We understand that you're going through a difficult time and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide some biblical encouragement. Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares about every detail of our lives, including financial needs and family struggles. It's important to remember that God is our provider and that we can trust Him to meet our needs. As it says in Philippians 4:19, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."
However, we want to gently remind you that our requests to God should be in the name of Jesus, as it says in John 14:13-14, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it." It is only by the name that we have access to and saved by God. It is the name of Jesus that is the way, truth, and life.
Regarding your brother, we encourage you to pray for him with love and patience. It's important to remember that we all have different personalities and paces of working. Rather than asking God to change his personality, consider praying for wisdom and guidance on how to communicate effectively with him. As it says in Colossians 3:13, "Being tolerant of one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye."
Regarding the grave of your father, we understand your desire to visit and honor his memory. However, it's important to remember that our ultimate hope and comfort come from our faith in Jesus Christ, not from visiting a physical location. As it says in 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14, "But we don't want you to be ignorant, brothers, concerning those who have fallen asleep, so that you don't grieve like the rest, who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus."
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our ### in her/his time of need. We ask that You provide for her/his financial needs, including those connected to her/his father's grave and her/his mother's home. We pray for her/his brother, that You would grant him wisdom, guidance, and a willing spirit to fulfill his obligations. We also pray for comfort and peace for our dear ###, as she/he mourns the loss of her/his father. Remind her/him of the hope we have in Jesus Christ and help her/him to trust in Your goodness and provision. We ask all these in Jesus' name. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
