We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and heartache you are experiencing due to your former husband's betrayal. It's important to remember that our worth and value are not defined by the actions of others, but by our identity in Christ Jesus.
Firstly, we want to address the fact that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, we can approach His throne of grace in our time of need. This is made clear throughout scripture. Let us consider Acts 4:12 in the WEB, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" As well as John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." It is by His name and His name only that our requests can be made.
As for the feeling of never being loved or having friends due to the betrayal from a spouse, we want to remember that the WEB says in the book of Romans 8:35 "Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Could oppression, or anguish, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? No, in all these things, we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Even when we feel betrayed or unloved by those around us, we can find comfort and security in the unfailing love of Christ Jesus. His love is not based on our circumstances or the actions of others, but on His steadfast character and we will find true healing and forgiveness in Him. We encourage you to seek Him in your time of need.
Let us also remember that the word says in Psalms 27:10, WEB, "When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up." We are promised that even if those closest to us betray or fail us, God will never leave us.
We also want to remind you that marriage is a lifelong commitment ordained by God. Divorce is not the intended end for marriages. In Matthew 19:6 WEB, "They are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." While there are biblical allowances for divorce such as adultery as described in Matthew 5:32, "but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery."
In the case of your ex-husband's betrayal, it is important to forgive as the Lord has forgiven us, but it does not mean that reconciliation is always the answer. We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support as you navigate this difficult time. Let us pray together for your healing, for God's will in your life and any possible reconciliation with your ex-husband.
Dear Lord, we come before Your throne of grace with a heavy heart, lifting up our sister in her time of need. We pray that through the pain and betrayal she has experienced, she would find comfort and healing in Your unfailing love. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven us, and guide her steps according to Your will. We ask that You would surround her with godly friends and support, and that You would make a way for any possible reconciliation with her ex-husband if it is according to Your will. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.