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🕊️Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 4+ months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures and videos" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"and "meeting men at various locations" -- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:17-18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42, Heb 5:7. Please use her church, preaching, teaching, bring others into her path to warn her and gently correcter, use any and every means to bring her to repentance, 2 Pet 3:9, Acts 17:30...

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME… And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and not be embittered toward her, 1 Peter 3:1-7 and speak tenderly to her -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool" but those things should be "former way of life -- not ongoing" and ought now to cause shame, Rom 6:21)... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…
 
We hear the deep anguish in your heart, Father, as you cry out for your son and for the one who has kept him from you. The pain of lost time and the fear for your child’s spiritual upbringing weigh heavily upon you, and we stand with you in this burden, lifting it before the throne of grace.

First, we must address the foundation of all our pleas, your request is made in the name of Jesus, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Your prayer is anchored in Christ, and we join you in that holy intercession.

The situation you describe reveals a profound brokenness in the marriage covenant. The withholding of time with your son, the passive-aggressive behavior, the suggestive online activity, and the meetings with other men are not merely personal grievances, they are violations of the sacred trust God has placed in marriage. Scripture is clear: marriage is a reflection of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:32), and it is to be held in honor (Hebrews 13:4). The behaviors you describe, if they involve unfaithfulness, deception, or emotional abandonment, are not aligned with God’s design. We must rebuke these things in the name of Jesus, for they grieve the Holy Spirit and dishonor the Lord.

Yet we also recognize that the heart behind your prayer is not one of vengeance but of restoration. You long for repentance, not just for the sake of your son, but for the salvation of the one who has strayed. This is the heart of God, who is patient, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). We join you in praying for a godly sorrow that leads to repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10). May the Holy Spirit convict deeply, not with condemnation, but with the kindness of God that leads to change (Romans 2:4).

We pray for your son, that he would be raised in the training and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). The statistics you mention are sobering, but we know that God’s Word does not return void (Isaiah 55:11). May your son’s heart be tender to Scripture from infancy, that he may grow in wisdom and the fear of the Lord (Proverbs 9:10). We pray for protection over his mind and spirit, that he would not be swayed by the ungodly influences around him but would be rooted in Christ.

For the one who has strayed, we pray for a crashing down of false securities, anything that has given a false sense of peace or justification for sin. May the Lord humble her, as He did with Elijah in the cave, until she hears His still, small voice calling her back (1 Kings 19:12). May she respond to the gentle correction of the Holy Spirit and the godly counsel of those around her. We pray that her church, her pastors, and her Christian friends would speak truth in love, holding her accountable with grace and firmness.

We also lift you up, dear brother. The bitterness you feel is understandable, but we pray that the Lord would guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23). May you speak to her with tenderness, even as Hosea was called to pursue his unfaithful wife (Hosea 2:14). Your words have power, may they be seasoned with salt (Colossians 4:6), that they might draw her back rather than push her further away.

We resist the enemy in this situation, for we know that our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). We declare that the gates of hell will not prevail against the Church (Matthew 16:18), and we stand firm in the authority of Jesus’ name. The devil seeks to destroy this family, but we command him to flee (James 4:7). We pray for unity, not the false unity of compromise, but the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Ephesians 4:3).

Father, we ask that You would move mightily in this situation. Bring conviction where there is hardness of heart. Bring repentance where there is rebellion. Bring healing where there is brokenness. Restore what has been lost, and make all things new. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in this family.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Amen.
 
We hear the ache in your words, the longing for time with your son, the grief over months you can't get back, and the heavy weight of watching someone you love choose a destructive path. It's clear you are fighting not to grow bitter, and that takes real grace from the Lord.

You've already done something significant: you made a decision to forgive her. Even when the feelings haven't caught up, that choice is a powerful act of obedience and it's guarding your own heart. The pain and frustration don't vanish overnight, and God doesn't despise your brokenness. Keep speaking tenderly, keep praying and fasting, He is using those quiet acts to shape you even as He works in ways you can't yet see.

A practical thing that might strengthen you right now is to not carry this alone. Is there a mature believer or a pastor you trust who could meet with you to pray regularly? Having a few brothers who will stand with you, not just knowing about the situation but actually asking God to intervene, can steady your soul and open the door for His purposes. Your son needs a dad who is rooted in Christ and not consumed by the turmoil, so let others help you stay that way.

Lord Jesus, we lift up this father before You. You see every missed moment, every prayer whispered in the night. In Your mercy, draw his son's mother to genuine repentance and saving faith. Send people into her life who will speak truth with love, and guard this little boy's heart. Give this dad wisdom in every interaction, patience in the waiting, and a spirit that reflects Your gentleness. Sustain him as he pours himself out in prayer and fasting, and in Your time let him see the fruit of his faithfulness. We trust You to do more than we can ask, according to Your will. Amen.
 
🕊️Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 4+ months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures and videos" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"and "meeting men at various locations" -- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:17-18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42, Heb 5:7. Please use her church, preaching, teaching, bring others into her path to warn her and gently correcter, use any and every means to bring her to repentance, 2 Pet 3:9, Acts 17:30...

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME… And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and not be embittered toward her, 1 Peter 3:1-7 and speak tenderly to her -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool" but those things should be "former way of life -- not ongoing" and ought now to cause shame, Rom 6:21)... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…
Praying with you for a miracle that you have full custody of your son, for ### salvation, also for your son- continued protection, deliverance from evil (Mt 6:13; 2Thessalonians 3:2-3) Please Father grant that his needs spiritual, emotional, physical, and financial met through Your riches in glory Thank You in advance in Jesus Name Amen.
 
The groaning of your spirit rises before the throne, and the Lord has not turned a deaf ear to the anguish of a father’s heart. You mourn lost months and stolen moments with your little one, and the deeper wound of watching one made in God’s image rush headlong toward destruction. Yet the very Scriptures you cling to are the cords of hope: the Lord is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. His patience with her, and with you, is salvation’s long afternoon. The earthquakes and typhoons that shook her body did not break the adamant of her will; outward judgments alone cannot produce that godly sorrow which works repentance unto life, a repentance that has no regret. Calamity may frighten the flesh, but only the still, small voice of the Spirit can whisper the soul into the cave’s opening, ready to obey. Pray on, then, not for mere external shocks, but for that gentle, insistent breath that makes the knees bend and the heart melt.

Remember that forgiveness is a business in which you hold large shares. You have been forgiven much, forgiven with a divine completeness that casts all sin behind the Father’s back for Christ’s sake. Measure your own repentance by this scale: does it give God glory? And does your posture toward her give Him glory? To speak tenderly, as the Lord spoke to wayward Israel in the wilderness, is not to excuse her wandering but to woo her back. Bitterness, however justified it appears in the moment, locks the door that prayer and patient love must keep open. You cannot force her repentance, but you can refuse to let the root of bitterness spring up and defile you and the little one watching your example. Forgive her again in your heart, not the sin, but the debt of your own resentment, and leave the accounting to Him. This is not natural; it is supernatural, the joint-stock business of mutual forgiveness among the ransomed.

Take courage from the unlimited character of gospel promise: there is forgiveness with God. No verb tenses limit it in the original, there was, there is, there will be forgiveness for the chief of sinners. Your wife’s independence, her deception, her suggestive profiles and meetings, her cold silence, all these are not beyond the reach of the blood that speaks better things than Abel’s. The Lord desires a name for mercy, and the worse the sinner, the more He is honored in the rescue. Plead then that He would glorify Himself by snatching this woman from the pit, not because she deserves it, but because the righteousness of God gleams most brightly when grace transforms the unworthy. That same righteousness which is a sharp two-edged sword to the impenitent becomes the very ground of a just salvation for those who believe.

Continue steadfastly in prayer and fasting, but do not think that the answer tarries because you have not yet produced a perfect repentance in her. Repentance is a grace, not a condition you can manufacture. It is the gift of the ascended Christ, and the least sincere turning of the heart saves. Do not wait for some eminent degree of sorrow before you hope; a single tear of godly grief, a glance of faith toward the Crucified, is enough for Him who does not quench the smoldering flax. Pray that her false security be stripped away, not simply that she may suffer the ruin of her own schemes, but that she may taste the joy that comes after true repentance, the joy that David begged to have restored, the joy that makes even Sister Repentance sweet company on the road to Zion.

Raise your son in the training and instruction of the Lord, speaking of the Scriptures from his infancy, for the promise is not to the perfect parent but to the faithful. His mother’s path may be crooked now, but the Shepherd is able to make the child wise unto salvation through the word planted in his heart. The marriage covenant remains a mystery that speaks of Christ and the Church; hold fast to your own fidelity as a picture of His unwavering love for a faithless bride. Your patient endurance, your refusal to speak harshly, your quiet waiting, these are a living sermon louder than any rebuke. And should the Lord grant the miracle of her transformation, the gates of hell will not be able to withstand the testimony of a home rebuilt on the foundation of forgiving grace. Until that hour, let your heart rest in this: with God there is forgiveness, and that forgiveness is as broad as the need, as near as the present moment, and as certain as the empty tomb.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 

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