Please pray for my boyfriend as he is having ### lately that cause him to ###. He had to go to ### earlier but couldn't go due to ### so now he's going to the ###. He was given ### for this by his ### but it has not been effective. Please pray for him. Please also pray because I'm so worried that I'm bringing problems into his life due to spiritual warfare that has been attacking me for years (because I left the new age and came back to Christ). I'm worried that it's now attacking him through problems like this. He already was having these ### and other ### before we dated but things did get worse around the time we started dating. Thank you.
Boyfriend
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We hear your heart and the deep concern you carry for your boyfriend, and we lift him up before the Lord with urgency. First, we must address the foundation of our prayers, it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved, and salvation comes by believing in Him, repenting of sin, and trusting in His finished work on the cross (Acts 4:12, John 14:6, Romans 10:9). If your boyfriend does not yet know Jesus as his Lord and Savior, we pray that the Holy Spirit would draw him to repentance and faith, for true healing, spiritually, emotionally, and physically, begins with a relationship with Christ.
Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, interceding for this young man who is struggling with these afflictions. You are the Great Physician, the One who heals all our diseases (Psalm 103:2-3). We ask that You would touch his body, mind, and spirit, bringing restoration where there is brokenness. Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are greater than any attack of the enemy. We rebuke any spirit of infirmity or oppression in Jesus’ name and command it to flee. We pray for wisdom and discernment for his doctors and that the treatments prescribed would be effective, as You work all things together for good (Romans 8:28).
We also lift up this dear sister in Christ, who is carrying a heavy burden of worry and guilt. Beloved, we want to encourage you with the truth of God’s Word: you are not responsible for the spiritual attacks that may come against your boyfriend. The enemy is a liar and a thief, and his goal is to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). However, Jesus came to give life abundantly, and He has already overcome the enemy (1 John 4:4). You did the right thing by leaving the new age and returning to Christ, this is a testimony of God’s faithfulness and your obedience. The enemy may try to use guilt and fear to keep you bound, but we declare that you are free in Christ (Galatians 5:1). Stand firm in your faith, put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), and resist the devil, and he will flee from you (James 4:7).
Now, we must address the nature of your relationship with this young man. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33, Genesis 2:24). Dating or courtship should always have the goal of marriage in mind, and it must be pursued in a way that honors God. This means guarding your hearts and bodies, avoiding sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), and ensuring that your relationship is built on Christ as the foundation. If you are not currently in a season of pursuing marriage with godly intentionality, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom about whether this relationship is His will for you both. Pray for clarity, and do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he does not know the Lord, your priority should be to pray for his salvation and to model Christ’s love to him, rather than pursuing a romantic relationship that could lead to compromise.
Father, we ask that You would give this sister peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and help her to cast all her anxieties on You, because You care for her (1 Peter 5:7). We pray for her boyfriend, that You would draw him to Yourself, break every chain of sickness and oppression, and fill him with Your peace and strength. Lord, we ask that You would bring godly mentors and believers into his life who can speak truth and encouragement to him. We declare that he is not alone, You are with him, and You will never leave him nor forsake him (Hebrews 13:5).
Finally, we encourage you both to seek the Lord together, if possible. Pray for one another, study Scripture, and surround yourselves with a community of believers who can support and uplift you. If this relationship is not built on Christ, we urge you to seek His will above all else. May the Lord bless you with wisdom, discernment, and His perfect peace as you trust in Him. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, interceding for this young man who is struggling with these afflictions. You are the Great Physician, the One who heals all our diseases (Psalm 103:2-3). We ask that You would touch his body, mind, and spirit, bringing restoration where there is brokenness. Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are greater than any attack of the enemy. We rebuke any spirit of infirmity or oppression in Jesus’ name and command it to flee. We pray for wisdom and discernment for his doctors and that the treatments prescribed would be effective, as You work all things together for good (Romans 8:28).
We also lift up this dear sister in Christ, who is carrying a heavy burden of worry and guilt. Beloved, we want to encourage you with the truth of God’s Word: you are not responsible for the spiritual attacks that may come against your boyfriend. The enemy is a liar and a thief, and his goal is to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). However, Jesus came to give life abundantly, and He has already overcome the enemy (1 John 4:4). You did the right thing by leaving the new age and returning to Christ, this is a testimony of God’s faithfulness and your obedience. The enemy may try to use guilt and fear to keep you bound, but we declare that you are free in Christ (Galatians 5:1). Stand firm in your faith, put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18), and resist the devil, and he will flee from you (James 4:7).
Now, we must address the nature of your relationship with this young man. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33, Genesis 2:24). Dating or courtship should always have the goal of marriage in mind, and it must be pursued in a way that honors God. This means guarding your hearts and bodies, avoiding sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), and ensuring that your relationship is built on Christ as the foundation. If you are not currently in a season of pursuing marriage with godly intentionality, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom about whether this relationship is His will for you both. Pray for clarity, and do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he does not know the Lord, your priority should be to pray for his salvation and to model Christ’s love to him, rather than pursuing a romantic relationship that could lead to compromise.
Father, we ask that You would give this sister peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and help her to cast all her anxieties on You, because You care for her (1 Peter 5:7). We pray for her boyfriend, that You would draw him to Yourself, break every chain of sickness and oppression, and fill him with Your peace and strength. Lord, we ask that You would bring godly mentors and believers into his life who can speak truth and encouragement to him. We declare that he is not alone, You are with him, and You will never leave him nor forsake him (Hebrews 13:5).
Finally, we encourage you both to seek the Lord together, if possible. Pray for one another, study Scripture, and surround yourselves with a community of believers who can support and uplift you. If this relationship is not built on Christ, we urge you to seek His will above all else. May the Lord bless you with wisdom, discernment, and His perfect peace as you trust in Him. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Caden202
Prayer Warrior
I pray that whatever this persons BF is struggling with gets lifted from them and that they are healed and are upon your grace lord Jesus. Let this person and their BF know that they are loved and valued. I pray that they both experience peace and they are both at peace. Lord, nothing is impossible if we ask in your name please Jesus lift this person from their worries and heal their BF, Amen.
We can hear the weight of worry in your words, not just for your boyfriend’s health, but the fear that somehow your past is reaching into his present. That’s a heavy thought to carry, and we’re grateful you brought it here.
Those seizures sound unsettling and exhausting for both of you. We’re glad he’s seeking medical care, and we’d gently encourage him to keep pressing until he finds a treatment that truly helps. Sometimes it takes patience and persistence to get the right support, and that's okay. You don’t have to carry all the worry alone while he walks that path.
As for the spiritual warfare fear: it’s understandable that patterns might feel connected, but the truth is, his health problems started before your relationship. Correlation can feel loud when we’re already on edge from past battles, but you are not some dangerous person who brings harm just by loving someone. Christ has already broken whatever power that old darkness held. You came back to Him, and that movement was real, settled, and secure. Your presence in your boyfriend’s life isn't a threat; it’s a gift.
Right now, one of the most grounding things you can do is simply be present with him in the ordinary, unspooky moments of care, a calm voice in the waiting room, a hand to hold, or a meal made without fanfare. And when fear rises, let it drive you not to self-blame but to prayer that leaves the outcome with God.
Lord Jesus, we lift up this man to You. Quiet his body, bring wise doctors, and give him steady recovery. And for this dear sister, silence the condemning voice that says she’s the source of his suffering. Give her deep assurance that she is safe in You, and free her from the exhausting work of monitoring for spiritual danger. Let peace guard her mind and his body. Amen.
Those seizures sound unsettling and exhausting for both of you. We’re glad he’s seeking medical care, and we’d gently encourage him to keep pressing until he finds a treatment that truly helps. Sometimes it takes patience and persistence to get the right support, and that's okay. You don’t have to carry all the worry alone while he walks that path.
As for the spiritual warfare fear: it’s understandable that patterns might feel connected, but the truth is, his health problems started before your relationship. Correlation can feel loud when we’re already on edge from past battles, but you are not some dangerous person who brings harm just by loving someone. Christ has already broken whatever power that old darkness held. You came back to Him, and that movement was real, settled, and secure. Your presence in your boyfriend’s life isn't a threat; it’s a gift.
Right now, one of the most grounding things you can do is simply be present with him in the ordinary, unspooky moments of care, a calm voice in the waiting room, a hand to hold, or a meal made without fanfare. And when fear rises, let it drive you not to self-blame but to prayer that leaves the outcome with God.
Lord Jesus, we lift up this man to You. Quiet his body, bring wise doctors, and give him steady recovery. And for this dear sister, silence the condemning voice that says she’s the source of his suffering. Give her deep assurance that she is safe in You, and free her from the exhausting work of monitoring for spiritual danger. Let peace guard her mind and his body. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your worry over your boyfriend’s bodily afflictions is understandable, yet do not let fear master you. The enemy wages war against all who turn to Christ, but you are not alone in this conflict. Ask not of God only that your earthly troubles cease, for physical ease is sometimes given by the devil to lull souls asleep. The treasures of heaven are a contrite and humbled heart, a spirit sober and awake, full of repentance. These are the gifts you truly need, for your wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers. You left the new age; that is well, but the war has only grown fiercer. Yet instead of imagining that your past has unleashed a special attack on him, examine your own conscience. Is the life you both lead pleasing to God? For if any sin remains, even hidden, it opens a door.
I must speak plainly because I love your soul. You call him your boyfriend, but God’s order from the beginning is the lifelong covenant of marriage between one man and one woman. If you are living together or sharing intimacies outside that holy bond, you are not at peace with God, and such disobedience invites discipline, not blessing. I cannot ask the Lord to bless a relationship that runs against His will, to do so would be to mock His commandments. Instead, I urge you toward purity and continence. Let your union, if it is to continue, become honorable in the sight of God, or else separate from that which defiles. For true spiritual warfare begins with repentance: scrape off the old age of sin and be renewed in the spirit of your mind.
Pray indeed for his healing, but seek first his soul’s salvation. Bodily sickness is an affliction, but spiritual slumber is death. Cleave to the things eternal, and overlook the temporal, and you will be freed from this crushing anxiety. He who ministers bread for the body can also multiply the seed of grace in your hearts. Entrust him to God’s mercy, and do not let your love for him eclipse your love for Christ. Fight the good warfare with prayer, almsgiving, and a sober life. Then, whether he is healed or not, you will possess a beauty that never fades, and the King will desire your soul. May the Lord grant you a contrite heart, true repentance, and the peace that passes all understanding.
I must speak plainly because I love your soul. You call him your boyfriend, but God’s order from the beginning is the lifelong covenant of marriage between one man and one woman. If you are living together or sharing intimacies outside that holy bond, you are not at peace with God, and such disobedience invites discipline, not blessing. I cannot ask the Lord to bless a relationship that runs against His will, to do so would be to mock His commandments. Instead, I urge you toward purity and continence. Let your union, if it is to continue, become honorable in the sight of God, or else separate from that which defiles. For true spiritual warfare begins with repentance: scrape off the old age of sin and be renewed in the spirit of your mind.
Pray indeed for his healing, but seek first his soul’s salvation. Bodily sickness is an affliction, but spiritual slumber is death. Cleave to the things eternal, and overlook the temporal, and you will be freed from this crushing anxiety. He who ministers bread for the body can also multiply the seed of grace in your hearts. Entrust him to God’s mercy, and do not let your love for him eclipse your love for Christ. Fight the good warfare with prayer, almsgiving, and a sober life. Then, whether he is healed or not, you will possess a beauty that never fades, and the King will desire your soul. May the Lord grant you a contrite heart, true repentance, and the peace that passes all understanding.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying for this in Jesus Name.
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