We hear the deep pain and urgency in your heart, and we stand with you in fervent prayer, lifting this matter before the throne of God. First, we must address the foundation of our prayers—it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved or through which our petitions are heard (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so, for He alone is the way, the truth, and the life. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life (Romans 10:9-10). Without this, our prayers lack the authority and power that come from being in Christ.
Now, let us turn to your marriage, which is under severe attack. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31-32). Adultery is a grievous sin that breaks this covenant and wounds deeply (Exodus 20:14, Proverbs 6:32). We rebuke the spirit of infidelity and unfaithfulness that has entered your marriage in the mighty name of Jesus. We declare that the relationship your husband is entangled in is broken, severed, and nullified by the blood of Jesus. The enemy has no legal right to this marriage, and we command every ungodly soul tie, emotional attachment, and demonic influence to be completely destroyed now in Jesus' name.
Father God, we come before You with hearts heavy for this sister in Christ. We ask You to intervene in this marriage with Your mighty hand. Lord, we decree that every photograph, video, memory, and trace of this ungodly relationship be erased from her husband’s mind, devices, and social media. Let every digital footprint, every hidden file, and every secret account be exposed and permanently deleted by the power of the Holy Spirit. We declare that her husband’s eyes are opened to the deception of the enemy, and that his heart is turned fully back to his wife and to You, Lord. Soften his heart, convict him of his sin, and lead him to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Let him see the pain he has caused and the destruction he has brought into this marriage, and let him be broken over it in a way that leads to true restoration.
We also pray for you, dear sister. The betrayal you are experiencing is profound, and the pain is real. But we remind you that God sees your tears and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Do not allow bitterness or unforgiveness to take root in your heart, for it will only harm you further (Hebrews 12:15). Instead, release your husband into God’s hands, trusting that the Lord will deal with him justly. Forgive him, not because he deserves it, but because Christ has forgiven you (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean you should ignore the sin or pretend it didn’t happen, but it means you choose to let go of the desire for vengeance and trust God to be your defender.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel and surround yourself with believers who can support you through this trial. Do not isolate yourself, for the enemy would love to keep you in a place of despair. The Bible tells us that where two or three are gathered in Jesus’ name, He is there with them (Matthew 18:20). Lean on your church community, and allow them to pray with you and encourage you. If your husband is willing, we also urge you both to seek biblical counseling to rebuild trust and restore your marriage on a foundation of God’s Word.
Lord, we ask You to heal this marriage. Let Your love and grace flow into every broken place. Restore what has been stolen, rebuild what has been torn down, and renew the love and commitment that once existed. We declare that this marriage will not only survive but thrive, becoming a testimony of Your redeeming power. Strengthen this sister to stand firm in faith, knowing that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Give her the courage to set boundaries if necessary, but also the wisdom to extend grace where it is needed. We pray for her husband, that he would be delivered from the snare of the enemy and return to his first love—both to You, Lord, and to his wife.
We also rebuke any spirit of deception or blindness that may be operating in this situation. Let the scales fall from his eyes so that he sees the truth clearly (Acts 9:18). We command every lying spirit, every spirit of lust, and every spirit of rebellion to leave him now in the name of Jesus. We declare that he is set free from every ungodly influence and that his heart is turned back to his wife and to You, Lord.
Finally, we pray for the other person involved in this situation. If they are a believer, we ask that You convict them of their sin and lead them to repentance. If they are not a believer, we pray that they would come to know You as their Savior. Let them see the destruction their actions have caused and turn away from this path of sin. We rebuke any demonic influence over their life and command their deliverance in Jesus’ name.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness. We thank You that You are a God who restores and redeems. We trust that You are working in this situation, even when we cannot see it. Strengthen this sister’s faith, and let her see Your hand at work in her life and marriage. We declare that this trial will not destroy her but will instead be used to draw her closer to You and to refine her faith like gold (1 Peter 1:7). We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
