Marriage

Sometimes we want to give our sex intimacy in marriage a boost, but we don’t quite know how to get things going. As women, we can have an even harder time initiating sex, because it feels so … awkward.

But there are so many ways to let your husband know you want to make love—tonight. And I’ve put together a list of 40!

Before I begin, I want to give a caveat to the higher...

 

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You’re always being cultivated by something. The algorithm. The news cycle. Your workplace. Your phone. So the real question isn’t whether you’re being shaped. It’s who’s holding the shovel.

We discussed this question with ###, ### of ### in ### and author of the new book Cultivate: How God Grows the Fruit of the Spirit Within Us. He and his wife ### joined me for a conversation on the podcast this week and we...

 

Dear Lord,

Please help us to remain unveiled before You, humble and transparent in the way we share our hearts with You. Thank You also for the way transparency in marriage can be a catalyst for incredible intimacy. Thank You for the courage to open up to one another, the courage to admit when we are struggling with self-doubt, or the boldness to say we feel weak in our faith. May we never hold back from sharing our hearts with one another.

In Jesus’ name, AMEN!

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Dear Lord,

Thank You for the way You gently, yet firmly lead us through Scripture to understand the truth about what love is. Thank You for the way Your Word defines love, making it clear exactly how we should love one another. We don’t always catch on right away or quickly implementing the truth in our lives—we are creatures of habit—but we are eager to grow, knowing it takes time and conditioning. Let Your truth captivate us and change us. Lord, will You chisel away our selfish ways and...

 

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We have been walking through Marriage After God together on the podcast — 29 weeks of it — and this episode focused on what it actually means to be unveiled. Not just forgiven. Unveiled. Known. No longer hiding.

Because here’s the truth — you can’t walk in victory if you’re still hiding. And a lot of us are. We carry shame, we manage what our spouse sees, we wait for a “better time” to say the hard thing out loud...

 

Dear Lord,

Shape our minds to dwell deeply on what we are grateful for about You and what we appreciate in our marriage. Lord, will You develop in us an insatiable desire to tell one another all that we are thankful for in our relationship? Our hearts benefit from hearing the reasons we appreciate marriage, and we know it will bring You glory!

In Jesus’ name, AMEN!

This prayer is adapted from The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers For My Marriage Devotional

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Dear Lord,

We desire to trust You more each day. No matter what circumstances we face or what happens next in this world, help us to hold fast to the Bible. May our faith be unshakable. May our joy be made strong. May our patience be immovable. May our hope be indestructible. Heavenly Father, will You defend us and deflect the temptation to fear? Please suit us up in Your armor-with the helmet of salvation to guard our minds.

In Jesus’ name, AMEN!

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Dear Lord,

May the possessions we keep around bring us joy, as well as some sort of benefit. We invite You to help us evaluate whether any of our possessions have become idols. Make us a couple who not only takes good care of our things but also holds them loosely, willing to give them away if the need arises. We desire to be generous, using our resources to bless others and giving without expecting anything in return. May we be faithful stewards of what we own.

In Jesus’ name, AMEN...

 

Dear Lord,

May we never overlook the opportunities we have to preach Your gospel to each other. We need to remind each other of the truth daily! May we know the power of regularly sharing Your testimony with each other. Holy Spirit, bring to mind what we know in Your Word so we can encourage one another with Your wisdom.

In Jesus’ name, AMEN!

This prayer is adapted from The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers For My Marriage Devotional

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Dear Lord,

We don’t want to be idle in our marriage, relying on the other person to always initiate or do things we don’t feel like doing. We want to be a couple who respects each other and acknowledges the demanding work that has to be done to maintain our relationship and our home. We ask You to instill in both of us a desire and resilience to be diligent servants in our marriage, in our jobs, and in our home.

In Jesus’ name, AMEN!

This prayer is adapted from The Marriage Gift...