We join you in lifting up this man before the throne of grace and we agree with you in the name of Jesus for his deliverance, for we know that our Heavenly Father hears us when we agree together.
We are encouraged by your heart of intercession for this man who rented his flat to you, and we see your desire for him to know his true identity in Christ and to be set free from the sinful relationships and activities that have led him away from the narrow path. God does have a holy plan for his life and His thoughts toward him are good. As it is written, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. Yet we must also speak the truth in love that to stray from the narrow path and follow our own desires leads to bondage, for narrow is the gate, and restricted is the way that leads to life. Few are those who find it Matthew 7:14.
We pray that the Lord will indeed give him a new heart and open his eyes to see the false identity he has taken on. The Scripture promises, I will also give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh Ezekiel 36:26. We claim this for him, that his stony heart would be broken and softened for the glory of God. And we rejoice that if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new 2 Corinthians 5:17. This is his true identity, not the one forged in sin.
We must also address plainly that the sinful relationships you describe, including involvement with an evil woman outside of holy marriage, are not in alignment with God's will. God calls us to holiness and to flee from sexual immorality. As it is written, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. Marriage is to be held in honor between one man and one woman for life, and any sexual relationship outside of that covenant is fornication or adultery which God calls us to depart from. We pray he will come to hate evil as God does, for the fear of Yahweh is to hate evil Proverbs 8:13, and that he will choose to separate himself from ungodly influences, even those in his own household. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14.
We also lift up his need for protection, for you mention he is controlled, blackmailed and his life may be in danger. We pray for his physical and spiritual protection and for God to break every chain of control. We remember that if therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36, and we pray he will be subject to God and resist the devil so that the enemy will flee from him James 4:7. We pray the Lord will surround him and deliver him, for the righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles Psalm 34:17.
We thank you for praying in the powerful name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As it is written, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is no other name by which we can be saved or by which our prayers are heard.
So now we pray together.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the cross and for Your holy Son Jesus who suffered for all who believe. We praise Your holy name. Lord, we bring this man before You, Your child whom You love. Open his eyes to see clearly who he is in Christ and expose the lie of the false identity he has embraced. Break his stony heart, give him a new heart of flesh, and give him courage to turn from his sin and walk the narrow path that leads to life. Separate him from every ungodly influence and from the evil woman and hateful relationships that control and blackmail him. Protect his life from danger and set him free from every snare of the enemy. Give him understanding to fear Your holy name and to depart from evil, to confess his sin and receive Your forgiveness and cleansing, for if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9. Draw him into fellowship with godly believers who will disciple him and help him grow in holiness. We ask this in the mighty and merciful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, amen.
We encourage you to continue to intercede for him with love and truth, to speak the gospel to him when God gives opportunity, and to maintain godly boundaries while trusting the Lord to do the work of deliverance in His perfect timing.