Selfish
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We join you in lifting this request before the Lord, for He alone can transform hearts and renew minds. Selfishness is a struggle we all face in this fallen world, but through Christ, we are called to love others as ourselves and to put their needs before our own. The apostle Paul reminds us in Philippians 2:3-4, *"Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility consider one another as more important than yourselves; don’t each of you look only to his own interests, but each of you also to the interests of others."* This is the heart of Christ, who laid down His life for us while we were still sinners.
Your desire to change is a sign of the Holy Spirit working within you, convicting and guiding you toward godliness. Let us also remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 22:37-39, *"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. A second likewise is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’"* When we love God first, our love for others flows naturally from that relationship.
We also commend you for calling upon the name of Jesus in your request, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As Scripture declares in John 14:6, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* There is no other name by which we can be saved, and it is in His name that we boldly approach the throne of grace.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the heart of repentance and surrender that You are cultivating in Your child. Lord Jesus, You who were rich yet became poor for our sake, we ask that You break the chains of selfishness in this beloved one’s life. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in love, patience, and selflessness toward their family and all those You have placed in their path. Heal them, Lord, of every wound, struggle, and stronghold that hinders them from reflecting Your love. Renew their mind by Your Word, and let them see others through Your eyes—valued, cherished, and worth sacrificing for.
Father, we pray that You would open their eyes to the needs of their family, giving them wisdom to serve, encourage, and uplift them in practical ways. Let their home be a place where Your peace and selfless love abound. Strengthen them in their weaknesses, and remind them daily that true joy is found in giving, not in receiving. May they find their fulfillment in You alone, knowing that as they seek first Your kingdom, all these things will be added to them.
We rebuke the spirit of selfishness and pride in the name of Jesus Christ, commanding it to flee from this life. Let the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—flourish in them abundantly. May their family see Christ in them, and may their home be a testimony of Your transforming power.
We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who gave Himself for us that we might live for Him. Amen.
Brother or sister, we encourage you to meditate daily on the Word of God, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path. As you draw near to Him, He will draw near to you. Be intentional in serving your family—whether through small acts of kindness, listening ears, or sacrificial love. Remember, even our Lord Jesus *"did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many"* (Matthew 20:28). Let this be your example.
If you ever feel overwhelmed, take heart in 1 John 5:14-15, *"This is the boldness which we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."* Keep seeking, keep praying, and keep trusting—He who began a good work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6). You are not alone in this journey; we are standing with you in faith.
Your desire to change is a sign of the Holy Spirit working within you, convicting and guiding you toward godliness. Let us also remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 22:37-39, *"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. A second likewise is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’"* When we love God first, our love for others flows naturally from that relationship.
We also commend you for calling upon the name of Jesus in your request, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As Scripture declares in John 14:6, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* There is no other name by which we can be saved, and it is in His name that we boldly approach the throne of grace.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the heart of repentance and surrender that You are cultivating in Your child. Lord Jesus, You who were rich yet became poor for our sake, we ask that You break the chains of selfishness in this beloved one’s life. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in love, patience, and selflessness toward their family and all those You have placed in their path. Heal them, Lord, of every wound, struggle, and stronghold that hinders them from reflecting Your love. Renew their mind by Your Word, and let them see others through Your eyes—valued, cherished, and worth sacrificing for.
Father, we pray that You would open their eyes to the needs of their family, giving them wisdom to serve, encourage, and uplift them in practical ways. Let their home be a place where Your peace and selfless love abound. Strengthen them in their weaknesses, and remind them daily that true joy is found in giving, not in receiving. May they find their fulfillment in You alone, knowing that as they seek first Your kingdom, all these things will be added to them.
We rebuke the spirit of selfishness and pride in the name of Jesus Christ, commanding it to flee from this life. Let the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—flourish in them abundantly. May their family see Christ in them, and may their home be a testimony of Your transforming power.
We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who gave Himself for us that we might live for Him. Amen.
Brother or sister, we encourage you to meditate daily on the Word of God, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path. As you draw near to Him, He will draw near to you. Be intentional in serving your family—whether through small acts of kindness, listening ears, or sacrificial love. Remember, even our Lord Jesus *"did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many"* (Matthew 20:28). Let this be your example.
If you ever feel overwhelmed, take heart in 1 John 5:14-15, *"This is the boldness which we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."* Keep seeking, keep praying, and keep trusting—He who began a good work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6). You are not alone in this journey; we are standing with you in faith.
We're right there with you, praying for a heart that's more attuned to the needs of your loved ones. It's a tough battle, but remember, we're all in this together, and Jesus is fighting alongside us. Let's keep asking Him to help you see your family through His eyes, to love them as He loves you. And let's not forget to thank Him for the desire He's already placed in your heart to change. That's a great start! Keep pressing on, brother/sister. We're believing with you for a transformed heart and a home filled with love and peace. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep seeking. You're not alone in this. Let's keep lifting each other up in faith. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting you and your heart before the Father in these past days. It is a sacred privilege to stand alongside you in prayer, asking God to soften your heart toward your family’s needs and to break the grip of selfishness in your life. We know the Lord hears the cries of those who seek Him with humility, and we trust He is already at work in ways both seen and unseen—shaping your desires, renewing your mind, and drawing you closer to His heart of selfless love.
If you’ve begun to notice even small shifts—a new awareness of your family’s needs, a growing burden to serve them, or a release from the weight of selfishness—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs to keep pressing into prayer. And if this struggle still feels heavy, if the battle against self persists, we invite you to post this request again as a fresh cry for help. We are here to keep interceding, to keep believing with you that the Lord who began this good work in you will carry it to completion.
May you sense His nearness today as you surrender each selfish thought, each moment of frustration, and each fear of not measuring up. He is faithful to meet you in your weakness and to replace your burdens with His yoke—which is easy, and His burden—which is light. We’re continuing to pray that you’ll experience the freedom and joy that comes from walking in His love, putting others first as Christ did for us.
Praying for you still, in Jesus Name.
If you’ve begun to notice even small shifts—a new awareness of your family’s needs, a growing burden to serve them, or a release from the weight of selfishness—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs to keep pressing into prayer. And if this struggle still feels heavy, if the battle against self persists, we invite you to post this request again as a fresh cry for help. We are here to keep interceding, to keep believing with you that the Lord who began this good work in you will carry it to completion.
May you sense His nearness today as you surrender each selfish thought, each moment of frustration, and each fear of not measuring up. He is faithful to meet you in your weakness and to replace your burdens with His yoke—which is easy, and His burden—which is light. We’re continuing to pray that you’ll experience the freedom and joy that comes from walking in His love, putting others first as Christ did for us.
Praying for you still, in Jesus Name.
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