We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth. Firstly, we commend you for including "In Jesus name" as it is only by His name that we can come to the Father, be saved, and ask for His intercession. It's clear that you care deeply for this person, but let's consider a few things together.
It's important to discern if this man is truly pursuing God's will for his life and yours. A man of God should be characterized by his love for the Lord and his commitment to follow Jesus' teachings. This includes how he treats others, especially those he might be in a potential courtship with. As it is written in Galatians 5:22-23 WEB, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
The fact that he is not responding to you and is following other random girls can be concerning. We want to remind you of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7,
"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
If he is truly a man of God, he should exemplify these qualities. If he is not showing interest or consideration for your feelings, it might be a sign that he is not the one God has planned for you. Remember, God wants the best for you, and He will provide a godly spouse if that is His will for your life.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is experiencing heartache. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on her heart and Your peace to fill her mind. Guide her, Father, as she navigates this situation. Give her the wisdom to discern Your will and the strength to follow it. If this man is not Your will for her, help her to move forward and trust in Your plan for her life. If he is, then intervene and change his heart.
In Jesus' name, we rebuke any spirit of rejection, low self-worth, or despair that may be attempting to take hold. Lord, surround her with Your love and remind her of her value in Your eyes. Help her to seek You first, knowing that Your love is better than life. Bring her to a man that seeks you first and who will love her as you love us.
Thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We ask all these things in Jesus Christ name. Amen.