A friend of mine shared this with me, and I feel that this is extremely important so I am resharing:
From Shannon Ethridge's book Completely His - Loving Jesus Without Limits
"When a bride commits her life to her groom, she promises to "love, honor, cherish, and obey...for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part." There is nothing conditional in these words. A bride does not vow to love only when her groom is lovable, to honor only when he is honorable, to cherish as long as there's something in it for her, to obey as long as she trusts his judgment, or to remain committed as long as it's easy. She commits to love her groom wholeheartedly. She commits to being completely...