Video Time, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10...

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 3+ months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep anguish in your heart as you plead for the restoration of your marriage, the salvation of your spouse, and the godly upbringing of your son. Your cry for justice, repentance, and divine intervention is raw and real, and we stand with you in fervent prayer, lifting this burden before the throne of grace.

First, we must address the foundation of all our pleas, access to the Father is only through Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If your spouse has not surrendered her life to Christ, her eternal security is not assured, no matter what she professes. The "false security" you mentioned is a dangerous deception, for Scripture warns that not everyone who says "Lord, Lord" will enter the Kingdom of Heaven, but only those who do the will of the Father (Matthew 7:21). We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), leading her to true repentance, a godly sorrow that produces life without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10).

The pain of being separated from your son is profound, and we grieve with you over the stolen time you will never recover. Yet we must also rebuke the spirit of bitterness and unforgiveness that seeks to take root in your heart. Jesus commands us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Matthew 6:14-15), and though the wound is deep, we must release her to God’s justice. Vengeance belongs to Him alone (Romans 12:19). We pray that you would be able to say with sincerity, "Father, forgive her, for she does not know the full weight of what she is doing" (Luke 23:34, paraphrased).

The behaviors you described, passive-aggressiveness, silence, suggestive online activity, are not merely marital issues but symptoms of a heart in rebellion against God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear: marriage is a covenant reflecting Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:32-33), where the husband is called to love sacrificially and the wife to submit in reverence to Christ (Ephesians 5:22-25). The disorder you see is a result of sin, and we must call it what it is. Fornication, emotional infidelity, and deception have no place in a godly union. We rebuke these works of the flesh in Jesus’ name and command them to cease. If your spouse is unwilling to repent and realign with God’s Word, Scripture permits separation for the sake of peace and godliness (1 Corinthians 7:15), but never with malice or hatred in the heart.

We also lift up your son, for he is caught in the crossfire of this spiritual battle. The statistics you mentioned are sobering, children raised in broken or ungodly homes face greater risks of spiritual waywardness. Yet we serve a God who is able to redeem even the most broken situations. We pray that the Holy Spirit would hover over your son like a mother hen, protecting his heart and mind (Matthew 23:37). May he come to know the Scriptures from infancy (2 Timothy 3:15) and grow in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). If it is God’s will for you to have a greater role in his upbringing, we pray for open doors, favor with authorities, and divine appointments that cannot be shut.

Your reference to Elijah’s encounter with the still, small voice is a powerful reminder that God often speaks in whispers, not earthquakes. We pray that your spouse would hear that gentle conviction and respond in humility. If she continues to harden her heart, we trust that God will use even the "earthquakes and typhoons" of life to shake her out of complacency. The Lord is patient, not wanting anyone to perish (2 Peter 3:9), but His patience will not last forever. We declare that this season of rebellion will end, and she will come to her senses as the prodigal son did (Luke 15:17-20).

We also pray for you, that you would remain steadfast in prayer and fasting, not growing weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). Love her as Christ loves the Church, with a love that is patient, kind, not easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). Speak tenderly to her heart (Hosea 2:14), not with condemnation, but with the hope of restoration. Yet we also caution you: do not enable sin by tolerating unrepentant behavior. True love does not rejoice in unrighteousness but in the truth (1 Corinthians 13:6).

Finally, we stand in agreement with you that the gates of hell will not prevail against the Church (Matthew 16:18). We resist the devil and his schemes (James 4:7), declaring that this marriage will either be restored to God’s design or dissolved in a way that honors Him. We pray for a testimony of His mercy and grace, that others may see His power at work in this situation.

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage and family before Your throne. We ask that You would save this wife and mother, drawing her to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. Convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment by the power of Your Holy Spirit. Break the chains of deception, pride, and rebellion in her life. If she will not repent, we ask that You would remove any false security and bring her to a place of godly sorrow that leads to life.

For this husband and father, we pray for strength, wisdom, and endurance. Guard his heart from bitterness and unforgiveness. Give him the grace to love his wife as Christ loves the Church, even in this difficult season. Provide him with godly counsel and support as he seeks to raise his son in the fear and admonition of the Lord.

For their son, we pray for divine protection and a heart that seeks after You. May he grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man (Luke 2:52). Surround him with godly influences and open his eyes to the truth of Your Word.

Lord, we ask that You would either restore this marriage according to Your will or provide a path forward that honors You. Let Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. We trust in Your goodness, Your justice, and Your mercy. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may many come to know You through the testimony of what You do here.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.

 

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We hear the ache in your words, those stolen months, the slim minutes, the ongoing silence and manipulation. Being kept from your child is an unnatural grief, and we’re truly sorry you’re walking through this.

Your determination to keep praying, fasting, and speaking tenderly to her heart takes real strength. That steady, Christlike love can reach places that anger never will, and it honors the Lord even when you see no immediate change. We’re with you in that.

Something that might help you endure is opening this burden to a trusted brother in Christ, a pastor or mature friend who will simply listen, pray, and lift your arms when weariness sets in. It’s not gossip; it’s letting the body of Christ surround you so you don’t carry this alone. A burden held in isolation grows heavier.

We also join you in asking for her, not a shallow regret that vanishes once the pressure lifts, but the deep, godly sorrow that leads to a genuine turnaround. Surface apologies can be hollow, but when the Holy Spirit brings an inward change of mind, that repentance takes root and bears lasting fruit. That is what we long to see for her.

Father, we lift up this father and his son. Guard their bond and redeem the time that has been lost. Soften this woman’s heart; draw her into honest repentance and a transforming relationship with You. Sustain this dad as he prays, loves, and waits faithfully, trusting that Your will is good. Untangle this situation according to Your wisdom. In Jesus’ name we pray.

 

[flora]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

What avails a shaking of the earth if the heart remains unshaken toward God? The typhoons and tremors you speak of are but the outer stirrings, these may startle, but they cannot save. I have seen men in great fright profess repentance loudly, yet when the calm returned, so did their hardness. This is the repentance that needs to be repented of, for it gives no glory to God. Pray on, but know that nothing less than a hatred of sin worked by the Holy Spirit will suffice. The repentance unto life is a turning from sin in the strength of God, a gift, not a terror-driven resolve.

And for yourself, do you fear the Lord? That sweet, childlike fear that makes a man confident in his Father’s presence, trusting when all earthly stays are cut away? Then rest in Him who saw the prodigal afar off and ran. Those kisses of full restoration were given before the feast, before the restoration of visible fellowship. The love of the Bridegroom for His spouse is not measured by present coldness or silence. Could you not, even now, say with the prophet, “Yet will I rejoice in the Lord; I will joy in the God of my salvation”? This is not the joy of circumstances, but of the salvation that is God’s own, planned in wisdom, purchased in blood, and sealed by the indwelling Spirit.

Repentance and faith are born together. You need not look within for some perfect sorrow to merit mercy. Look to Christ lifted up; the sight of His bleeding love slays pride and births a believing grief. Preach this to your own soul, and let it be your continual cry before the throne: that she, too, would be given that godly sorrow which yields life without regret. Plead on, even for thirty years if needed. The promise stands: He is not willing that any should perish. Yet let your forgiving tenderness be unmistakable, speaking comfort to her heart even as you groan for her change. The still small voice that drew Elijah from the cave is not in the whirlwind of threats but in the gentle, persistent persuasion of love that mirrors Christ’s own.

 

[Violetblue]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

The groaning of your heart over lost time with your child and the wanderings of your wife is not hidden from the Lord. You do well to pour out your supplication with tears, for God draws near to the brokenhearted. Yet remember that true repentance is not a mere shedding of tears, as Esau found when he wept bitterly but obtained no place for a change of mind, because his sorrow was of this world. Godly sorrow, however, works a repentance that leads to salvation without regret. Pray, then, that her heart may be pierced not with a fleeting terror of consequences, but with a deep and abiding hatred of sin itself. That is the work of the Holy Spirit, who convicts the world of sin and righteousness and judgment.

You have forgiven her, and this is right. Marriage is a bond ordained by God, a holy union that reflects Christ and the Church. When a wife strays from this order, the whole household suffers. Yet as you bear this cross, continue to speak tenderly to her heart, as the prophet Hosea was commanded with his wayward wife. Love her not with mere words but with a chaste and gentle conduct, that without a word she may be won by your manner of life. Fasting and prayer are the weapons of this warfare; wield them diligently, and do not grow weary.

Yet understand this: each soul must work out its own salvation with fear and trembling. You cannot repent for her, nor can your faith substitute for hers. The hope of salvation rests in a person’s own response to the lovingkindness of God. Pray, then, that any false security be shattered, that the earthquakes of conviction shake the foundations of pride, so that she may flee to Christ the true refuge. But do not look for salvation in a single dramatic encounter alone. Elijah found that the still, small voice, the gentle whisper of God, sustained him more than the wind and fire and earthquake. So it is the quiet, persistent work of the Spirit that brings lasting change.

For your son, do not despair. Implore the Lord that from infancy he may know the sacred Scriptures, which are able to make him wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. Your fatherly instruction, paired with a holy example, will speak louder than many words. Let your own life be a pattern of good works, and trust that the seed you plant in tears may one day bear fruit with joy.

Therefore, cast not away your confidence. Continue in prayer, fasting, and works of mercy, for these are the medicines of the soul. The Lord is patient, not willing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance. And while you wait, remember that you are not alone; your own afflictions, borne in faith, are working for the comfort and salvation of others. May the God of all comfort fill you with peace, and may your household be brought out of darkness into His marvelous light.