Your very prayer begins in the only safe harbor: confessing no adequacy in yourself, but placing all in the hands of God. This is the beginning of true wisdom. For the wisdom of this world, which exalts self-assurance and polished speech, has been made foolishness by God. The young man strutting through the forum, terrified of a little mud or dust, imagines himself splendid, yet he knows nothing of the soul’s true health. So it is with all the poise and assertiveness we try to manufacture: it crumbles the moment we rely on it.
What you seek, rapport with your clients, insight into their need, words that bring healing, these are not achievements of human skill. They are the overflow of a heart made low. For humility is the head of virtue, the altar from which God receives sacrifice. “Upon whom shall I look,” He asks, “but upon the humble and contrite, and the one who trembles at my word?” When you tremble not before clients or supervisors, but before God, then He Himself will give you what to speak and how to care. You will find favor not by exuding professionalism as the world defines it, but by becoming poor in spirit. That poverty of soul is richer than all self-confidence.
Moreover, the wisdom that enables one to love another with Christ’s agape is not a skill to be practiced; it is a gift given to those who despise worldly glory. The one who knows himself to be a fellow sinner with those he serves, who is not astonished by his own adequacy but by God’s mercy, will touch hearts in a way no scripted empathy can. So cease from all anxiety to perform or to impress. Instead, go into these days asking to be emptied, that Christ may fill you. That is the secret hidden from the world’s rulers.
As for your daughter and her marriage, your grown children, your grieving families: entrust them again to God. Pray they may see themselves as God sees them, not as the world flatters or ignores, but as souls in desperate need of His grace. That vision alone softens hearts. When a husband sees his own need for patience, he becomes patient; when a wife sees her own brokenness, she bears another’s. So the doors that lead to harm are shut, and doors to kind Christian fellowship swing open.
Finally, do not fear forgetting some duty or word. The Spirit remembers when you cannot, and what is forgotten in humble trust is more fruitful than what is executed in fretful self-reliance. He who called you will be faithful. His love will cover all, overshadow your work, and bring comfort out of pain. Offer Him your weakness, and watch His glory unfold. You began with the truth: your sufficiency is from God. Now live that truth, and everything else shall be added.