🙏 What to Say AND How to Say It, Jn 12:49; Grace to Fast, Isa 58:6-14; Gracious Words, Zech 1:13, Comfort, Isa 40:1-2, Peace, 1 Cor 7:15

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What to Say and How to Say It, Jn 12:49; Grace to Fast, Isa 58:6-14; Gracious Words, Comforting Words, Zech 1:13, Comfort My People, Speak tenderly to Jerusalem, Isa 40:1-2; Speak to Her Heart in The Wilderness, Hosea 2:14...

Father, thank You for forgiving me mercy in times I have needed it, I confess and agree with Your admonition to "Take with you words, and turn to the LORD: say unto him, Take away all iniquity, and receive us graciously: so will we render the calves of our lips," Hos 14:2, "For I am a man of unclean lips, Isa 6:5, for our transgressions are multiplied before you, and our sins testify against us; for our transgressions are with us, and as for our iniquities, we know them, transgressing and denying Yahweh, and turning away from following our God, speaking oppression and revolt, conceiving and uttering from the heart words of falsehood, Isa 59:12-13, I have "Surely I spoke of things I did not understand, things too wonderful for me to know, therefore I despise my sins, and I repent from them in dust and ashes," Job 42:3, Job 42:6, And though You've disciplined me severely, You haven't given me over to death, Ps 118:18. I can say with the Psalmist, "It was good for me to be afflicted that I might learn the way of Your Commands, Ps 119:71. Let me make the most of Your discipline, knowing it's end result has many ends in mind (Jesus being the ἀρχηγὸν [ultimate author, architect and engineer of our salvation [the originator ἀρχὴ of The New Creation, Rev 3:14] perfected through suffering, Heb 2:10).

Though beyond human capacity to bear at present transfers all hope to You alone, 2 Cor 1:8-9, produces patience leading to patience that we may also be complete, James 1:2-3, and though not pleasant at present, afterward yields not only perseverance, proven character and an abiding hope that does not disappoint, even granting assurance through The Holy Spirit of Adoption, Rom 5:3-5, but also a HARVEST of peaceful fruit and righteousness, Heb 12:11, even an everlasting quietness and confidence, Isa 32:17, an everlasting crown of life, James 1:12, and ability to reign with You, as You overcame and reign in truth, humility and justice, Ps 45:4, Rev 3:19-21. We ask for grace to renew our minds, Rom 12:2, to rejoice in all these things knowing we are presently blessed and understanding their end is eternal reward, Matt 5:10-12, and that Your Intention is to work it all together for good, Rom 8:28, because You are indeed Gracious and Compassionate, Ex 34:4-5, as we see You were with Job, James 1:12. Let us pray for others and others pray for us knowing You have brought us through trials before, You will do so again, and that prayers are powerful and effective, 2 Cor 1:10-11, especially when we confess our struggles and sins, James 5:15-16.

Knowing the kindness and severity of the Lord, I'd like to remain in Your kindness, Rom 11:22. Requesting what Jesus said to be my prayer, "I don’t speak on My own authority. The Father who sent Me commands me what to say and how to say it," John 12:49. May I speak truth the right way (in love, humility and kindness) at the right time (when one isn't tired and in the right place to receive it), Prov 25:11. Like apples of gold in settings of silver, so is the right word at the right time, Prov 25:11

It was while they were ministering to the Lord and fasting -- please help me hunger and thirst for righteousness in these situation, and help others share this burden with me for her, me, our child, the entire situation and all that’s transpired, good, bad and ugly, to be turned for glory, praise and honor, Isa 58:6-14. Let us plead the cause of the widower, and defend the cause that by her foolish abandonment was made to be partially orphaned, Jer 5:28, which if we can't visit the widower or orphan, James 1:27, we can at least pray for them.

Grant powerful grace and strength within me, grant grace to humble my soul with fasting, to CONTROL THE TONGUE with SAYING TRUTH, in LOVE, sanctifying residual pockets of darkness with light, helping the word become flesh, as John says, John 1:14, to love You AND my NEIGHBOR (how much more my wife and children) with ALL my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, physical strength and finances -- my thoughts, words, deeds, actions and especially my reactions -- let the word be engrafted as explained by James 1:22-23.

I've been sinned against by her and her family -- I believe the remedy of being sinned against is praying for their salvation -- again nothing's been confessed and repented of... I plainly state for the record "I forgive everyone everything," and done as much as I can to be at peace with everyone, Rom 12:18. Salvation is still needed, 2 Tim 2:3-4, repentance isn't optional, but having overlooked times of ignorance You are now commanding everyone everywhere to repent, having fixed a day of certain judgment with justice by The Man appointed, and furnished proof to everyone by raising Him from the dead, Acts 17:31-32, 2 Pet 3:9 -- but please help me say TRUTH in LOVE, Eph 4:15, "filled with GRACE and truth," John 1:14.

Place and use the love of Jesus in me to publicly and privately demonstrate true love of the gospel, Gal 3:1. Let me model it and teach it to myself, her, every family member, those near and dear and those far off and beyond to extended family, friends especially any who might consider me an enemy -- let me be a living ambassador Your love to be known and read by all people groups, everywhere, 2 Cor 3:2, “What to say and how to say it,” John 12:49.

Do not take us out of the world, but keep us from the evil one, John 17:15. Sanctify us by the truth; Your Word is truth, John 17:17. Because I LOVE her, let me wash her with the water of the word to be a bride ready for her husband, Eph 5:25-26, 27 -- and if she could help out by reading the word and preparing herself also, Rev 19:7-8, it would be both helpful and fitting (wholly within bounds of Scripture). I'd also like to have a little respect since it's a picture of Christ and the Church Eph 5:32:33, but either way keep her, them and us from evil people, 2 Thes 3:2, temptation, Matt 6:13, sin Zeph 3:13 and the evil one, Matt 6:13. Thank you for the angels in advance -- they're real and really do get sent ahead, Heb 13:2, and thank You in advance for the fact "You like to make their faces change," Ps 34:5, May Yahweh bless me, and keep me. make His face to shine on me, and be gracious to me, lift up His face toward me, and give me peace, in Jesus' Name, Phil 4:6-7.

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry, dear brother, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting up every word of your heart before the throne of grace. Your request is heavy with the weight of betrayal, abandonment, and the deep longing for restoration, not just of your marriage, but of hearts surrendered to God’s will. You have walked through fire, yet you cling to Scripture, to repentance, and to the hope of redemption. For this, we praise God, for He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).

First, we must address the foundation of all things: salvation in Christ alone. You have rightly confessed your sins and sought the Lord’s mercy, but we must emphasize that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If those who have sinned against you, your wife, her family, have not surrendered their lives to Christ, their repentance will be incomplete, for true repentance is a gift of God (2 Timothy 2:25). We pray fervently for their salvation, that their eyes would be opened to the truth of the gospel, for the kindness of God leads to repentance (Romans 2:4).

Your marriage is a sacred covenant, a reflection of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). The abandonment you have endured is a grievous violation of that covenant, and we rebuke the spirit of divorce that seeks to sever what God has joined together (Matthew 19:6). Yet we also recognize the pain and injustice you have suffered. You have sought peace, you have extended forgiveness, and you have stood firm in truth, this is the posture of a godly man. But we must also address the reality of sin: if your wife has hardened her heart and persists in unrepentance, Scripture is clear that you are not bound in such circumstances (1 Corinthians 7:15). This does not mean you cease to love her or pray for her, but it does mean you are not obligated to remain in a union where the other party has willfully broken the covenant.

We pray for your tongue, that it would be tamed by the Holy Spirit (James 3:8), for the words you speak carry the power of life and death (Proverbs 18:21). May your speech be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6), full of truth spoken in love (Ephesians 4:15), and may the Lord give you wisdom in when and how to speak (Proverbs 25:11). Fasting is a powerful weapon, and we join you in seeking God’s face through it, that He would break every chain and turn even the darkest moments for His glory (Isaiah 58:6-14). Let your fasting be unto the Lord, not for show, but for the humbling of your soul and the advancement of His kingdom.

For your child, we pray protection, provision, and a heart that seeks after God. The enemy would love to use this brokenness to wound them, but we declare that God is their Father, their Defender, and their Peace (Psalm 68:5). May they see Christ in you, even in the midst of this storm, and may they grow in wisdom and stature, in favor with God and man (Luke 2:52).

We rebuke the spirit of bitterness that seeks to take root in your heart. Forgiveness does not mean what was done was right; it means you release the debt to God, who judges justly (1 Peter 2:23). You have done well to forgive, but we pray that the Lord would heal the wounds in your soul, that you would not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). The enemy would love to isolate you, but you are not alone. We stand with you, and more importantly, the Lord stands with you.

We pray for your wife, that if there is any hope of reconciliation, it would be on God’s terms: repentance, restoration, and a marriage that honors Him. If she will not return, we pray that the Lord would give you the strength to walk in purity, to guard your heart, and to trust Him with your future. Whether married or single, your identity is in Christ, and your calling is to live a life worthy of the gospel (Philippians 1:27).

Lord, we come before You with this heavy burden. We ask for Your grace to sustain this brother, for Your wisdom to guide him, and for Your justice to prevail. Break the chains of sin in this family, Lord. Soften hardened hearts. Restore what has been broken. And if restoration is not Your will, give him the strength to walk in holiness and the peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We pray for salvation for his wife and her family, that they would come to know You as Savior and Lord. We pray for their child, that they would be shielded from the effects of this brokenness and grow to love You with all their heart.

Father, we ask that You would fill this brother with Your Holy Spirit, that he would speak truth in love, fast in humility, and walk in obedience. May his life be a testimony to Your grace, and may his words bring life and healing. We pray for angels to encamp around him and his child, for protection from the evil one, and for Your peace to guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

We declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You will turn this situation for good, for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Strengthen him, Lord. Uphold him. And let Your glory be revealed in every detail of this trial. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

It's so hard to watch someone we love go through such deep pain, especially when it involves family and betrayal. We want to remind you that healing is a process, and it’s okay to grieve while also holding onto hope. Scripture tells us that God collects our tears in His bottle (Psalm 56:8), so you’re not carrying this alone.

We’ve been praying for wisdom as you navigate your words and actions in this season. It’s a beautiful thing that you’ve chosen to respond with love, even when it’s so difficult. Remember, the Lord isn’t asking you to fix everything, just to trust Him with your heart and your future.

The enemy would love to twist this pain into bitterness or isolation, but let’s fight that together by clinging to Christ. His grace is enough to sustain you, and His peace surpasses all understanding. We’re lifting up your child, too, that they’d feel God’s love surrounding them even when life feels unstable.

Lord, wrap this family in Your arms right now. Bring comfort where there’s hurt, hope where there’s despair, and healing where brokenness lingers. Restore what was lost, and if reconciliation isn’t Your will, give this brother the strength to walk in faith. Renew his mind and guard his heart, and let every word he speaks be seasoned with grace. In Jesus’ name we pray.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.