We lift up your urgent requests before the Lord, trusting in His perfect timing and sovereign will over every detail of your life and the lives of those you love. First, we thank you for invoking the name of Jesus in your prayer—it is only through Him that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Your faith in calling upon Him is a testament to your trust in His power, and we join you in seeking His intervention.
For your daughter, we pray that the Lord would surround her with His favor as with a shield (Psalm 5:12). May He grant her confidence, grace, and excellence in all she does, that her light would shine before others in a way that glorifies God (Matthew 5:16). We ask that every detail of this event would align with His perfect will, that doors would open, connections would be made, and her efforts would bear fruit that lasts. May the Lord protect her from any distraction, anxiety, or hindrance, and may His peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Father, we ask that You would use this moment not just for her success, but for Your kingdom’s purposes—whether to encourage her, open new opportunities, or draw others to Yourself through her.
Now, regarding your fiancé, we must speak truth in love, as the Word of God commands. The pain and uncertainty you’re feeling are deeply understood, and we grieve with you over the possibility of betrayal. However, we must first address the fact that you are engaged but not yet married. The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy and the emotional bonds of a marital relationship are reserved for marriage alone (Hebrews 13:4). If you and your fiancé have been living as though you are already married—sharing a home, a bed, or the privileges of marriage—we urge you to repent and align your relationship with God’s design. Fornication is a sin against your own body and against God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), and it can cloud judgment, deepen emotional wounds, and invite spiritual strongholds into your lives. If this is the case, we pray that the Holy Spirit would convict both of your hearts and lead you to purity, honoring God with your bodies and your relationship.
As for the fear that he may be unfaithful, we pray that the Lord would expose any deception or sin in his life. "For nothing is hidden that will not be revealed; nor anything secret that will not be known and come to light" (Luke 8:17). If he is involved with someone else, we ask that the Lord would bring it to light swiftly and decisively, sparing you from prolonged heartache. But we also pray for wisdom for you—wisdom to see this situation through God’s eyes and not just your emotions. Ask the Lord to show you whether this man is truly the spouse He has for you. A godly marriage is built on trust, fidelity, and a shared commitment to Christ. If he is not walking in integrity, the Lord may be protecting you from a union that would bring more pain than joy.
You mentioned that you are older and do not need lies—and we agree. At any age, but especially as we grow in wisdom and experience, we must demand truth and righteousness in our relationships. Proverbs 31:10-12 describes a virtuous wife whose husband’s heart trusts in her, and who does him good all the days of her life. Likewise, a godly husband should be a man of honor, one who loves his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). If your fiancé is not demonstrating this kind of love and faithfulness now, it is unlikely he will after marriage. We urge you to seek the Lord’s will above your own desires. It is better to be single and at peace in Christ than to be unequally yoked or bound to someone who does not cherish you as God intends (1 Corinthians 7:15, 2 Corinthians 6:14).
Finally, we want to remind you that your worth and security are not found in this relationship or any man, but in Christ alone. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and the Lord has a plan for you—one that includes peace, joy, and a future filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11). If this relationship is not of Him, He will provide comfort and direction as you release it into His hands. Trust that His plans for you are good, even when they require surrender or pain in the moment.
**Let us pray:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her urgent needs. Lord, we ask that You would surround her daughter with Your favor and grace during this event. May every step she takes be ordered by You, and may Your peace flood her heart. Give her confidence, clarity, and divine connections that align with Your will. Let this moment be a testament to Your goodness and faithfulness, and may it open doors that no man can shut.
Father, we also bring before You the pain and uncertainty in this sister’s heart regarding her fiancé. Lord, if there is deception or unfaithfulness, expose it completely. Bring truth to light, and give her the strength to face whatever You reveal. If this man is not the spouse You have for her, we ask that You would remove him from her life swiftly and decisively. Do not let her be bound to someone who would bring her sorrow or lead her away from Your perfect will. If there has been sin in their relationship—whether fornication, emotional idolatry, or compromise—we ask for conviction and repentance. Cleanse them both, Lord, and restore purity and holiness in their lives.
Father, we pray that You would guard her heart and mind. Fill her with Your peace and remind her that her worth is found in You alone. If this relationship is not from You, give her the courage to walk away and trust You for what comes next. Surround her with godly counsel, wise friends, and Your unshakable presence. Let her know that You are her Provider, her Protector, and her ultimate Love.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, deception, or manipulation in this situation. We declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that the enemy has no place in her life or her relationships. Cover her with Your blood, Jesus, and let Your will be done in every area of her life.
We ask all these things in the powerful and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.