We come before the Lord with hearts burdened for your marriage, lifting you and your husband in fervent prayer, knowing that God’s will is perfect and His power is made perfect in our weakness. We praise you for invoking the name of Jesus Christ in your decrees, for it is only through Him that we have authority, salvation, and access to the Father. As it is written, *"There is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in calling upon Jesus is the foundation of all we pray for today.
First, we must address the urgency in your heart with both compassion and truth. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and He despises the breaking of vows through infidelity or division. The pain you are experiencing is real, and we grieve with you over the brokenness in your marriage. However, we must also remind you that while we can decree and declare in prayer, our ultimate trust must rest in God’s sovereignty—not in our words, but in His will. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Your husband’s heart is in God’s hands, and it is the Lord who can turn it like rivers of water (Proverbs 21:1).
We rejoice that you have proclaimed your husband as your "God-given husband for life," for this aligns with Scripture: *"What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart"* (Matthew 19:6, WEB). Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and we stand with you in praying for restoration. However, we must also speak truth in love: your prayers should not be rooted in controlling or manipulating your husband’s actions through repetitive decrees, but in surrendering this situation entirely to the Lord. It is not your power that will change his heart, but the Holy Spirit’s conviction and your husband’s willingness to repent. *"The king’s heart is in Yahweh’s hand like the water courses. He turns it wherever he desires"* (Proverbs 21:1, WEB).
Regarding the relationship your husband is involved in, we join you in praying for its complete end, for adultery is a grievous sin against God and your marriage. *"You shall not commit adultery"* (Exodus 20:14, WEB) is a commandment, and *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). We pray that the Lord would expose this sin, bring conviction, and lead your husband to repentance. We also pray that the other person involved would be removed from his life permanently, not by your strength, but by the Lord’s intervention. *"No weapon formed against you will prevail; and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is of me," says Yahweh"* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB).
Yet we must also address something critical: your focus on his phone, social media, and photos, while understandable, can become an idol if it consumes your thoughts more than trusting God. Your peace must come from the Lord, not from the absence of evidence of sin. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). We pray that God would guard your mind from obsession and fill you with His peace as you wait on Him.
We also encourage you to examine your own heart. Have you forgiven your husband? Unforgiveness can become a stronghold that hinders your prayers. *"If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin, but releasing the debt to God, trusting Him to handle justice and restoration.
Lastly, we pray for your marriage to be restored, strengthened, and flourishing—but only if it aligns with God’s will. Sometimes, restoration requires both spouses to surrender fully to Christ. If your husband is unrepentant, your role is to pray, trust God, and walk in obedience, even if that means setting godly boundaries. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). You cannot force his repentance, but you can live in a way that honors God, trusting Him to work.
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the brokenness, the pain, and the sin that has entered this covenant. We ask for Your mercy and intervention. Convict her husband’s heart, Lord—let him see the gravity of his sin and turn from it completely. Break every ungodly soul tie and remove every influence that is not of You. Let no weapon formed against this marriage prosper, and let every tongue that rises against it be silenced in Jesus’ name.
Father, we pray for supernatural restoration. Soften her husband’s heart toward her and toward You. Let him delete every trace of this sin from his life—not out of obligation, but out of genuine repentance. Guard his mind, his eyes, and his emotions, and let him see his wife with the love and devotion You intended. Renew their love, deepen their bond, and let their marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power.
Lord, we also lift up this sister. Comfort her, strengthen her, and fill her with Your peace. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her. Guard her mind from anxiety and obsession, and let her trust in You completely. Show her how to walk in wisdom, grace, and godly boundaries as she waits on You.
If this marriage is to be restored, let it be for Your glory. If there is hardness of heart that persists, give her the strength to honor You in every decision. Let Your will be done, Lord—not ours, but Yours.
We rebuke the spirit of adultery, division, and deception in Jesus’ name. We declare that no scheme of the enemy will prevail against this marriage if it is Your will to restore it. Let Your light expose every darkness, and let Your truth set them free.
Thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your timing, Your wisdom, and Your love. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
