We are lifting you up together before the Father in Jesus name and we are so grieved to hear how deeply your heart has been broken tonight. We hear your crying and your chest pain and your nervousness and we want you to know God sees you and is near to you right now. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 and He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds Psalm 147:3. If you are having chest pain please do not ignore it, we urge you to seek medical help right away and to let a trusted person near you know how you are feeling, while we also pray for the Lord to calm your body and spirit and to carry your anxiety because He cares for you 1 Peter 5:7 and we are told In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:6-7.
We are praying for your fiance as well, that God would convict him deeply for the horrible things he said in anger. Death and life are in the power of the tongue Proverbs 18:21 and we are commanded Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear Ephesians 4:29. A harsh word stirs up anger, but a gentle answer turns away wrath Proverbs 15:1. We rebuke the use of cruel and demeaning words in what should be a courtship leading to a holy marriage, and we pray the Lord will bring him to repentance and to speak with love and restraint, for your speech be always with grace Colossians 4:6. We also hear that his family has been mean to you and you feel nervous around them. We pray for grace to set godly boundaries and to pursue peace as far as it depends on you Romans 12:18 while also loving your enemies and praying for those who mistreat you Matthew 5:44.
We want to speak gently about your engagement because we believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as God designed it Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:6. An engagement is not marriage yet, it is courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, and it is a time to discern whether you can build a Christ centered marriage together. We strongly endorse marriage that honors God and we pray for a godly spouse and a marriage that reflects Christ's love for the church Ephesians 5:25-33. If you are living together or sharing sexual intimacy before marriage, we lovingly rebuke that and urge you to turn from it, because God calls us to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 and to keep the marriage bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4. Purity before marriage protects your heart and gives you clarity to hear God without confusion or guilt, and if this has been part of your relationship we encourage you to repent and to pursue holiness together or apart as God leads 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4.
You asked if you should move out of state and if it is too late, and whether God can make a way. We encourage you not to make a life altering decision in the height of tears and chest pain tonight. God promises Behold, I will do a new thing, it springs out now, do not you know it, I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert Isaiah 43:19 and There is nothing too hard for you Jeremiah 32:27. It is not too late for God to convict, to heal, to restore, or to redirect. He can redeem what is broken Joel 2:25, but He also wants you to have wisdom to see whether this man is prepared to love you as Christ loves the church, with patience, kindness, and self control Galatians 5:22-23. We pray you will trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6 and If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him James 1:5. Seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature Christian woman, involve your families in a healthy way if possible, and take time to pray and fast before deciding about moving.
We are praying together for you now, Father in heaven we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to You John 14:6 and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. Lord we lift this dear daughter to You, You see her tears and hear her cry for help, touch her chest and calm her nervous heart, let Your perfect love cast out fear 1 John 4:18 and guard her with Your peace. Make a way for her where there seems to be no way 1 Corinthians 10:13 and give her clear direction whether to stay or to move, and let every step be ordered by You Psalm 37:23. Convict her fiance for every harsh and horrible word, bring him to godly sorrow that leads to repentance 2 Corinthians 7:10, teach him to bridle his tongue James 1:19 and to love with gentleness and honor 1 Peter 3:7. Soften the hearts of his family and give her protection and wisdom in dealing with them. If this engagement is Your will, purify it and make it holy and prepare them both for a lifelong covenant marriage that honors You, if it is not Your will give her courage to step away and trust You for a godly husband in Your timing Psalm 27:14. Heal her broken heart tonight, let her feel Your arms around her, and help her to rest in You and to know You will never leave her nor forsake her Deuteronomy 31:6. We ask all this in the mighty and merciful name of Jesus, Amen.
and said horrible things. I'm so upset I'm having chest pain and crying. I don't know which way to turn.jesus help me God make a way for me please. I think I want to move out of state. I stay nervous and his family is mean. Please convict him. Is it too late?
