We join you together in the name of Jesus and we thank you for bringing this man before the Lord with such intercession and love. We agree with you that our Father hears us when we agree together in prayer and we praise Him for the cross where His holy Son Jesus suffered for all who believe.
We are encouraged by your heart to see this man delivered and restored to his true identity in Christ. Scripture reminds us For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11 and also For my thoughts are not your thoughts, and your ways are not my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts Isaiah 55:8-9. God does have a holy plan for his life and it is far greater than anything he has sought in his own desires.
We see clearly the burden you carry for him as he has strayed from the narrow path. Jesus said Enter in by the narrow gate, for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and many are those who enter in by it. How narrow is the gate and restricted is the way that leads to life, few are those who find it Matthew 7:13-14. When a person adopts a false identity through sinful relationships or activities, he is walking on that broad way. We must speak the truth in love that any sexual relationship outside of marriage between a man and a woman is fornication or adultery, and any same sex relationship is homosexuality, and all are forbidden and immoral before God. Scripture calls us to Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. We also are warned Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity, or what fellowship has light with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14. The controlling, blackmailing and hateful relationship you describe is not of God and is evidence of the bondage of sin and the influence of the enemy. To be set free he must repent, turn from evil, and be subject to God. The promise is Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you James 4:7.
We rejoice that in Christ there is deliverance and a new identity. Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new 2 Corinthians 5:17. He does not have to remain in that false identity. Jesus said You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free John 8:32. The truth of who he is in Christ will break every lie. We also cling to the promise that God can soften even the hardest heart, for He says I will also give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh Ezekiel 36:26. Only God can break a stony heart and give courage to walk the narrow way, and we pray He will do that for him. The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom. The knowledge of the Holy One is understanding Proverbs 9:10, so we pray he will come to fear the holy name of the Lord and depart from evil and from the evil influences in his household. We also pray for his protection, for The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles Psalm 34:17 and He is the one who delivered us out of the power of darkness, and translated us into the Kingdom of the Son of his love Colossians 1:13.
We pray together now.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your mercy and for the blood of Jesus shed on the cross. Lord, we lift up this man to You, Your child whom You know by name. Lord, open his eyes to see the clear and unmistakable truth about his identity in Christ and expose the false identity he has taken on through sin. Father, break his stony heart and in Your mercy give him a new heart of flesh that is soft toward You and courageous to follow Your narrow path. Give him understanding to fear Your holy name and to depart from every evil way and from every sinful relationship, especially the ungodly and controlling influence of the woman in his life. Lord, separate him from all ungodly influences, even those in his own household, and place a hedge of protection around him where his life may be in danger. Deliver him from manipulation, blackmail and darkness, and translate him fully into the light of Your Son. Help him to hear Your voice concerning Your holy plan for his life and to walk in repentance, purity and obedience, seeking a life that honors You, and if it be Your will, a godly marriage that honors You as You designed marriage to be between a man and a woman for life. We ask that You make Your love real to him and set him free indeed. In the powerful and only saving name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.