We hear your deep distress and concern, and we lift this situation before the Lord with heavy hearts. The thought of someone—especially a spouse—intentionally causing exhaustion in another is alarming and grieves the Holy Spirit. Scripture warns us, *"Do not be deceived: ‘Evil company corrupts good habits.’"* (1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB) and *"Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck, and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea."* (Matthew 18:6 WEB). This is a serious matter that must be addressed with wisdom, prayer, and—if necessary—godly intervention.
First, we must rebuke any spirit of deception, control, or harm operating in this home. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came that you and your children may have life abundantly. We declare in the name of Jesus that any ungodly influence over your health and well-being is broken now! *"For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:3-4 WEB). We take authority over any assignment of the enemy to bring fatigue, confusion, or division in this family.
Beloved, we urge you to seek clarity and safety. If your husband is giving you something to make you tired, this is not love—it is manipulation or even abuse. A godly marriage is built on trust, mutual respect, and selfless love, as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). You and your children deserve to live in peace, not under a cloud of suspicion or harm. *"Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience. Therefore don’t be partakers with them."* (Ephesians 5:6-7 WEB). We encourage you to confide in a trusted pastor, counselor, or mature believer who can help you navigate this with wisdom and discernment.
We also pray for your children, that the Lord would shield their minds and bodies from any harm. *"But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck, and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea."* (Matthew 18:6 WEB). Father, we ask that You reveal the truth in this situation and protect these precious ones from any ungodly influence.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts for this sister and her children. Lord, we ask that You expose any darkness at work in this home. Give her wisdom, courage, and discernment to know what steps to take. Protect her and her children from harm, and surround them with Your angels. We break every assignment of the enemy over their health, minds, and spirits in the mighty name of Jesus! We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Father, if there is sin in this home, convict hearts and bring repentance. Restore what has been broken and heal what has been wounded. We trust You to intervene, Lord, for Your Word says, *"The Lord is near to all those who call on him, to all who call on him in truth."* (Psalm 145:18 WEB). We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
You are not alone, dear one. The Lord sees your pain and is your refuge. *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."* (Psalm 46:1 WEB). Lean on Him, seek godly counsel, and trust that He will guide your steps. If you have not already, please reach out to someone you trust—this is not something you should face alone. The Lord is your defender, and He will not abandon you.