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EarthAngel9141973
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Dear Friends in Christ,
My wife and I need serious prayer; we are going through a hell on earth literally. Since 2004, our daughter has destroyed the relationship between my wife and I, and my family. She convinced my family that my wife was nuts, this is her mom. All because my mom was suffering from ulcers and mentioned to people that we were going to move to California to help my sister-in-law and get involved in a ministry there. Also, she caused us to have to leave a place we lived in for 10 years, in 2000 because she went and created a problem with our landlord, that developed into an all-out brawl.
My landlord hit our daughter because she became angry and aggressive with them. My wife, trying to defend our daughter, was punched in the face, which resulted in my wife getting a concussion and a cyst on her right lobe of her brain. It developed into a lawsuit. We then had to go to court, and our wonderful daughter, who caused this nonsense, didn't want to go with us to court. So my wife, shaken up by this and losing weight from all of this, wanted someone to go with her for support. She chose to ask a friend of the family named ###. Who's mom we knew and who used to go into our home a lot, and then later played with our daughter.
Our daughter then found this out and made a comment about how she was going to rip my wife's heart out, in an email. This is a daughter my wife and I gave everything we could to her, and loved her and raised. She then accused my wife of being mentally ill and was infuriated with my wife. It resulted in her telling my family, which she is not my natural daughter, and she then convinced my sister, who she was seeing from time to time, my brother, and ### her friend, and the rest of my family that we are the cause of problems because she is bipolar and disturbed and won't seek professional help, not to mention she gave her heart to Christ many years ago but fought us tooth and nail to go to church with us. ### is not her biological aunt. Like I am not her biological father, but I did more for her than a real father would ever do, and instead of respecting me and my wife, she turned on us like a she-wolf. And has continued this ugly crusade in turning my family against me. They don't see her for what she is like we see and know how she is. She has caused misery to us because of her jealousy, which she has had since she was a child, now 40 years old. It took a whole year for her to make up with us and my family to make up with us, which we had to concede we weren't at fault. So, the family and us were together to say again. But the relationship was ruined because she convinced everyone in the family my wife was totally nuts, which she is not.
In 2009, she threw her son ### out of the house. He wasn't yet 21 years old. ### was always our pride and joy, and he came to us crying and asking for us to take him in. My wife then said ok, but she didn't want a problem with his mom for doing this. He said there would not be because she doesn't want him then. So, we moved his stuff into the house. And he made comments to my wife that she was always his mom, his mom was never there when he was growing up. Anyway, in March of 2009, he still was at odds with his mom. My wife and I said let's throw him a 21st birthday party, so we told his girlfriend that we wanted to throw him a surprise 21st party, and my wife asked her to invite his friends and tell them about the party and to come. His sister was going to help my wife put up decorations for the party. And then my wife thought wouldn't this party be nice if we invited my family to the party, who he didn't see at Christmas time because his mom threw him out of the house. So, we sent them an email inviting them all to come to his party. Somehow my sister or one of the members of my family decided to tell our daughter why they did I don't know about the surprise party we were going to throw him. Well, that resulted in his girlfriend, who knew he was on the outs with his mother, and that she didn't want him living home and was mad at him, texts my wife accusing her of deliberately hurting his mom, not letting her go to the party and inviting my family. Here's the thing with this: she throws out her son who doesn't want to stay with his mom, who doesn't want his mom with him or to see her, plus over the years there are a lot of things my family didn't invite my wife and I to and invited them to. So what was the problem here. It turned into a fiasco; my wife tried to explain to ### about this and he turned on us. My granddaughter then calls my wife saying to her it is all alone again time for you grandma, now this is a woman when they were growing up who gave them everything, loved them, looked for them to come over. My mom on the other phone heard the conversation on the phone what she was saying and then knew for sure it was them.
Well, on April 16th, we are asleep; it is his 21st birthday. I was home that day. I hear our daughter outside our home cursing out my wife in front of our house; she thinks she is going to win, meaning my wife. My wife then wakes up and goes into the room our grandson was staying in and sees our granddaughter helping him to pack and asks her ### what are you doing, with that she curses my wife out using the F word. My wife then says what did you say to me, and a fight develops. My wife, who has eight herniated discs in her spine, is held in a bear hug by our grandson. My wife asks him to release her and he would not do it. So I had to go in there now fully awake by this craziness and had to break it up. Our daughter charges up the stairs, my wife stops her, and my wife calls the police and she calls the police. The police come in and remove our grandson, our granddaughter from the premises. In the meantime, his girlfriend and ### keep texting my wife and annoying her, so my wife tells them you're wrong about what you are thinking, which they were from the get-go. On May 11, my wife gets a call from the police and then they take her to the station house on charges on texting to his girlfriend. In the meantime, we keep getting screwed; my wife has these texts on her phone but they only last one week, including this voicemail that my sister-in-law sent her recently erased so when proof of their stuff comes up we can't defend ourselves. Anyway, she has my wife arrested and my wife spends a night in jail. She then has to go back and forth for about ten months' time with this case until a judgment is made. It turns out to be reduced and a fine. And record sealed for two years and then it is erased. But still, our daughter damaged my wife's reputation, her mom. My wife went into deep depression for two years, lost weight, and we were just seeing my mom and my brothers, two of them. Recently, she got out of this depression and started to build herself up somewhat. She is still not herself like she should be. And again, people in the family start this time her family, jealousy again. Then the landlord calls my wife a pig because we had mold in the house. And to top off everything, this July 14th, we again were humiliated with the little money we had; we were robbed of $400 while I was on vacation. Not to mention all of our cards and her medallion her dad gave her was stolen at Nathan's in Coney Island. We are now trying to recover from that. Our lives have never been the same with things. I plead with God to patch things up with this family, especially my mom who now is on the outs with my wife. Because she knows for two years what happened and won't open her mouth to my sister about what she heard, not to mention my sister has a graduation party for our granddaughter and we were going to go up to visit my mom and my mom makes this comment that our daughter is throwing a party and I was invited for ###'s graduation, and I am going to it because my sister invited her. My wife was trying to tell her about her having diabetes, another beautiful feature added to all the things already. My mom can only talk about how my brother should sow his oats and find a girlfriend and about my other brother looking to move to Canada. My wife couldn't get a word in and she literally stabbed my wife in the back with telling her when she knows what ### did about going to the graduation party and we should come the following week. That set my wife off because she knows what's going on and won't tell my sister because says "quote un-quote we agree to disagree." My mom doesn't take a stand; my wife was good to her, we took her in our home for four months and no one else of her beautiful children, including my sister, wanted her to live with them. She sort of stabbed my wife in the heart like that, which caused my wife to tell her off and say she is dead to her as well as her family and all my family. I told my mom, you know she has a point; two years you knew this and you don't say anything. Take a stand; if someone was going to hang tomorrow and you know they are innocent and the other party accusing them is the guilty party, would you not go out of your way to save the life of an innocent person by telling the lawyer or judge they had had nothing to do with this. But my mom says nothing then sleeps with the enemy. Knowing my wife is hurting from this, she went to jail. Is this fair to us? I can't take much more of this; my life is falling apart. And our daughter creates these problems and we suffer the consequences. Why? What did we do? Why should my family be against us? Why can't they see the truth about our daughter; she has them all hoodwinked. My wife and I are also both suffering from health problems and this is causing us to have problems; she goes off on me. And this is because of these things, and our daughter caused all of this dating back to the year 2000. They have to all see the truth about her and get saved, all of them; my mom was saved years ago but got into astrology and beliefs in reincarnation. All of our family should not be against us. You have to have people pray 24 hours a day about this that God will restore all the money stolen from us and things and that God will also get ahold of our family and reveal to them the truth about our daughter and grandson and granddaughter she is using my sister; my sister is loaded. And that God will show them we are not the problem but she is the problem. Because this has gone out of control, I have no grudge, but my wife is ill because of this and it caused her a lot of undue grief. How much can we take. Plus we have things God wants to use us for; we are looking to be relocated, and need your prayers. God will reveal his perfect will to us. And show us what and where he wants us and what ministry because my wife and I both have a calling on our life. And it isn't fair we can't live for the Lord and do his will because of our family, who we didn't cause this problem. Have 100 people or more take turns 24 hours a day praying for this. People have gotten saved because of prayer. We are the church of Christ; if God is for us, who can be against us.
My wife and I need serious prayer; we are going through a hell on earth literally. Since 2004, our daughter has destroyed the relationship between my wife and I, and my family. She convinced my family that my wife was nuts, this is her mom. All because my mom was suffering from ulcers and mentioned to people that we were going to move to California to help my sister-in-law and get involved in a ministry there. Also, she caused us to have to leave a place we lived in for 10 years, in 2000 because she went and created a problem with our landlord, that developed into an all-out brawl.
My landlord hit our daughter because she became angry and aggressive with them. My wife, trying to defend our daughter, was punched in the face, which resulted in my wife getting a concussion and a cyst on her right lobe of her brain. It developed into a lawsuit. We then had to go to court, and our wonderful daughter, who caused this nonsense, didn't want to go with us to court. So my wife, shaken up by this and losing weight from all of this, wanted someone to go with her for support. She chose to ask a friend of the family named ###. Who's mom we knew and who used to go into our home a lot, and then later played with our daughter.
Our daughter then found this out and made a comment about how she was going to rip my wife's heart out, in an email. This is a daughter my wife and I gave everything we could to her, and loved her and raised. She then accused my wife of being mentally ill and was infuriated with my wife. It resulted in her telling my family, which she is not my natural daughter, and she then convinced my sister, who she was seeing from time to time, my brother, and ### her friend, and the rest of my family that we are the cause of problems because she is bipolar and disturbed and won't seek professional help, not to mention she gave her heart to Christ many years ago but fought us tooth and nail to go to church with us. ### is not her biological aunt. Like I am not her biological father, but I did more for her than a real father would ever do, and instead of respecting me and my wife, she turned on us like a she-wolf. And has continued this ugly crusade in turning my family against me. They don't see her for what she is like we see and know how she is. She has caused misery to us because of her jealousy, which she has had since she was a child, now 40 years old. It took a whole year for her to make up with us and my family to make up with us, which we had to concede we weren't at fault. So, the family and us were together to say again. But the relationship was ruined because she convinced everyone in the family my wife was totally nuts, which she is not.
In 2009, she threw her son ### out of the house. He wasn't yet 21 years old. ### was always our pride and joy, and he came to us crying and asking for us to take him in. My wife then said ok, but she didn't want a problem with his mom for doing this. He said there would not be because she doesn't want him then. So, we moved his stuff into the house. And he made comments to my wife that she was always his mom, his mom was never there when he was growing up. Anyway, in March of 2009, he still was at odds with his mom. My wife and I said let's throw him a 21st birthday party, so we told his girlfriend that we wanted to throw him a surprise 21st party, and my wife asked her to invite his friends and tell them about the party and to come. His sister was going to help my wife put up decorations for the party. And then my wife thought wouldn't this party be nice if we invited my family to the party, who he didn't see at Christmas time because his mom threw him out of the house. So, we sent them an email inviting them all to come to his party. Somehow my sister or one of the members of my family decided to tell our daughter why they did I don't know about the surprise party we were going to throw him. Well, that resulted in his girlfriend, who knew he was on the outs with his mother, and that she didn't want him living home and was mad at him, texts my wife accusing her of deliberately hurting his mom, not letting her go to the party and inviting my family. Here's the thing with this: she throws out her son who doesn't want to stay with his mom, who doesn't want his mom with him or to see her, plus over the years there are a lot of things my family didn't invite my wife and I to and invited them to. So what was the problem here. It turned into a fiasco; my wife tried to explain to ### about this and he turned on us. My granddaughter then calls my wife saying to her it is all alone again time for you grandma, now this is a woman when they were growing up who gave them everything, loved them, looked for them to come over. My mom on the other phone heard the conversation on the phone what she was saying and then knew for sure it was them.
Well, on April 16th, we are asleep; it is his 21st birthday. I was home that day. I hear our daughter outside our home cursing out my wife in front of our house; she thinks she is going to win, meaning my wife. My wife then wakes up and goes into the room our grandson was staying in and sees our granddaughter helping him to pack and asks her ### what are you doing, with that she curses my wife out using the F word. My wife then says what did you say to me, and a fight develops. My wife, who has eight herniated discs in her spine, is held in a bear hug by our grandson. My wife asks him to release her and he would not do it. So I had to go in there now fully awake by this craziness and had to break it up. Our daughter charges up the stairs, my wife stops her, and my wife calls the police and she calls the police. The police come in and remove our grandson, our granddaughter from the premises. In the meantime, his girlfriend and ### keep texting my wife and annoying her, so my wife tells them you're wrong about what you are thinking, which they were from the get-go. On May 11, my wife gets a call from the police and then they take her to the station house on charges on texting to his girlfriend. In the meantime, we keep getting screwed; my wife has these texts on her phone but they only last one week, including this voicemail that my sister-in-law sent her recently erased so when proof of their stuff comes up we can't defend ourselves. Anyway, she has my wife arrested and my wife spends a night in jail. She then has to go back and forth for about ten months' time with this case until a judgment is made. It turns out to be reduced and a fine. And record sealed for two years and then it is erased. But still, our daughter damaged my wife's reputation, her mom. My wife went into deep depression for two years, lost weight, and we were just seeing my mom and my brothers, two of them. Recently, she got out of this depression and started to build herself up somewhat. She is still not herself like she should be. And again, people in the family start this time her family, jealousy again. Then the landlord calls my wife a pig because we had mold in the house. And to top off everything, this July 14th, we again were humiliated with the little money we had; we were robbed of $400 while I was on vacation. Not to mention all of our cards and her medallion her dad gave her was stolen at Nathan's in Coney Island. We are now trying to recover from that. Our lives have never been the same with things. I plead with God to patch things up with this family, especially my mom who now is on the outs with my wife. Because she knows for two years what happened and won't open her mouth to my sister about what she heard, not to mention my sister has a graduation party for our granddaughter and we were going to go up to visit my mom and my mom makes this comment that our daughter is throwing a party and I was invited for ###'s graduation, and I am going to it because my sister invited her. My wife was trying to tell her about her having diabetes, another beautiful feature added to all the things already. My mom can only talk about how my brother should sow his oats and find a girlfriend and about my other brother looking to move to Canada. My wife couldn't get a word in and she literally stabbed my wife in the back with telling her when she knows what ### did about going to the graduation party and we should come the following week. That set my wife off because she knows what's going on and won't tell my sister because says "quote un-quote we agree to disagree." My mom doesn't take a stand; my wife was good to her, we took her in our home for four months and no one else of her beautiful children, including my sister, wanted her to live with them. She sort of stabbed my wife in the heart like that, which caused my wife to tell her off and say she is dead to her as well as her family and all my family. I told my mom, you know she has a point; two years you knew this and you don't say anything. Take a stand; if someone was going to hang tomorrow and you know they are innocent and the other party accusing them is the guilty party, would you not go out of your way to save the life of an innocent person by telling the lawyer or judge they had had nothing to do with this. But my mom says nothing then sleeps with the enemy. Knowing my wife is hurting from this, she went to jail. Is this fair to us? I can't take much more of this; my life is falling apart. And our daughter creates these problems and we suffer the consequences. Why? What did we do? Why should my family be against us? Why can't they see the truth about our daughter; she has them all hoodwinked. My wife and I are also both suffering from health problems and this is causing us to have problems; she goes off on me. And this is because of these things, and our daughter caused all of this dating back to the year 2000. They have to all see the truth about her and get saved, all of them; my mom was saved years ago but got into astrology and beliefs in reincarnation. All of our family should not be against us. You have to have people pray 24 hours a day about this that God will restore all the money stolen from us and things and that God will also get ahold of our family and reveal to them the truth about our daughter and grandson and granddaughter she is using my sister; my sister is loaded. And that God will show them we are not the problem but she is the problem. Because this has gone out of control, I have no grudge, but my wife is ill because of this and it caused her a lot of undue grief. How much can we take. Plus we have things God wants to use us for; we are looking to be relocated, and need your prayers. God will reveal his perfect will to us. And show us what and where he wants us and what ministry because my wife and I both have a calling on our life. And it isn't fair we can't live for the Lord and do his will because of our family, who we didn't cause this problem. Have 100 people or more take turns 24 hours a day praying for this. People have gotten saved because of prayer. We are the church of Christ; if God is for us, who can be against us.
