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[Anonymous]

Life into existence 100 100 Fold greatly I have a great boyfriend in my life greatly I have great accuracy in choosing a boyfriend that’s a good thing GREATLYYYYY HE STAYSSSZZZ THEN WE GET MARRIED HE IS MINE GREATLYYY HES SEES ME AS HIS HAPPINESS GREATLYYYY...Loosen Verse Deut 28:13 TAILED SATAN CRAP CREW THAT DOESNT WANT ME HAPPY WITH A BOYFRIEND HEARTS DESIRES DREAMS COME TRUE GREATLYY..LIFE IN I PACK UP MY BELONGINGS I SO DRACO DOESNT PEE ANYMORE ON THEM GREATLY I CLEAN UP MY BELONGINGS ORGANIZATION IN TUBS GREATLYYYYY WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart's desire for love and companionship and for order and peace in your home, and we join with you in bringing these desires before the Lord in Jesus' name.

We want to gently speak to the way this request is phrased about speaking life into existence one hundred fold and greatly. We understand the longing to see good things come to pass, but scripture teaches us that it is God who speaks life into being, not us through declarations or formulas. We are called to pray according to His will and trust His sovereign goodness. As James 4:3 reminds us, You ask and don't receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures. And 1 John 5:14 says, This is the boldness which we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. So we do not try to manifest or demand a boyfriend, but we humbly ask God to lead and provide according to His perfect will.

We also hear your desire for a great boyfriend who stays and then leads to marriage, and we want to encourage you biblically in this. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and we see courtship not as simply having a boyfriend but as intentionally seeking a godly spouse. If God wills for you to be married, we pray He brings a faithful Christian believer who will love you as Christ loves the church and who will see you as a gift from the Lord, and that you would see him the same way. We encourage you to pursue this relationship with purity and wisdom. If you are in a relationship, we urge you to keep yourselves from sexual intimacy before marriage, for scripture calls sex before or outside of marriage fornication and it is to be fled from. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. And Hebrews 13:4 says, Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. We also encourage you not to approach a relationship with a possessive spirit of he is mine greatly, but with trust that God will give wisdom and accuracy in choosing. James 1:5 says, But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. And 2 Corinthians 6:14 reminds us, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have. So we pray for discernment to choose a man who loves Jesus first, and that if this man is not God's best for you, that the Lord would make that clear and guard your heart.

You mentioned Deuteronomy 28:13 and wanting to be the head and not the tail and to be free from the enemy who does not want you happy. We claim that promise in its right context, which is tied to obedience and walking with the Lord. Deuteronomy 28:13 says, Yahweh will make you the head, and not the tail. You will be above only, and you will not be beneath, if you listen to the commandments of Yahweh your God which I command you today, to observe and to do them. Our true protection and blessing comes as we abide in Him. We also want to gently encourage you regarding language. In your hurt toward the enemy we understand your frustration, but we are called to let no corrupt speech proceed out of our mouths, but only what is good for building up. Ephesians 4:29. We can stand firmly against the schemes of the devil with truth and prayer without using coarse words, trusting that greater is He who is in us.

We also lift up the practical need you shared about packing and organizing your belongings and dealing with ###. We know how discouraging and tiring it can be when our home feels disorderly or when a beloved pet causes damage. We pray for peace, organization, and stewardship in your home.

We now pray together.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and through His blood which was shed for us, thanking You that we have access to Your throne of grace through Him alone. We ask that You would align the desires of this heart with Your will. If it is Your will for marriage, we ask You to bring a godly husband, a man after Your own heart, who will pursue purity, faithfulness, and covenant love, and that this relationship would be a courtship aimed toward holy marriage that honors You. Grant wisdom and great accuracy and discernment in choosing, and guard against any fornication or compromise. Let both lives be rooted in You. We pray Psalm 37:4 over this life, that as she delights herself in You, You will give her the desires of her heart according to Your perfect plan. Help her to trust in You with all her heart and not lean on her own understanding. Proverbs 3:5-6. We rebuke any attempt to manipulate outcomes through declarations and we ask instead for surrender to Your good and perfect will, seeking first Your Kingdom and Your righteousness. Matthew 6:33. We ask for protection from the enemy and that no weapon formed against her would prosper, and that You would make her the head and not the tail as she walks in obedience to You. We also ask for grace over her home, for help in packing, cleaning, and organizing her belongings into tubs, for order and cleanliness, and for wisdom in caring for ### that this behavior would stop and peace would be restored in the home. Let all be done decently and in order for Your glory. We thank You for Your love and Your faithfulness and we trust You to answer according to Your wisdom and mercy. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how much you want a faithful, loving relationship that lasts and leads to marriage, and to be deeply cherished by someone who sees you as his happiness. That longing to be chosen and to build a steady future together is understandable, and we are bringing it before the Lord with you.

We also hear that you want wisdom in choosing well and that you feel opposed at times, as if others or the enemy are working against your joy. We are praying for clear discernment for you, for peace that steadies your heart, and for the assurance that God sees you and cares about every detail of your life and future.

You mentioned packing up your belongings and organizing them into tubs to keep them clean and safe from ###. That is a good, practical step toward a more peaceful home, and continuing a little at a time can help your space feel more orderly and protected while you pray.

If it helps, consider sharing these hopes with a trusted pastor or mature friend who knows you and can walk with you and pray with you in person as you seek God's direction.

Father, we lift our sister to You today. Surround her with Your peace and protection, give her wisdom and clarity in her relationship, and guide her steps according to Your will. Bless the work of her hands as she cares for her home, and help her rest in Your love and leading day by day. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

There is a deep longing in your words for love that lasts and for a home that is ordered and peaceful, and it is good that you would bring your desires before the Lord, for He hears the groanings of the heart. Yet the way to bring them is not by speaking a life into existence by your own words, nor by loosening a verse as though Scripture were an incantation, but by humble communion with God and trust in His wise and holy will.

The Scriptures teach us that God alone creates by His word, and our part is to trust Him and wait upon Him. To desire a godly marriage is not wrong, for marriage is a good gift of God, a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman. But our happiness must not be made to rest upon a man, nor upon a boyfriend remaining because we have declared it so. The Christian finds the summit of his joy in fellowship with his God, and says, though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him. When the soul thirsts for God, for the living God, then all other desires are set in their right place and ordered under His fear and love.

Wherever we roam, wherever we rest, we are surrounded still with God, and the fear of the Lord keeps us from making compromise with sin. For that reason we cannot ask God to bless living together or any physical union outside of marriage, for sex and dwelling together belong within that covenant alone. If marriage is your hope, then pray that the Lord would lead you, if it be His will, to a faithful husband through a path of purity and holiness, and that you would be kept from sin and self contradiction, serving God with integrity whether that prayer is answered as you wish or in another way that is better.

The blood of Jesus is not a phrase to be added to our plans for organization or to secure our wishes, but the precious atonement by which sinners are cleansed and reconciled to God. Through faith in Christ alone we are saved, and being saved we are taught to walk in obedience. Deuteronomy 28:13 speaks of the blessing of the Lord upon His obedient people under His covenant, not a power we can loosen by repeating words. The true blessing is to know Christ and to be found in Him.

It is a good and careful thing to pack your belongings with order and to keep what God has given you in good stewardship, and to train what is in your home in a way that preserves cleanliness and peace. Do this as unto the Lord, with diligence and thankfulness, not as a charm but as faithful care of your dwelling.

May the Lord grant you grace to seek first communion with Himself, to grow in the fear of God which keeps from sin, and to trust Him with all temporal affairs. We pray that He would draw you near to Christ, cleanse you and keep you by His blood, give you wisdom and accuracy of judgment that comes from walking with Him, guard your heart from idolatry, and lead you in holiness. If it be His will to give you marriage, may it be a marriage that honors Him in purity and lifelong faithfulness, and if He calls you to wait, may you find rest in the house of your true Husband, Jesus Christ, whose covenant mercies never fail.