We hear your sincere questions about western Christian monks, vows of chastity and sobriety, and whether monastic ascetics living in monasteries and temples represent true Christianity and the example we should follow.
We want to share what Scripture teaches together. The Bible does not teach that God calls some believers to a higher spiritual class through monasticism or ascetic vows. While there are sincere believers who have lived in monasteries and truly trusted in Christ for salvation, the system itself is not the pattern God gives for the church. We are saved not by vows, works, or withdrawal from the world, but by grace through faith in Jesus Christ alone.
Scripture warns us about teachings that forbid marriage or command abstaining from things God created to be received with thanksgiving. As it is written, But the Spirit says expressly that in later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to seducing spirits and doctrines of demons, through the hypocrisy of men who speak lies, branded in their own conscience as with a hot iron, forbidding marriage and commanding to abstain from foods which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth 1 Timothy 4:1-3. Vows of chastity that treat celibacy as more holy than marriage go beyond what God commands. Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4, and it is God's normal and good design for most.
At the same time, Scripture does teach that celibacy is a gift and a calling for some, not for all, for the sake of undistracted devotion to the Lord. Jesus said, Not all men can receive this saying, but those to whom it is given Matthew 19:11, and Paul said, I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind 1 Corinthians 7:7. He explains, He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord 1 Corinthians 7:32. So to remain unmarried for the Lord's sake can be good, but it is a personal gift and calling, not a vow required to be more spiritual, and it is to be lived out in the midst of the body of Christ, not in isolation behind walls.
Concerning sobriety, God does call every believer to sobriety, not just monks. Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8, and Do not be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit Ephesians 5:18. We do not need a monastic vow to live soberly, we need the Holy Spirit and obedience in our daily lives, in our families, workplaces, and churches.
Scripture also warns against ascetic regulations that have an appearance of wisdom but do not make us more holy. If you died with Christ from the elements of the world, why, as though living in the world, do you subject yourselves to ordinances, Don't handle, nor taste, nor touch which all perish with use according to the precepts and doctrines of men These things indeed have an appearance of wisdom in self-imposed worship, and humility, and severity to the body, but are not of any value against the indulgence of the flesh Colossians 2:20-23. Withdrawing to a monastery or temple does not in itself produce holiness. True holiness comes from presenting our bodies as a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God Romans 12:1 and walking by the Spirit in everyday life.
We also notice you mention temples. The New Testament does not call believers to live in temples or monasteries. Under the new covenant, we ourselves are the temple of the Holy Spirit, and God calls us to gather together as the church, not to isolate ourselves. Not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another Hebrews 10:25. The early believers continued steadfastly day by day in the temple and breaking bread at home Acts 2:46, but they lived and witnessed in the world, not apart from it.
So are monastic ascetics really Christians. Some may be, if they have repented and put their faith wholly in Jesus Christ and His finished work on the cross, for there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. But if anyone trusts in his vows, his poverty, his celibacy, or his separation to earn favor with God, he has not understood the gospel. We noticed your request speaks of God and Christian faith but does not mention Jesus Christ by name, and we must lovingly say that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6, and if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9. Our hope is not in a monastic life, but in Christ alone.
Should we aim to be like monks. Our aim should be to be like Christ, to love His Word, to love His church, to live pure, sober, faithful lives whether married or single, and to serve Him where He has placed us. For most, that will mean pursuing marriage with another believing spouse for a lifetime, raising families, working honestly, and being light and salt in the world, not withdrawing from it.
We pray together for you.
Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You together and thank You for the one who asked these questions and seeks Your truth. We ask You to give clarity and discernment through Your Word, to draw this heart closer to Jesus and to show that true devotion is not found in man made vows or isolation, but in a living relationship with Christ and obedience by the power of Your Holy Spirit. Help us all to live soberly, purely, and faithfully, whether You give the gift of marriage or the gift of singleness, and to find our identity not in ascetic works but in Christ alone. Lead us away from any teaching that forbids what You have called good, and lead us into the fullness of Your grace and truth. If there is any trust in works or religious system, we pray for repentance and simple faith in Jesus as Lord and Savior. Fill us with Your Spirit, keep us in fellowship with Your people, and make us examples of love, holiness, and service in the world for Your glory. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and mediator, amen.