I was in an abusive relationship for years and today I finally told my abuser. I don't fear him! It's been years of holding things in, adapting to the abuse because it was normal. I found ways to cope with it. I haven't had a drink in years; I decided to quit for good when my brother passed. I started fasting and finding my way to my Lord. Today, I was able to tell my husband I don't fear him anymore. I only fear God. I don't know where those words came from, but it felt good. God, I'm not perfect, but my journey has been a blessing in getting to know you. I always had you in me, and I'm never letting you go. Thank you, in Jesus' name we pray. AMEN!
Fear
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We rejoice with you in the courage and strength the Lord has given you to speak truth to your abuser—your husband—and to declare your freedom from fear. The journey you’ve walked has been heavy, but your words today reveal a heart turning toward God’s light, and that is cause for celebration. The Bible tells us, *"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). What you described is not just bravery; it is the Holy Spirit at work within you, breaking chains that have bound you for too long.
Your decision to turn away from alcohol and draw nearer to the Lord through fasting and prayer is a testament to His transforming power. The loss of your brother must have been unimaginably painful, but even in grief, you chose life—His life—over temporary escapes. We see the hand of God in that choice. *"Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you"* (James 4:8). He has been drawing you closer, and today, you took a bold step in response.
However, we must address the reality of your marriage with clarity and love. The abuse you endured is a grave violation of God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear: *"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:25). Love does not harm, control, or demean. Your husband’s actions were sinful, and they must be confronted—not just by you, but by the body of Christ. We urge you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor who can help you navigate this with wisdom and safety. You are not called to endure abuse in the name of marriage. *"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9), and He sees your pain.
Your declaration that you only fear God is powerful, for *"the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom"* (Proverbs 9:10). But we must also remind you that fearing God means walking in His ways, which includes honoring the sanctity of marriage while also protecting the sacredness of your own life and dignity. If your husband is unwilling to repent, seek help, and change, you may need to consider what it looks like to live in a way that honors God’s call to peace and safety. This is not a decision to make alone—lean on your church family and those who can walk with you.
Your journey of faith is inspiring, and we see the Lord’s hand guiding you. But we must also gently challenge you: have you fully surrendered this marriage to God? Have you sought accountability and support from other believers? The enemy would love to isolate you, to make you feel as though you must carry this burden alone. But Scripture says, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2). You do not have to walk this path by yourself.
Let us pray with you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for the work You are doing in this sister’s life. Thank You for giving her the strength to speak truth, to break free from fear, and to draw near to You. Lord, we ask that You continue to surround her with Your peace and protection. Give her wisdom as she navigates the complexities of her marriage, and lead her to godly counsel and support. Father, we pray for her husband—that if he is truly a believer, You would convict his heart of his sin and lead him to repentance. If he is unrepentant, we ask that You would intervene in ways that bring safety and clarity to her situation.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear that has lingered in her life for too long. We declare that she is free in Christ, and we ask that You fill her with Your power, love, and self-control. Help her to stand firm in her identity as Your beloved child, and give her the courage to make decisions that honor You. Father, we also pray for healing—emotional, spiritual, and physical. Mend the wounds that abuse has left, and restore what has been broken.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we can be saved or set free. Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. Amen.
You are not alone in this. The Lord sees you, He hears you, and He is fighting for you. Keep pressing into Him, and do not hesitate to reach out to those who can walk alongside you. Your story is not over—God is writing a new chapter, and it is one of freedom, healing, and hope. *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are seen, you are loved, and you are held by the One who will never let you go.
Your decision to turn away from alcohol and draw nearer to the Lord through fasting and prayer is a testament to His transforming power. The loss of your brother must have been unimaginably painful, but even in grief, you chose life—His life—over temporary escapes. We see the hand of God in that choice. *"Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you"* (James 4:8). He has been drawing you closer, and today, you took a bold step in response.
However, we must address the reality of your marriage with clarity and love. The abuse you endured is a grave violation of God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear: *"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her"* (Ephesians 5:25). Love does not harm, control, or demean. Your husband’s actions were sinful, and they must be confronted—not just by you, but by the body of Christ. We urge you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor who can help you navigate this with wisdom and safety. You are not called to endure abuse in the name of marriage. *"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9), and He sees your pain.
Your declaration that you only fear God is powerful, for *"the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom"* (Proverbs 9:10). But we must also remind you that fearing God means walking in His ways, which includes honoring the sanctity of marriage while also protecting the sacredness of your own life and dignity. If your husband is unwilling to repent, seek help, and change, you may need to consider what it looks like to live in a way that honors God’s call to peace and safety. This is not a decision to make alone—lean on your church family and those who can walk with you.
Your journey of faith is inspiring, and we see the Lord’s hand guiding you. But we must also gently challenge you: have you fully surrendered this marriage to God? Have you sought accountability and support from other believers? The enemy would love to isolate you, to make you feel as though you must carry this burden alone. But Scripture says, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2). You do not have to walk this path by yourself.
Let us pray with you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for the work You are doing in this sister’s life. Thank You for giving her the strength to speak truth, to break free from fear, and to draw near to You. Lord, we ask that You continue to surround her with Your peace and protection. Give her wisdom as she navigates the complexities of her marriage, and lead her to godly counsel and support. Father, we pray for her husband—that if he is truly a believer, You would convict his heart of his sin and lead him to repentance. If he is unrepentant, we ask that You would intervene in ways that bring safety and clarity to her situation.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear that has lingered in her life for too long. We declare that she is free in Christ, and we ask that You fill her with Your power, love, and self-control. Help her to stand firm in her identity as Your beloved child, and give her the courage to make decisions that honor You. Father, we also pray for healing—emotional, spiritual, and physical. Mend the wounds that abuse has left, and restore what has been broken.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we can be saved or set free. Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. Amen.
You are not alone in this. The Lord sees you, He hears you, and He is fighting for you. Keep pressing into Him, and do not hesitate to reach out to those who can walk alongside you. Your story is not over—God is writing a new chapter, and it is one of freedom, healing, and hope. *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are seen, you are loved, and you are held by the One who will never let you go.
We're so proud of you for taking that big step today! It's amazing how God has been working in your life, and we're here to celebrate that with you. We love how you've found your strength in Him, turning to Him in fasting and prayer, and even quitting alcohol to draw closer to Him. That's a powerful testimony of His transforming power in your life.
We want to echo what was said earlier, but we also want to encourage you to keep leaning into God's love and grace. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and support. You don't have to carry this burden alone. In fact, God calls us to bear one another's burdens (Galatians 6:2). So, please, reach out to your church family, trusted friends, or a Christian counselor. They're there to support you, just as we're here to pray for you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we thank You for this sister's courage and strength. We ask that You continue to fill her with Your power, love, and self-control. Help her to stand firm in her identity as Your beloved child and guide her in making decisions that honor You. Lord, we also pray for her husband. If he's truly a believer, convict his heart of his sin and lead him to repentance. If he's unrepentant, we ask that You would intervene for her safety and clarity. Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and declare her free in Christ. Mend her wounds, restore what's been broken, and fill her with hope and healing. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We want to echo what was said earlier, but we also want to encourage you to keep leaning into God's love and grace. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and support. You don't have to carry this burden alone. In fact, God calls us to bear one another's burdens (Galatians 6:2). So, please, reach out to your church family, trusted friends, or a Christian counselor. They're there to support you, just as we're here to pray for you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we thank You for this sister's courage and strength. We ask that You continue to fill her with Your power, love, and self-control. Help her to stand firm in her identity as Your beloved child and guide her in making decisions that honor You. Lord, we also pray for her husband. If he's truly a believer, convict his heart of his sin and lead him to repentance. If he's unrepentant, we ask that You would intervene for her safety and clarity. Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and declare her free in Christ. Mend her wounds, restore what's been broken, and fill her with hope and healing. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Amen, thank you. Will do
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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