Video Time, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10...

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- radio silence for 4 months -- Father I want time with my young descendent, You understand separation from Your Son...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER (not as before, but feel compassion) -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep anguish in your heart as you plead for your son and his mother, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting this heavy burden before the throne of grace. The pain of separation from your child is profound, and the Lord understands this ache, He too experienced the sorrow of being separated from His Son for a time. Your longing for meaningful time with your descendant is not only natural but also reflects God’s heart for fathers and their children.

The Holy Spirit is indeed the One who convicts of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), and we pray that He would move powerfully in this situation. The resistance to godly counsel, the silence, and the passive-aggressive behavior you describe are not of God. Scripture warns us, "Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts good morals’" (1 Corinthians 15:33). The enemy seeks to destroy families, but we resist him in Jesus’ name, standing firm on the truth that "the gates of Hades will not prevail" against Christ’s church (Matthew 16:18).

We must address the state of the marriage covenant here, for it is the foundation of the family. God’s design is clear: "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24). The breakdown of communication, the withholding of access to your son, and the suggestive behavior you mention are not aligned with God’s will for marriage. If there has been unfaithfulness, whether emotional or physical, it must be confronted with godly sorrow leading to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Fornication and adultery are serious sins, and they grieve the Holy Spirit. We rebuke these works of darkness in Jesus’ name and pray for a spirit of repentance to fall upon her.

The Lord is patient, not wanting anyone to perish but all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). Yet His patience does not mean passivity, He will allow consequences to bring about conviction. We pray that if it must come through hardship, so be it, but that ultimately, her heart would soften to the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit (1 Kings 19:12). The "false security" of eternal life without true transformation is a dangerous deception. Salvation is not merely a prayer or a profession; it is a life surrendered to Christ, marked by the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).

We also lift up your son, for he is caught in the middle of this spiritual battle. Fathers play a critical role in shaping their children’s faith, as Scripture commands: "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). Statistically and spiritually, children thrive when raised in a home where God’s Word is honored. We pray that your son would come to know the Scriptures from infancy (2 Timothy 3:15) and that his heart would be guarded from the lies of the enemy.

You have shown great humility in submitting to God’s will, even when it is painful. We join you in praying that this situation would not only be resolved but also become a testimony of God’s mercy and grace. Let us pray:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this family to You. Lord, You see the pain, the separation, and the brokenness. We ask that You would intervene in power, breaking every chain of deception, pride, and ungodliness. Holy Spirit, convict of sin and draw this woman to repentance. Soften her heart to Your still, small voice and grant her the grace to turn from her ways. Restore what has been broken in this marriage, Father, and let Your will be done in their lives.

We pray for this young child, Lord. Protect his heart and mind from the enemy’s lies. Let him grow in the knowledge of Your truth and experience the love of a father who points him to You. Give wisdom and strength to this father as he seeks to raise his son in the ways of the Lord.

Father, we resist the devil and his schemes, declaring that this family belongs to You. Let Your kingdom come and Your will be done in their lives, just as it is in heaven. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved. Amen."

We encourage you to continue standing on God’s promises, fasting and praying as you have been. Do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season, you will reap if you do not faint (Galatians 6:9). Seek godly counsel from your local church, and surround yourself with believers who will uphold you in prayer. The battle is the Lord’s, and He will fight for you.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the ache behind your words, the months of silence from your son, the years you can’t get back, the helpless watching as someone you love walks away from godly counsel. That kind of separation cuts deep, and the grief comes in waves. You’re not alone in carrying it, and we’re honored to grieve alongside you tonight.

You mentioned forgiveness, and we sense you’re fighting to let it take root, not as a feeling but as a choice you keep making. That’s real progress. When the injustice gap feels too wide, naming the hurt (maybe even on paper) and then, in prayer, deliberately handing each piece over to God can slowly drain the bitterness. The feelings may lag behind the decision, and that’s okay; the Spirit works in the quiet places. Meanwhile, your own heart needs safe cover. Would you consider linking arms with a mature believer or a Christian counselor just for your own journey? Carrying this weight alone can wear down even the most fervent pray-er.

Keep loving your son by being steady and present in whatever openings God gives, even a simple video call or a letter that says, “I’m here, I love you, and I’m not giving up.” And keep praying for his mother’s true transformation. That’s not your burden to engineer; it’s a mercy you keep entrusting to the One who never stops pursuing.

Lord Jesus, draw near to this father right now. Hold the years that feel lost, and let him sense Your nearness in the waiting. Watch over his young son; plant seeds of truth and safety deep in that little heart. Soften his wife’s heart toward genuine repentance and life. Give this man daily strength to love her with the compassion You supply, and guard his spirit from bitterness. Sustain him in prayer and fasting, and let hope rise even in the silence. We trust her to You, and we ask for Your will to unfold in this family, for Your glory and their whole-hearted return to You. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. Heavenly Father please soften hearts and grant communication and healing in this situation. Please grant peace of mind and clarity. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen



““But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

[Spurgeon]

There is a sorrow that eats like rust into the soul, and there is a sorrow that waters the ground of the heart until it brings forth a harvest unto life. You know well the text you have quoted, godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of, but the sorrow of the world worketh death. Take heed lest the keen edge of your grief cut more for the loss of video time than for the dishonour done to God. The separation from your son is a bitter draught, but the deeper wound is this: a soul made in the image of the Eternal is careening toward destruction, and a covenant is being trampled in the dust. Let your tears be salted with this holy brine, that God’s name is profaned by rebellion, and His order is set at nought. Do not mistake the jealous ache of a father’s right for the travail of intercession; the one may spring from nature, the other is kindled by the Spirit.

Judgment may produce a carnal repentance, a repentance that is of the flesh and after the manner of the sinful nature of men. You have described earthquakes and typhoons shaking her outward frame; you have longed for things to crash down around her. But remember, the power encounters that terrified Ahab and Jezebel were not the voice that drew Elijah from his cave. The Lord was not in the wind, nor in the earthquake, nor in the fire. The still, small voice won the prophet’s obedience. So pray not chiefly for explosions of terror, but for that gentle, irresistible breath of the Holy Ghost to convict her of sin, of righteousness, and of judgment. Carnal fear may drive a soul to a repentance that is no better than the vomit of a dog, how can that be acceptable unto God? It lacks submission; it lacks faith; it breathes no love. The repentance that saves is wrought by the love of Christ constraining the heart; it gives God glory by yielding to His righteous verdict and fleeing to His provided mercy.

Yet be of good courage. The eyes of mercy are quicker than the eyes of repentance. Long before she stirs from the far country of her independence and lying and stealing, the Father sees her. He saw the prodigal when he was yet a great way off. And what did the father do? He ran. He fell on his neck. He kissed him much. That much kissing was much forgiveness, sealing his sonship before the confession was fully spilled out. So pray with hope, not with the clenched fist of demand. The Lord is not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. He waiteth to be gracious. Your plea aligns with His revealed will, who can resist that? Yet rest in this: salvation is of the Lord. No human intellect assisted God in the planning of it; no human strength can execute it in her soul. You cannot generate her faith, you cannot manufacture her repentance. These are the gifts of the exalted Prince, who gives repentance and remission of sins. Cast yourself, therefore, upon the divine Omnipotence. Plead the blood that speaketh better things than that of Abel. There is the channel where saving grace flows.

And I charge you, in the midst of this storm, let your own repentance be deepened. Repentance is not a gate you pass through once and leave behind; it is the companion of faith until you enter the celestial city. Has not your own spirit been ruffled by a bitterness that borders on the flesh? The passive aggressiveness you endure may tempt you to a similar retort of silence or a spiritual pride that stands aloof. But the sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart He will not despise. Sweetly repent before the Lord of any hardness creeping into your own soul. Let your love for her now be the love of compassion, burning with a steady flame, not the sputtering torch of former affection. Love her by carrying her name into the inner sanctuary. Love her son by teaching him, when God grants the opportunity, the Holy Scriptures which are able to make him wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. What a powerful preacher a father is to his son! The seed sown now in infant soil may bear a harvest long after the present squalls have passed.

True repentance makes a rainbow with her tears of grief for sin and her glances of hope at the love of Christ and His great finished work. That is the bow set in the cloud of this domestic tempest. Look to it. Hope in it. And leave the timing and the means to Him who has loved His spouse, the Church, with an everlasting love, and gave Himself for her. He knows how to win the heart of this wayward one. He knows how to restore the years that the locust hath eaten. Watch and pray; fast and believe. The gates of Hell cannot withstand the prayers of the Church when she takes hold of God’s own promises. Go forward, then, in the strength of that quiet voice which bids you obey, trust, and leave the rest to the sovereign love that never falleth.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Nyfre]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

The deepest wounds come from those we hold closest, and the ache of separation from your child mirrors the divine longing God has for His wayward children. You are right to plead for her salvation with tears and fasting, for while there is no second laver of baptism to renew her, the fountain of repentance remains ever open. Godly sorrow, that grief which strikes the heart with hatred of sin rather than mere fear of consequence, works a repentance unto salvation that leaves no regret. But beware the counterfeit: Esau sought repentance with tears and found none, for his sorrow was worldly, grieving only his loss, not his transgression. Pray that her silence and hardness be broken not by mere calamity, earthquakes and storms pass, but by that still, small voice which draws the soul out of darkness into relationship with the living God.

Do not grow weary in intercession, for the Father is not slow but patient, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. Yet remember that the salvation of your wife rests finally in her own will cooperating with grace. Your prayers and your example are a mighty force, but they cannot compel what only a humbled heart can receive. Therefore, continue to love her not with the fleeting affection of former days, but with the compassion that yearns for her eternal good, even while you bear the pain of lost months and present silence. This affliction, offered to God, can work for your comfort and salvation if you endure it with the patience of Christ, knowing that as you partake of His sufferings, you shall also partake of His consolation.

Let your conduct be pure, your life an open rebuke to every false security. If she sends suggestive pictures or persists in neglect, do not meet resentiment with resentiment. Overcome evil with good, that by your meek and reverent behavior she may, without a word, be won back to the truth. In the meantime, trust that the One who sees all hidden things will in due time vindicate your prayers and perfect that which concerns you. Hold fast to the hope that your son, even now, may be trained in the instruction of the Lord, and that the gates of hell shall not prevail against the church which prays in unity with you.