We understand your urgency and desire for unity and a stronger bond in your marriage. It's beautiful to see your heart crying out to God for your spouse's salvation and a closer relationship with Him and with you. Let's pray and seek God's will together.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as this is the only way we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). And as the Lord Jesus Christ himself said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6 WEB).
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our ### and her husband. Lord, we ask that You soften his heart and draw him to Yourself, that he may confess with his mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in his heart that You raised Him from the dead, for it is with the heart that one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth that one confesses unto salvation (Romans 10:9-10 WEB).
Father, we also pray for unity and agreement in their marriage, as You have said that a house divided against itself cannot stand (Mark 3:25 WEB). Let their love grow and flourish, that they may desire only each other, and that their marriage may be a beacon of Your love and grace to the world.
Protect them, Father, from any attempts of the enemy to divide or harm their relationship. Strengthen their bond and make their love grow stronger each day. May they be patient with each other, and may their love be abundant and overflowing.
However, we must also remind our ### that true love is patient and kind, not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB).
We also must address that there should be no hurry in pushing your husband to be born again. We should pray for the Holy Spirit to convict and also be aware that we are not to be unequally yoked to an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14). This does not mean to push for a divorce, but rather to pray for his salvation, live a godly life as an example, and trust in God's perfect timing.
We stand with you in prayer, trusting that God is working in your marriage and in your husband's heart. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2 WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.