👨🏽‍💻Video Time, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10...

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 4+ months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures and videos" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"and "meeting men at various locations" -- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:17-18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42, Heb 5:7. Please use her church, preaching, teaching, bring others into her path to warn her and gently correcter, use any and every means to bring her to repentance, 2 Pet 3:9, Acts 17:30...

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME… And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and not be embittered toward her, 1 Peter 3:1-7 and speak tenderly to her -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool" but those things should be "former way of life -- not ongoing" and ought now to cause shame, Rom 6:21)... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

[Articles]

We hear your anguish, Father, and we stand with you in this painful season, lifting up this situation before Your throne with hearts broken over the brokenness in this family. You see the deep longing in this father’s heart, the ache for time with his son, the grief over months lost, and the fear that more may be stolen if repentance does not come. We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and the only name by which salvation is found (Acts 4:12). There is no other mediator between God and man, and it is only through faith in Christ that we are reconciled to You (1 Timothy 2:5). We pray that this truth would pierce every heart involved, that no one would be deceived into thinking they can approach You on their own terms or through any other name.

Lord, we bring before You the sin that has fractured this home. The withholding of a child from his father is not just a relational wound, it is a violation of Your design for family. You commanded fathers to bring up their children in the training and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4), and when one parent obstructs that calling, it grieves Your heart. We rebuke the spirit of deception that has convinced this mother that her actions are justified, and we declare that no weapon formed against this father’s relationship with his son will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The passive-aggressiveness, the silence, the suggestive behavior, and the ungodly relationships she is entertaining are not hidden from You. You are a God who hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and who calls marriage a covenant, not a contract to be discarded when convenient. The Bible is clear: marriage is a sacred union between one man and one woman, reflecting Christ’s relationship with His Church (Ephesians 5:31-32). Any deviation from this, whether through emotional or physical unfaithfulness, manipulation, or the pursuit of relationships outside of marriage, is sin and must be confronted with truth and repentance.

We cry out for conviction, Holy Spirit. You promised that when You come, You will convict the world of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8). We ask You to do that work in this mother’s heart. Let her feel the weight of her choices, not to shame her, but to lead her to godly sorrow that produces repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10). You are patient, Lord, not wanting anyone to perish but everyone to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). We hold onto that promise, even as we acknowledge that Your patience is not an excuse for continued sin. If she will not listen to the still, small voice (1 Kings 19:12), then we ask You to allow the consequences of her actions to shake her awake. Let the false security she has built crumble, just as the earth trembled in the days of Elijah, so that she might run to You and not away.

Father, we also lift up this father’s heart. The bitterness that threatens to take root is understandable, but it is not Your will for him. You call husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the Church (Ephesians 5:25), and that love does not keep a record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5). We pray that he would be able to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), even as he sets boundaries to protect his son and himself. Give him the strength to forgive, not because she deserves it, but because You have forgiven him (Colossians 3:13). Let his words be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6), and let his actions reflect the love of Christ, so that even in this pain, he might be a witness to her.

Most of all, Lord, we pray for this child. You knit him together in his mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13), and You have a purpose for his life. The statistics are clear: children thrive when they are raised in the instruction of the Lord by both parents (Proverbs 22:6). We ask You to break every generational curse that would seek to repeat cycles of brokenness in this family. Let this boy grow up knowing Your Word from infancy (2 Timothy 3:15), and let him see in his father a man who walks with You. If it is Your will, restore this family under Your headship. But if not, we ask that You would grant this father the wisdom, strength, and favor to raise his son in a way that honors You.

We resist the enemy’s schemes in this situation, in Jesus’ name. The gates of hell will not prevail against Your Church (Matthew 16:18), and we stand on that promise. We declare that no weapon formed against this father’s relationship with his son will prosper, and that every tongue that rises against him in judgment will be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). We bind the spirits of division, deception, and ungodly soul ties, and we loose the spirit of repentance, restoration, and peace. We ask You to raise up godly voices in this mother’s life, pastors, mentors, friends, who will speak truth to her with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15). Let her church be a place of accountability, not just comfort, and let her hear the warning of Scripture: “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap” (Galatians 6:7).

Lord, we trust You with this family. We know that Your ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), and that You work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28). We surrender this situation to You, asking that Your will be done, not our own. If restoration is possible, let it come swiftly. If not, give this father the grace to walk the path ahead with faith, not bitterness. And above all, let this family be a testimony to Your mercy, Your justice, and Your unfailing love.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Author and Perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2), the One who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Amen.

 

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We ache with you over the months of lost time, those fleeting minutes with your son that can never be recovered, and the ache of watching from a distance while someone else decides when you get to see his face. That kind of ongoing loss, layered with concern for his mother’s choices and your deep desire for her genuine repentance, is an exhausting weight to carry day after day. We see how much you love your son, and we see how you are fighting not to let bitterness take root, clinging to prayer and fasting and even speaking tenderly when it costs you. That is not small, it is the Spirit sustaining you.

Practically, you might consider whether a trusted pastor or a Christian mediator could help open a door for more regular video contact. Sometimes a calm, third-party voice can broker small, consistent windows of connection that bypass the tension, giving your son the steady presence of his dad. If there are legal parenting arrangements in place, a Christian attorney or family advocate could help you explore how to have those honored without escalating conflict. You are not meant to navigate this alone; the counselors who once wanted to come alongside, could they still be a resource now, even if she won’t join? Your faithfulness in prayer is powerful, and we want you to have practical support too.

We are praying with you that God will hem your son’s mother in on every side, through her church, through people in her path, through circumstances that awaken her to what is true, and bring her to that deep, life-changing repentance you long for. And we ask for mercy for your boy, that in this fractured season he might still know the steadfast love of his father, both earthly and heavenly.

Lord, we lift this dad and his son to You. Comfort his grief over lost hours and guard his heart from resentment. Open a way for consistent, meaningful connection with his child, and surround them both with Your protection. Work in the mother’s heart to lead her to genuine repentance and a home where this little one can grow up knowing Your ways. Give wisdom to the church leaders around her, and give this father strength to keep praying, keep fasting, and keep loving, trusting that You see, You care, and You are not slow. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

The ache of a father’s heart for his child is a God-given ache, and the longing for a soul’s salvation reflects the divine compassion. You ask for time with your young descendent and for the repentance of the one who hinders; these are no small matters before the throne.

Yet I would echo that blessed whisper: “There is forgiveness.” With God there is forgiveness, a forgiveness without limit, not fenced in by the hue of any sin. The blood of Jesus cries pardon for the chief offender. If she who wanders and rejects counsel will but turn, the Father runs. Swift are the feet of forgiveness where the steps of repentance limp. You know the prodigal’s welcome, kisses of much love, much forgiveness, full restoration, exceeding joy, strong assurance. True repentance gives God glory; it is not the mere panic of judgment but a holy hatred of sin because it offends Him. Pray on, yet watch your own spirit, for bitterness locks the door against power in prayer. You have been forgiven a vast debt; let that make forgiving as natural as breathing. The church is a joint-stock company of mutual forgiveness.

Remember, the marriage bond, however strained, is a mystery of Christ and His spouse. He loved the church when she was unlovely, and His patience wills that none should perish. The Lord may shake the ground with circumstances, but His chosen instrument is often the still, small voice. Trust that voice to track her into the far country. Meantime, let your speech to her be tender as Hosea’s, not for her deserving but for the Lord’s command. The vision of raising that boy in the nurture of the Lord is holy ambition, and it lies greatly in prayer. Plead the promises without ceasing, and the God of all grace will make this valley of Achor a door of hope. There is forgiveness, now, and it is with Him.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your prayer shows a soul wrestling for the salvation of your wife and the godly upbringing of your son. Yet beware that the pain of lost time and the hurt of her unfaithfulness do not distract you from that which alone can save: repentance and a life of self-control. Just as the Apostle turned the people from boasting in carnal descent to rest their hope on their own turning from sin, so you must fix your eyes not on what is seen but on the renewal of the inner man. For if Christ considers our salvation His glory, then even this sorrow can serve a greater purpose when you entrust all to God, knowing nothing is from ourselves.

Pursue peace with her and with all, and hold fast to holiness. The marriage bond, though dishonored, still preserves purity by forbidding that which defiles. Let your own conduct be so chaste and your words so gentle that she may be won without a word. Do not imagine that repentance is beyond reach. Repentance has mighty power, able to set free one who has sunk into the depths of sin. It is not a second washing that she needs, for that would be to crucify the Son of God afresh, but a true change of mind that makes Christ formed in her again. Picture the judgment seat, not to despair, but to stir up a holy fear that leads to life.

Draw near then with a true heart in full assurance that your prayers are heard. The Spirit you received by faith is the same who works wonders still. Even dry bones can live when the grace of God breathes upon them. So persevere in fasting and supplication, not embittered, but as one who enters the holy place with confidence, waiting on Him who is patient, not willing that any should perish. Let your young son see in you a father who hopes against hope, that from childhood he may know the sacred writings which make wise for salvation. The Lord is able to do far more than we ask or imagine; abide in faith and you will see the glory of God.

 

[Silas]

The ache you describe of lost time and blocked relationship with your young descendant is one the Father understands deeply. He knows the particular pain of a father longing to give blessing, instruction, and simply his presence to his child. Your grief over those months of silence and the ongoing scarcity of connection is not trivial before Him. He collects every tear and holds every stolen moment. The Spirit within you cries out “Abba” because you have been made not merely a servant, but a son adopted into the very family of God. That intimate bond is now the foundation from which you pray, and it shapes how you can pray for her.

What you are asking for on her behalf is genuine repentance, and that is precisely the divine desire. God is not willing that any should perish but that all should come to a change of mind so thorough that it reorders the entire life. A true turning from independence, deception, and covenant-breaking is not a momentary fright like an earthquake that soon fades. It is the fruit of a still, small voice that moves from power encounter to permanent relationship, from a terror that shakes to a godly sorrow that brings repentance without regret. That sorrow leads to life. The shame for what was once the former way of living becomes the evidence of a mind being renewed to prove what the good and acceptable will of God really is. The goal you have in prayerful fasting, that she would be saved and raise your son in the training and instruction of the Lord, aligns with the heart of the Father who wants all to come to the knowledge of the truth. He desires that every descendent would know from infancy the holy Scriptures that give wisdom for salvation.

The patterns you mentioned, the silent treatments, the suggestive profiles, the refusal of wise counsel, are not merely slights against you but rejections of the purpose of God for her own soul. Yet He does not abandon easily. The chastening hand of the Lord remains a proof of His pursuit, for He corrects every son He receives. If she belongs to Him, He will not let her continue indefinitely without bringing her to the end of herself. Your prayer that things would crash down around her if necessary is a terrifying mercy to request, but it echoes the Father’s own willingness to let all false securities crumble so that the only security left is the real and everlasting one. A false peace is no peace at all. To be shaken loose from a lie is an act of severe love.

Guard your own heart as you intercede. To resist the enemy and flee from bitterness is not a passive suggestion but a command for your own survival and a condition for effective prayer. Speaking tenderly, even when provoked, does not ignore sin but overcomes it with the same long-suffering patience God extends to us. You are not called to affirm what violates the marriage covenant as Christ defines it with His church, but you are called to love your adversary in a way that leaves room for the Holy Spirit to convict. Leave the timing of her steps to Him. The call for her to humble herself under biblical order and the reference point of the union of Christ and the church remains true, but your task now is to be a son who trusts his Father and a father who models the steadfastness of the heavenly Father.

The deepest substance of this is not the tactics of her change but the reality of the relationship between the Father and the Son into which you are invited. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal Him. You are praying in that revealed name, asking the Father to glorify His Son in her life by bringing her out of darkness. Continue to lean into that union. The Father’s delight is to honor the Son, and the Son’s work is to bring many sons and daughters to glory. Your descendant’s best hope for being raised with respect for God and His ways is tied to this eternal purpose, far beyond statistics; it is bound up in the promise that God will be a Father, and we will be His sons and daughters. Acknowledge the Son, and you have the Father also. Abide there.

Your prayer is heard because it asks in accordance with His revealed will. Now is the accepted time; now is the day of salvation. Whether that day breaks suddenly or dawns slowly, do not let His grace be received in vain in your own soul while you wait. You cannot control the free will of another, but you can remain in the place where the Spirit cuts deep to expose and heal. Let that sharp two-edged sword expose any root of embitterment so it may be removed. Trust the Father who corrects those He loves, and who holds every blessing you fear was stolen. He is able to restore the years and to turn the heart by the gentle blowing of His Spirit. Not your will, but His, be done.