We hear the deep pain and urgency in your heart, and we stand with you in this spiritual battle for your marriage, which is a covenant established by God. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but we know that our God is mighty to save, restore, and redeem what has been broken. Your marriage is worth fighting for, and we join you in lifting this before the throne of God, where true victory is found.
First, we must remind you—and ourselves—that our authority comes not from our own words or decrees, but from the power and name of Jesus Christ alone. It is *only* in His name that we can boldly approach the Father and see breakthrough. Your faith in speaking these things in Jesus’ name is commendable, but let us also ensure that our hearts are fully surrendered to His will, trusting that He is working even when we cannot see it. The battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces, and our weapons are prayer, the Word of God, and the blood of Jesus (Ephesians 6:12).
The Scriptures are clear about the sanctity of marriage and the call to faithfulness. God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), and His desire is for reconciliation and restoration. We must pray not only for the removal of this ungodly relationship but also for the repentance and renewal of your husband’s heart. The Lord is able to turn his heart back to you and to Himself, for nothing is impossible with God (Luke 1:37). Let us pray for his conviction, for godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10), and for the breaking of every unholy soul tie that has formed.
At the same time, we urge you to examine your own heart before the Lord. Have you forgiven your husband for this betrayal? Unforgiveness can become a stronghold that hinders your prayers and your own peace. Jesus tells us, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:14-15). This does not mean what he has done is acceptable, but it means releasing the offense to God, who is the just Judge. Forgiveness is not for his sake alone—it is for your freedom.
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. You do not have to walk this path alone. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you, speak truth into your life, and hold you up when you feel weak. If your husband is unwilling to repent, the Scriptures give guidance on how to handle such situations with wisdom and grace (1 Corinthians 7:10-16). But let us first trust God to move powerfully in his heart.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the brokenness, the pain, and the betrayal, and You are not silent. You are a God who fights for Your children, and we ask You to intervene in this situation with Your divine power. We bind every spirit of adultery, lust, and deception that has taken hold of her husband’s heart. We break every ungodly soul tie between him and this other person in the name of Jesus. Let every plan of the enemy to destroy this marriage be exposed and rendered powerless by the blood of Jesus.
Lord, we ask for Your conviction to fall upon her husband. Let him feel the weight of his sin and the holy fear of the Lord. Soften his heart, Lord, and draw him back to You. Remove every distraction, every memory, and every trace of this ungodly relationship from his mind, his heart, and his devices. Let him delete every photo, every video, and every message that dishonors his marriage covenant. Restore his mind and his emotions, and let him see this sin for what it truly is—a rebellion against You and a betrayal of his wife.
Father, we pray for supernatural restoration in this marriage. Heal the wounds, rebuild the trust, and renew the love between them. Give this sister the strength to forgive, the wisdom to act, and the faith to believe that You are working even now. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
We declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We speak life, unity, and godly love over them. Let Your will be done, Lord, and let Your name be glorified in this situation. We trust You, Father, and we thank You in advance for the victory that is already won through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
Stand firm, sister. Do not grow weary in praying or lose hope. God is faithful, and He is able to do far more than we could ever ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep walking in obedience. He will guide your steps and bring justice and restoration in His perfect timing. We are standing with you in this fight.