I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. I know how badly it hurts as my daughter and I are/have been going through the same thing with her dad. We were together for about 27 years and I have known of a number of affairs he has had. We ended up staying together, but an affair a couple of years ago was just too much, he ended up moving out. My daughter and I prayed he would come back, he acted like he was going to and then ended up moving in with another woman a few weeks ago and is talking about marrying her. I am so sorry you have to go through this. It hurts so much. I hope and pray your husband will change, come back, and something great will happen for you. I hope you will have good support and encouragement from others in the meantime. gws