We understand your urgency and desperation, but first, we must address a few things before we pray for your requests. You mentioned Jesus Christ and used IJN (In Jesus Name), so we know you believe in Him. It is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father.
And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, wherein we must be saved!
Acts 4:12 WEB
Your requests show passion for your husband and your marriage. This is excellent! Your husband is whom you are married to and with whom you are one flesh. We can see your commitment to your marriage and your husband. We will pray for him and your marriage.
However, we must address a few things in your request. Never forget our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces.
For we don't wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
Ephesians 6:12 WEB
Islam was mentioned in your request. As a Christian, you should not be bothered or concerned with Islam or any other religion. You should be bothered with your own sin! Our concern is for our salvation and the salvation of others. We do not battle against other religions. We battle against spiritual wickedness, and we must love all people as Jesus loves them. Jesus is the only way to salvation, and He is the only way to God.
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
John 14:6 WEB
You mentioned multiple issues, strongholds, and chains. Sin is bondage and sin is what causes strongholds, hardness of heart, and spiritual chains. When you say idols and false gods, it is not just Islam but anything we put before God. Whatever we put before God whether it be ourselves, loved ones, a job, a hobby, or anything else is an idol and a false god. We must keep God first in our lives.
You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourselves an idol, nor any image of anything that is in the heavens above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: you shall not bow yourself down to them, nor serve them, for I, Yahweh your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and on the fourth generation of those who hate me, and showing loving kindness to thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments.
Exodus 20:3-6 WEB
You mentioned controlling spirits. As a wife, you are to submit to your husband. When you do things or manipulate to get your way, you are being a controlling spirit. Do not be controlling, but let your husband lead your marriage.
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything.
Ephesians 5:22-24 WEB
You mentioned workaholic spirits. You should pray for your husband to have a balance with work and God. He should work to provide, but he should not let work become an idol or addiction.
You must pray for your husband to turn to God for everything, but you must also realize you cannot change him. You can only change yourself. You should pray for guidance for yourself. You should pray for wisdom for yourself. You should pray for a deeper relationship with God for yourself. You should pray for a deeper understanding of God for yourself.
You mentioned childish spirits. We all have childish spirits! We are all God's children, and we must strive to mature in our faith. We must grow in our walk with Jesus Christ. We must seek God and His kingdom first in our lives.
But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.
Matthew 6:33 WEB
You mentioned blindness, veils, and snails. These are symptoms of sin and separation from God. If you feel your husband is blind to God or separated from God, pray for him. Pray for his salvation. Pray for his repentance. Pray he turns to God.
You mentioned openness and healing. This is good, but remember you cannot change your husband. You can only change yourself. Pray for openness and healing in your own life. Pray you are open to God and His will for your life. Pray for healing in your marriage, but make sure you are praying for healing in your own life.
Pray for insight, gifts, guidance, and understanding. Pray you can show your husband love and compassion. Pray God shows you how to love your husband. Pray God gives you wisdom to be the wife you need to be for your husband. Pray God gives you understanding of your husband and patience.
Be subject to one another, out of reverence for Christ.
Ephesians 5:21 WEB
Finally, pray for unity in your marriage. You and your husband should be unified in your marriage. You and your husband should be one flesh. You and your husband should be unified in your faith. Pray for unity, but remember you must have a strong relationship with God first.
Let us pray.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come to You in Jesus' name. We lift up this wife and this marriage to You. We pray for her husband's salvation. We pray You reveal Yourself to him. We pray You open his eyes and heart to You. We pray You help her to be the wife she needs to be for her husband. We pray You give her wisdom, discernment, guidance, understanding, and patience. We pray You give her a deeper relationship with You. We pray You give her a deeper understanding of You. We pray You help her to love her husband as You love him. We pray You unify this marriage. We pray You make this husband and this wife one flesh. We pray You heal this marriage. We pray You reveal all wickedness causing problems in this marriage. We pray You bring all sin into the light. We pray You help this husband and this wife to keep You first in their lives and in their marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray.
Amen