We come before you with heavy hearts after reading this request, for we hear deep pain, bitterness, and a spirit of vengeance that is not aligned with the heart of Christ. The words spoken here reveal a struggle with unforgiveness, resentment, and even a desire for harm upon others—things that grieve the Holy Spirit. Let us address these matters with truth, love, and the authority of Scripture, for we know that God’s desire is for repentance, healing, and reconciliation, not curses or retaliation.
First, we must gently but firmly rebuke the spirit of bitterness and malice present in this request. The Bible is clear that we are not to seek vengeance or rejoice in the suffering of others, even those who have wronged us. Romans 12:19-21 declares, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.' Therefore 'If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.' Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."* To wish suffering upon others—even those who have hurt you—is to align yourself with the enemy’s work, not the Lord’s. This is not the heart of Christ, who, even as He was crucified, prayed, *"Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing"* (Luke 23:34).
We also hear the pain of feeling cursed, rejected, and tied to past failures. But let us remind you: if you are in Christ, you are *not* cursed. Galatians 3:13-14 proclaims, *"Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree,' that the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Christ Jesus; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith."* Any "curse" you feel is a lie from the enemy, meant to keep you in bondage. In Christ, you are *blessed*, redeemed, and set free. The past does not define you—your identity is in Him alone.
As for the guilt over the mistake with the chemical and the window, we encourage you to release this to the Lord. If you have done what you can to correct it, trust that God is sovereign even over small errors. Proverbs 16:3 says, *"Commit your deeds to the Lord, and your plans shall succeed."* If there is still uncertainty, seek wisdom in how to address it practically, but do not let it become a weight of condemnation. The Lord does not want you living in fear or self-condemnation. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
Now, let us address the isolation from relatives. While it is wise to set boundaries with those who bring toxicity or ungodly influences into your life, cutting off all communication out of bitterness or a desire to "forget" the pain is not the answer. The Lord calls us to forgiveness, not avoidance. Colossians 3:13 says, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* If these relatives have spoken curses or harmful words over you, the solution is not to harbor resentment but to break those words in the name of Jesus and release forgiveness. You do not have to subject yourself to ongoing harm, but you *must* release them to God in prayer. Unforgiveness is a poison that harms *you* more than anyone else.
Lastly, we must address the language used about "slaughtering" others in "health and wealth and soul." This is not the language of a redeemed heart. The Lord does not call us to pray for the destruction of others, no matter how deeply they have hurt us. Instead, we are to pray for their salvation, their repentance, and their deliverance from darkness. Jesus said in Matthew 5:44, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* This is the radical love of Christ—one that breaks cycles of curses and sets *both* you and them free.
Let us pray together for you now, that the Lord would break every chain of bitterness, fear, and unforgiveness, and fill you with His peace and truth.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved soul who is carrying such heavy burdens of pain, resentment, and fear. Lord, we ask that You break every ungodly agreement made with bitterness, every word spoken in malice, and every lie of the enemy that says this person is cursed or beyond Your redemption. Father, Your Word says that *there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus* (Romans 8:1), so we declare freedom from shame, guilt, and the weight of the past.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of vengeance and retaliation that has taken root. Replace it with Your love, Your mercy, and Your heart for those who have caused harm. Soften this heart, Lord, and bring to remembrance the depth of Your forgiveness toward us—how You loved us *while we were still sinners* (Romans 5:8). Teach this one to pray for enemies as You have commanded, and to release all offense into Your hands.
We speak peace over the anxiety about past mistakes. If there is anything that needs to be addressed practically, give wisdom and clarity. But Lord, do not let the enemy use it as a tool of condemnation. Your grace is sufficient, and Your mercy covers all.
For the relatives and those who have spoken harm, we pray for their salvation and deliverance. Break any generational curses or ungodly ties, and let Your light shine into every dark place. If there is a need for reconciliation, prepare the hearts. If boundaries are necessary, give discernment and grace to walk in wisdom.
Fill this one with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). Let them know, beyond any doubt, that they are *yours*—redeemed, loved, and called to walk in freedom.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. We trust that You are working all things together for good, even the painful things. May Your will be done, in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen.
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Beloved, we urge you to meditate on the truth of God’s Word and to surrender these heavy burdens to Him. The path to healing begins with repentance—turning away from bitterness and embracing the forgiveness Christ has already secured for you. If you have not yet fully surrendered your life to Jesus, we implore you to do so today. Confess your sins, turn from them, and trust in His finished work on the cross. There is no freedom like the freedom found in Christ.
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether through a pastor, a mature believer, or a biblical counselor. You do not have to walk this path alone. The body of Christ is here to support you, pray with you, and help you align your heart with the Lord’s.
May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). You are loved, you are redeemed, and you are *not* cursed—you are *blessed* in Him. Walk in that truth today.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
