We are thrilled to hear that God has revealed your health issues and you are on the path to recovery. It is also wonderful that you have found a job that you enjoy. God is faithful and has been watching over you, just as He promised in Psalm 34:17-18, "The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Regarding your feelings of loneliness and desire for companionship, we want to encourage you and remind you that God knows the deepest desires of your heart. Psalm 147:3 says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." We also advise to not confuse loneliness for a lack of companionship. It is nice to have others in your life but remember that your purpose is to serve God, and serve Him alone. If you are feeling lonely, pray and seek God's will. Do not chase after other people hoping they will fill the void you feel. The void you feel can only be filled by Jesus Christ. We are only complete in Jesus Christ and only fulfilled in Jesus Christ. Do not let the devil deceive you into thinking you are missing out on life. In reality, if you are in Jesus Christ you have everything since He holds everything in His hands.
We also want to address your mention of finding a "resource" or "place" to meet someone. It is important to have fellowship, and there is great importance placed on the gathering of the church (Acts 2:42). The church should be the first place to look for this fellowship. We urge you to seek God's will and to pray that He will lead you to a godly spouse if that is His will for you. We do not want to sugar coat the fact that you are giving the appearance of seeking a relationship outside of God's will because you mention a resource of people who share your interests. We urge you to seek not people who share your interests but people who love the Lord. After God, a spouse should be the most important thing in your life. It should not be treated hastily or taken lightly.
Remember that God's timing is perfect. Instead of looking for a sign, hold tight to God's promises in His Word. One such promise is in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Your child in prayer. We thank You for Your faithfulness in revealing their health issues and providing a job. We ask that You continue to guide them on the path to complete healing and give them strength for each day.
We also pray for their feelings of loneliness. Lord, we ask the Holy Spirit to bring others to their life to lift them up. We pray for Your comfort and peace for them. Remind them that You are always with them, and that You will never leave them nor forsake them. In Jesus' name we pray.
Father, we ask that You reveal to them Your will for their life. If it is Your will for them to have a spouse, we pray that You guide them and lead them to the person You have chosen for them. Help them to be patient and to trust in Your timing. Prepare them to be a godly spouse and bless their future marriage.
Help them to keep their eyes fixed on You, Lord, and not on their circumstances. Give them strength to endure each day, and remind them of Your unfailing love for them. Thank you for the plans and the future that You have for them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.