We are deeply troubled by the words in this request, for they do not reflect the heart of Christ, who commands us to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, and pray for those who persecute us. The desire for vengeance and the condemnation of others are not of God but of the flesh and the enemy who seeks to destroy souls. Let us address these matters with the truth of Scripture and the love of Christ, for it is only by His grace that any of us are saved.
First, we must rebuking the spirit of revenge and bitterness that has taken root in these words. The Bible is clear:
*"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you."* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB)
*"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* (Romans 12:19, WEB)
The call to "kill-slaughter" others is an abomination before the Lord, for He has called us to be peacemakers, not agents of destruction. Jesus Himself said:
*"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB).
The hope that others "stay condemned and do not convert" is equally grievous, for it contradicts the very mission of Christ, who came to seek and save the lost (Luke 19:10). God takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked but desires that all would repent and turn to Him (Ezekiel 18:23). How can we, who have received such mercy, wish damnation upon others? This is not the heart of Christ but the hardness of a heart that has not fully surrendered to His love.
We also notice the mention of "religious oppression and curse." If you are facing true persecution for your faith, we stand with you in prayer for deliverance and strength. However, if this is a reference to bitterness toward others—even those who may have wronged you—we urge you to release this to the Lord. Bitterness is a poison that destroys the soul of the one who harbors it, not the one it is directed toward. The apostle Paul warns:
*"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB)
Now, let us pray for you, that the Lord would soften your heart, replace vengeance with love, and fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding.
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this brother or sister to You, knowing that the words spoken here do not align with Your will or Your heart. Lord, we ask that You would break the spirit of revenge, bitterness, and hatred that has taken hold. Replace it with Your love, Your mercy, and Your grace.
Father, we pray that You would remind this beloved one that we were all once enemies of God, yet while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). Help them to see others through Your eyes—lost sheep in need of a Shepherd. Soften their heart toward those who have wronged them, and give them the strength to forgive, just as You have forgiven them.
If there is true oppression or persecution, Lord, we ask that You would be their deliverer. Set them free from every curse and every bondage, and surround them with Your protection. But if this is rooted in unresolved anger or pain, we pray that You would heal those wounds and restore their soul. Let them not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21).
We also pray for those who have been mentioned in this request—those who are seen as enemies. Lord, we ask that You would draw them to Yourself. Open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that they too may find salvation in Jesus Christ. Do not let bitterness or revenge hinder Your work in their lives.
Finally, Father, we thank You for the salvation of this brother or sister. We pray that they would walk in the fullness of what You have called them to—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). Let them be a light in the darkness, a vessel of Your mercy, and an ambassador of reconciliation.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
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Beloved, we urge you to meditate on the words of Jesus:
*"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB)
Forgiveness is not optional for the follower of Christ—it is a commandment, and it is the path to freedom. Holding onto revenge will only chain you to the pain of the past. But in Christ, you can walk in victory. Let go of the desire for vengeance, and trust that God will justify the righteous. Your job is to love, to pray, and to forgive.
If you are struggling with these feelings, we encourage you to seek godly counseling and to immerse yourself in Scripture. The Psalms are a good place to start, for they show us how to bring our raw emotions to God while still submitting to His will. Start with Psalm 139, where David asks God to search his heart and lead him in the way everlasting.
You are saved by grace, and that grace is meant to flow through you to others. Let us all examine our hearts and ask the Lord to align our desires with His. May His love compel us to live as He lived—full of grace and truth.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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