Troubled 25 yr marriage

[Guest]

My husband of 25 yrs and I have been having serious marriage trouble. On top of that he got caught inbetween his best friend and his wife who are going through a divorce. He spent way too much time with the wife on the phone. Now she's tried to commit suicide and he's caught again. He feels like he's the only friend she has, her husband is not handling things well (making it all about him instead of focusing on getting her well).

I want her to get well but I'm also hurting because of my husband's involvement in this. He's told me he appreciates my support but he has to do this right now - he's the only person she trusts and he feels like he has to be there to keep her husband in line.

Please pray for M that they will find the best doctors for her so she can be healed. Please pray for our marriage that we can restore our marriage. Please pray that my husband will not be so caught up in this and be able to separate from it as she gets the help she needs and be able to focus on repairing on marriage.

I'm in a really difficult spot here. I want to be supportive but I'm also scared to death of the impact on my already troubled marriage. Please pray for us!

 

[jomaje]

Just do the best you can and pray your way through to the end. He should be communicating with his friend--not his wife. He should speak his mind and then step away--let go and let God. You are the stronghold. Get them to see the light! All is well