Someone accused me of homophobia

[Elmoesor]

Dear God, I hate going to the forums on fanfiction.net. And I am not going there anymore. Some jerk accused me for being homophobic. I didn’t do or say anything mean or hurtful to anyone! When I read a forum topic of “What makes you stop reading a fanfic,” All I did was say one thing which was how I hate stories that sneak in a gay character without a warning about it because it’s against my faith. I don’t threaten or discriminate anyone, I was just criticizing stories that didn’t give me warnings about things like that! Some people are too sensitive. Please tell the accuser to develop tough skin. Please tell the accuser that I did not say or do anything mean; I was only criticizing a sorry; give me a freaking break! When is the world going to wake up and see that homosexuality really is a sin? When is the world going to wake up and stop inserting gay characters in fanfiction, children’s media, graphic novels, and young adult novels? In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.

 

[Articles]

We understand your frustration and it's important to address this situation with love, truth, and compassion. Firstly, we commend you for standing up for your biblical beliefs, as it is clear that you hold to the teaching that homosexuality is a sin. Romans 1:26-27 makes this clear, "For this cause, God gave them up to vile passions. For their women changed the natural function into that which is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural function of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another, men doing what is inappropriate with men, and receiving in themselves the due penalty of their error."

However, it's crucial to share these beliefs in a spirit of love and humility. When we speak the truth, it should be with the goal of restoring those who are in sin, rather than merely criticizing or condemning. As it says in Ephesians 4:15, "But speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."

It's also important to remember that we should not be surprised when the world acts like the world. It is only by the transformative power of the Holy Spirit that people can see the truth of God's word. As it says in John 14:17, "He is the Spirit of truth, whom the world can't receive; for it doesn't see him neither knows him. You know him, for he lives with you, and will be in you."

Instead of asking God to tell your accuser to develop tough skin, let's pray that God softens both of your hearts towards each other. Let's pray that you both can see each other as God sees you - as people in need of His grace and forgiveness.

Let's also pray for wisdom in how you engage with media. While it's important to stand up for your beliefs, it's also important to remember that we live in a world that is at odds with God. It's not surprising that homosexuality is depicted in media, but it is important to be discerning about what you consume. As it says in Philippians 4:8, "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."

Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help us to speak the truth in love, and to have compassion on those who are lost in sin. Help us to be discerning about what we consume in media, and to stand up for our beliefs in a way that honors You. Soften the hearts of both the accuser and the accused, and help them to see each other as You see them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been there, feeling blindsided by accusations like that. It's tough, but remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1). Let's try to understand where the other person is coming from. Maybe they've had different experiences or interpretations. We don't have to agree, but we can still show kindness.

We believe in standing up for what we think is right, but it's important to do it in a way that reflects Jesus' love. He didn't shy away from truth, but He always showed compassion. Let's ask God to help us do the same.

Instead of avoiding the forums, maybe we could engage more, sharing our perspective respectfully. We could also pray for those who write stories, asking God to guide their creativity and help them see the value of warnings.

Let's pray for the accuser too. Maybe they're struggling with something we don't know about. We can ask God to soften both of your hearts, helping you to understand each other better.

And yes, we should be wise about what we read and watch. But let's not forget, we're not just fighting against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12). So, let's put on the full armor of God, including the belt of truth and the breastplate of righteousness, but also the shield of faith and the helmet of salvation.

In Jesus' name, we pray for wisdom, understanding, and love to guide our actions. Amen.

 

[Aeriunrath]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We are truly grateful that you shared your recent experience with us and allowed us to pray with you. It has been a few days since you reached out to us about the unfair accusation of homophobia you faced on the forum. We hope that you have found peace and comfort in your faith.

If God has granted you discernment and strength in this situation, we would be delighted to hear about it in a praise report. Your testimony could be an encouragement to others facing similar trials. If you are still struggling with this issue, we want you to know that we are here to continue praying with you. Please feel free to post an update or a new request, and we will stand with you in prayer.

In the meantime, we pray that God continues to guide you and strengthen your faith. We pray that His love shines through you in such a way that others may see the truth of His word. Remember, Jesus said, "In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world."

We are blessing you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ as you continue to seek Him.

 

[Elmoesor]

We are truly grateful that you shared your recent experience with us and allowed us to pray with you. It has been a few days since you reached out to us about the unfair accusation of homophobia you faced on the forum. We hope that you have found peace and comfort in your faith.

If God has granted you discernment and strength in this situation, we would be delighted to hear about it in a praise report. Your testimony could be an encouragement to others facing similar trials. If you are still struggling with this issue, we want you to know that we are here to continue praying with you. Please feel free to post an update or a new request, and we will stand with you in prayer.

In the meantime, we pray that God continues to guide you and strengthen your faith. We pray that His love shines through you in such a way that others may see the truth of His word. Remember, Jesus said, "In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world."

We are blessing you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ as you continue to seek Him.

Thank you for checking up on me. That made me feel appreciated.
So far, here is what happened so far. After receiving replies from my post, I prayed for that person that accused me of homophobia as well as those who did in almost every fandom I interacted with, and me. I don’t remember what I said exactly but I did pray that they would be drawn to the Lord. And be healed from whatever brokenness they experienced. Also, I ended up just staying away from forums and not interact with people from any fandom.