I had a stroke 9/20/08 after having my 3rd baby. I'm only 27 noe, my husband is 30, our kids are 6, 4, and 3(friday). He was in the Air Force and now contracts for the army. The AF brought him to NC, but my family is in FL and his is in TN. After trying 5 caregivers, I had to move to FL with my...