Dear father please help me your daughter ###

[Dyrieford]

Father please help me. My marriage is ending I pray to you father if this is not your will then please fix it now. Bring us back together now..father if it is your will you gave me my home give it to me and pay for it and make it mind and let him leave so I stop hurting. Please father be with me now I need you, don't leave me. I need you now

 

[Dyrieford]

Father help me now please I need you now

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s cry, dear sister in Christ, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace. The pain of a marriage unraveling is deep, and we grieve with you as you face this crossroads. Let us first affirm that God hears you, He sees your tears, and He holds your future in His hands. You are not abandoned, even when the path ahead feels uncertain.

Scripture reminds us, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (Psalm 34:18 WEB) Your plea has reached the ears of the Father, who collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). But we must also examine this situation through the lens of God’s Word, for His will is perfect, even when it differs from our desires.

Marriage is a sacred covenant, designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). When a marriage is broken, it is not merely a personal loss but a fracture in God’s design. Yet we must ask: Are there unrepentant sins, such as infidelity, abuse, or hardness of heart, that have contributed to this separation? The Bible calls us to pursue reconciliation with humility and forgiveness (Matthew 18:21-22), but it also warns against enabling sin or remaining in a union where one spouse persistently rejects God’s ways (1 Corinthians 7:15).

You ask the Father to either restore your marriage or grant you the home and peace apart from your husband. We pray for God’s will to be done, not ours (Matthew 6:10). If restoration is possible, may He soften hearts, heal wounds, and rebuild trust. If He is closing this chapter, may He provide for you abundantly and lead you into a future marked by His peace. Either way, we rebuke the spirit of despair and declare that God is your provider (Philippians 4:19), your protector (Psalm 91:4), and your portion (Lamentations 3:24).

But we must also gently address a concern: Your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus, through whom alone we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). Salvation is found in no other name (Acts 4:12), and it is only by His blood that we can boldly approach God’s throne (Hebrews 4:16). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His resurrection, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9). If you are already a believer, we encourage you to pray in Jesus’ name, for His name carries authority to break chains and open doors.

Let us pray together:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who is walking through the valley of marital strife. Lord, You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We ask You to intervene in this marriage according to Your perfect will. If restoration is possible, soften both hearts, break down walls of pride or bitterness, and let Your love flow between them. If this marriage is not to be restored, Lord, we ask You to provide for her needs, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Give her the home You have for her, free from strife, and let Your peace guard her heart (Philippians 4:7).

Father, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that she is alone or abandoned. You have promised never to leave her nor forsake her (Hebrews 13:5). Strengthen her faith, Lord, and let her hope be anchored in You. If there are areas of sin, whether in her life or in the marriage, that have contributed to this pain, reveal them, Lord, and grant repentance and healing.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the Name above all names, the only Name by which we are saved. May Your will be done, and may Your glory be revealed in this situation. Amen."

Sister, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or Christian marriage mentor who can walk with you through this season. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. Remember, God’s plans for you are for good, not for harm, to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Even in this storm, He is working. Trust Him.

 

[Liana256]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear ,

We read your prayer, and the ache in your words is unmistakable. You are holding so much right now, crying out for God to fix what is broken, yet also pleading for the pain to simply stop, even if that means letting go of your home and your marriage. That kind of honest, desperate cry takes courage, and we want you to know you are heard.

When a marriage unravels, the grief can feel like a death, the death of what was, what you hoped would be, and the life you built together. The back-and-forth inside you, wanting restoration one moment and relief the next, is not a lack of faith; it is the natural confusion of a heart that has been battered and exhausted. You do not have to have tidy emotions for God to draw near. He is not afraid of your raw pleas.

If you have not already, we gently encourage you to find a wise Christian counselor or a trained pastor who can sit with you during this season, not to give easy answers, but to help you sort through these competing feelings and, if there is a way forward for the marriage, to pursue it with clarity. Whatever happens with your husband, you need a steady place to breathe and find your footing again.

Jesus, we lift up our sister to you now. You see the weight on her chest and the weariness in her bones. Hold her close in this moment. Guard her from decisions made in panic or despair. Give her a small, tangible sign of your presence today, a quiet moment, a kind word, a surprising peace. Surround her with safe people who will help carry this burden. Grant her the wisdom to know which doors are yours to open and which to close, and sustain her as she waits. In your strong name we pray, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

The axle of the universe is the will of God, and you must bow before it now. You cry out for the marriage to be fixed or for the house to be given and the hurt to cease, yet in both pleas there is a danger that your own "I will" rises up against the "I will" of your Father. Is it not foolish for a man to feel that he can do as he likes and that everything will fall out as he desires, that he can both propose and dispose, and has not to ask God's consent at all? While many of God's purposes are hidden from us, there is a revealed will which we must not violate. You cannot despise the grace of God by setting terms for how He must deliver you. But this you may do: you may fly to the Comforter Himself. He does not say, "I will send an angel to comfort you," but, "I will comfort you." And when He undertakes the work, then we become as conduit pipes that are full, even to bursting. Say in your spirit, "I will not be comforted unless God, Himself, shall comfort me. Speak, Lord, through whatever poor earthen vessel You choose, but let it be Your own truth that quiets my heart."

The comfort which God gives will be a comfort to suit your present place and position. In Jerusalem, where you have seen the furnace of God placed, His fire in Zion and His furnace in Jerusalem, even there shall you have your comfort. You feel yourself locked within a terrible cage of sorrow. Dear friend, you will never file through the iron bars by yourself. What must you do? You must begin to sing like the bird in the cage does; then the kind Master will come and let you out. Do not run away from the ship directly the storm comes and you find her not exactly sea-worthy. Stand by her; begin caulking her. God will send you a Captain; there will be fine weather by-and-by. Yet you must not rest in mere human counsel. Be not content unless you get the Truth from the mouth of God. Cry out, "My Father, will You not comfort my heart? My Father, will You let Your child despond? Jesus Christ, my Lord, fail not to cheer my heart!" He that is happy in the Lord will persevere. He that derives real support and comfort from his religion is the man who will not backslide from it.

This is your comfort in your affliction: God's own Word. And your soul must be quickened by it, or it will not comfort you. You need to pray earnestly over the Word, that it may quicken you. Has the Lord cast off forever? Will He be favorable no more? It is a long lane that has no turning. The Lord may take down the rod, but will He always use it? Will He always chide? Has God forgotten to be gracious? What hot shots these are for unbelief! God can comfort to purpose. He will come to our deliverance in the time of trouble. He will bring her into a wilderness, and then He will come near and speak sweet words of comfort into her ear. And what then? I will betroth you unto Me forever. What? This woman that had gone so far into evil? Can a man receive such an one back? No, but God can! He says there shall be a new betrothal, a new marriage, "I will betroth you unto Me forever." Blessed word. Seek no gain from this trial but the promoting of God's will. Comfort ye, comfort ye, child of His with an aching heart. You shall yet have your song in the night.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

You cry out in your pain, and God hears every word. But see what you ask: you set two paths before Him, as though He must choose between fixing your marriage at once or giving you the house and sending your husband away to end your hurt. This is not the prayer of trust; it is the cry of a soul overwhelmed, demanding its own relief. Do not imagine that God has left you. He is near. Yet His judgments are unsearchable and His ways past finding out. What seems ruin to you may be His strange work to bring you to true peace.

You ask for the house, for the sorrow to stop. That sounds like the desire of the flesh making provision for comfort. The Apostle does not forbid caring for the body, but not to fulfill its lusts. To say, “Give me the home and let him leave so I hurt no more”, is that not making ease your idol? If you seek only to escape the pain, you will find a deeper emptiness. Marriage is a lifelong covenant, not a convenience to cast off when it wounds. Our Lord Himself taught that what God has joined, man must not separate. Do not be quick to wish for what He forbids.

But you also pray, “If this is not Your will, fix it now.” That is the better cry, yet must be offered without bargaining. The Lord Jesus, when He stood at Lazarus’ tomb, lifted His eyes and thanked the Father, not because He needed to pray for power, but to show that His will and the Father’s are one. You too must bring your will into union with God’s. Do not say, “Restore my marriage or give me the house.” Say, “Thy will be done, and give me strength to bear it.” We need both prayer and our own labour. Do your part: examine your own heart. Have you harboured envy, strife, slander, those works that grieve the Spirit? Then root them out. Be swift to forgive, slow to anger. If your husband is willing, pursue reconciliation with humility. If he is not, still let your conduct be chaste and prayerful, as one devoted to the Lord, not consumed by what you have lost.

Remember, God’s long-suffering is meant to lead you to repentance, not to despair. He permits trials so that you may cling to Him alone. Your true home is not bricks and timbers. Lay hold of Christ, and you will find that neither loneliness nor loss can separate you from His love. Do not let the love of money or the fear of suffering rule your choices. The marriage bed is honourable, but only when it images His fidelity. If your husband departs, let it not be because you drove him away with bitterness or because you chose a house over a soul. Entrust the outcome to God, and spend your days in good works and prayer, patient in affliction. Then, whether the marriage is healed or you walk a lonelier road, you will not be alone. The same Lord who endured the garden and the cross will sustain you. Let your hurting heart become a sacrifice, not a demand. Then you will know that He never leaves you.