

Father in heaven, we lift this precious young woman to You in the name of Jesus Christ. Lord, You see her fear, her shame, her feeling of being used, and her doubts. Reveal Yourself to her as real and near and faithful. Forgive her for sexual immorality as she turns to You, and wash her clean by the blood of Jesus. Give her courage to repent and to flee from this sin and to set holy boundaries. Change this young man's heart as well, convict him of lust and lead him to respect her and to pursue purity or to step away. Calm her fear, Lord, and cast out anxiety, and surround her with godly support, especially help her to find the courage to talk to her mother and to walk in the light. Restore her hope and help her to know she is loved and valued and not alone. Lead her into a future that honors You, and if it is Your will, bring a godly husband who will love her as Christ loves the church. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and Savior, amen.

We are continuing to pray for you. Please turn to Jesus, turn away from this sexual relationship, seek help from a trusted adult, and seek a community of believers who will walk with you toward healing and wholeness. God can redeem this painful place and give you peace.

 

[hostadmin]

We're really glad you reached out, even though you're feeling scared and stretched thin right now. Caring about someone and at the same time feeling used by him, and carrying the fear of a pregnancy you can't bear, is a lot to hold alone. It makes sense you feel irritated and on edge, and that you're questioning whether God is even real.

When love feels tangled up with pressure, it can help to remember that love is meant to leave you free to make your own choices. Think of a boundary as a property line around what is yours to care for, your values, your body, your time and energy. That line helps you guard your heart and keep a clear yes as yes and no as no, so connection doesn't have to mean losing yourself. Learning that often takes support from another person, because it's hard to hold alone.

If you can, consider letting one safe, trusted person in, a counselor, pastor, or another adult you trust. If worry about pregnancy or your period is weighing on you, please also talk with your mom when you feel able or with a medical professional so you can get accurate care alongside prayer.

Father, in Jesus' name we bring her to you. You see her fear and confusion and her honest questions about you. Draw near to her, give her peace, wisdom and courage to care for herself well, and put safe people around her to support her. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your fear and trembling have been heard, and I do not take them lightly. You speak of being used again, of dread about what might come from sin, of hiding this from your mother, and of wondering whether God is even real. These are heavy burdens to carry alone, and they call for truth spoken in love.

Scripture tells us there are two kinds of fear. There is the fear that comes from guilt and danger, and there is the holy fear of God which keeps us from sin. When we live with the fear of God before our eyes we judge our conduct by how it appears in His sight, and we say with Joseph, How can I do this great wickedness and sin against God. That fear does not torment, it preserves. It keeps us apart from every evil thing that would entice us. The other fear, the dread of consequences, of pregnancy, of being found out, of being left, is real and painful, but it cannot save or cleanse. Only forgiveness can turn dread into holy reverence.

You ask for prayer that his lust would stop because you love him and cannot keep doing this. True love does not use. Lust takes, love protects and honors. What you are describing is not love as God defines it, and to continue in sexual intimacy outside the lifelong covenant of marriage, which God ordained for one man and one woman, will only deepen the wound. Sex belongs within that covenant alone, and outside it Scripture calls us to flee, not to linger and bargain. I cannot ask God to bless a path that His Word calls sin, for that would be to ask Him to deny Himself. What I will pray, and do pray, is that God would grant you both repentance and a new way.

The angel's message at Bethlehem was, Fear not, for unto you is born a Savior, Christ the Lord. Jesus who is God was born and lived and died as man, that the link between you and God might be restored. I am no longer afraid of God, not because my sin does not matter, but because Christ bore its penalty. Forgiveness of sin is essential to true fear of God, and wherever it is enjoyed it breeds devotion and consecration to Him. If you doubt whether God is real, look to Christ. He reveals the Father, He died and rose again and sits at the right hand of God, and His Word glorifies God and humbles man. That is how we know it is true.

Doubting is dangerous, not because God is fragile, but because unbelief keeps us from the only refuge. To mistrust His oath and His promises sealed with the blood of His own Son is to call Him false, and it leaves us to lean on our own strength, which will fail. He is the God of the hills and the God of the valleys. He is not only God for the strong and celebrated, but for the low valley where you now find yourself, fearful, irritated, and alone. He sees you there.

Hear then what grace invites you to do. Turn to the Lord Jesus Christ alone for salvation, confessing your sin without excuse and trusting His blood to cleanse you. Ask Him not only to forgive but to teach you to fear Him in the holy sense, to say no to what dishonors Him. That will mean a decisive break from what is using you. Do not be alone with him, do not give opportunity to temptation, and do not let love be defined by what leaves you afraid and empty. If you are being pressured or feel you cannot say no, please tell a safe person at once.

Because your mother does not know and you are afraid, seek help from a godly woman you trust, a mother, a pastor's wife, a pastor, or a counselor who holds to God's Word, and let them know what has happened and what you fear. You should not carry this in secret. If you have concern about pregnancy or your health, seek care with a trusted adult and medical help promptly rather than waiting in fear.

I will pray for you now in the way Scripture directs. I pray that God would show Himself real to you through Christ, that He would grant you repentance and faith, that He would forgive you through the cross, that He would give you holy fear to flee sexual sin, that He would break the pattern of being used and give you courage to establish boundaries that honor Him, that He would give you wisdom and help to speak to your mother or another trusted guardian, and that He would guard your body and your future and lead you in purity.

Dwell long upon Christ and His mercy, and let that mercy teach you to walk in purity. He who saves harlots and publicans also blesses the seeker of truth and sows in honest ground. Come to Him as you are, and He will not cast you out.

 

[Dan T]

You must take control of your life! God is allowing you to make every decision you make... Your problems will continue to escalate until you start making good decisions. Lust does not go away... God does not intervene in your decisions... Get it together, sister before it's too late!

 

[Fotourside]

thank you everyone.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

Praying for you - Please do not allow anyone to ever use you or degrade you, in any way. Please read the responses given to your prayer request and do your best to put a stop to allowing this person to use you. Loving someone does not give them the right to abuse you or mistreat but you must be willing to put a stop to such behavior and mistreatment. Praying for you in the name of Jesus.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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